Summoning Harley Spencer (bamf!)

[STDiva]

I don't.makeup with selfish cheating cunts.

 

[STDiva]

This is funny. She cheats. I call her out and I'm the asshole. How am I an asshole? Because I'm not kissing your ass like everybody else around here does? Ohh poor baby. I'm sure you had good reason to go behind your man's back. Aww poor Harley. She's got it so tough. I forgot you have a pink name. My bad!!!!

 

[lurkingdirk]

 

[Harley Spencer]

This is funny. She cheats. I call her out and I'm the asshole. How am I an asshole? Because I'm not kissing your ass like everybody else around here does? Ohh poor baby. I'm sure you had good reason to go behind your man's back. Aww poor Harley. She's got it so tough. I forgot you have a pink name. My bad!!!!

Did I say anything about a pink name? I don't recall doing so.

You're an asshole for telling me to be an adult and stop being a bitch, when you're not even being an adult. I'm 21 and don't care about anyone else in the world? You know nothing about me. You have no fucking clue what I've been through in my life. I'm 21, yes, but I am far from a 21 year old girl that goes out to bars, gets wasted, flirts around, and acts like there's nothing more important in the world than having fun. I've been there, I grew out of that stage when I was 19. I've done the drugs and I drank every consecutive day and night away for a year before I even turned 21. Now I work my ass off as a restaurant manager, I have my website, and I have little time in my personal life.

I've been through more than half the people in the world will ever experience in their entire lives. I've been hit, I've been raped, I've watched my step dad get the shit beat out of him by his best friend while he already had a broken bone, I've sold my body for money, I moved out and started living on my own at the age of 17, I paid my own doctor bills as a kid, I haven't seen my dad in 10 years, I've been through hell and back. I've had my heart broken so many times I've lost count. I grew up as the ugliest girl you could imagine, with a cleft lip and extra crooked teeth, only having hand-me-down clothes from my spoiled brat step-sister. My parents have been evicted from multiple homes and who is there to support them when they can hardly afford to feed themselves, living off of a bear that my step-dad shot 2 years ago because they can't afford to buy fresh meat? Me. I buy them groceries when I don't even buy myself groceries, I'm there for them even though they were hardly there for me growing up. I never so much as got a, "Hello, how was school?" when I would come home from school, having walked a mile up the road from the bus stop because my mother wouldn't come pick me up. Even after nearly every single one of my boyfriends in the past cheated on me, I still have the heart, after it was smashed into a million pieces, to be friends with them.

So go ahead you fucking asshole, tell me that I don't care about anyone else in the world!

 

[vodkazvictim]

In fairness it should be pointed out that I, VV, Uber-troll & King of cunts choose not to cheat, despite having the same woman for about 6 years. I'm so horny that if that fucking neighbours cat walks by with it's tail in the air once more.

So yeah... Cheating is not-allowed.
Dump him instead.
Then I assume things will be worse between her and the guy that you're having an affair with than they are with your current guy (who in fairness sounds like a complete cunt & I've no idea why you're together).

 

[STDiva]

I quit reading when you started your whole woe is me shit. Whatever it is you've been though, it doesn't justify your actions. You suck.

I told you to be an adult and dump your bf. Why wouldn't you? Quit using your past as an excuse to be a cunt now.

 

[Hondarobot]

Did I say anything about a pink name? I don't recall doing so.

You're an asshole for telling me to be an adult and stop being a bitch, when you're not even being an adult. I'm 21 and don't care about anyone else in the world? You know nothing about me. You have no fucking clue what I've been through in my life. I'm 21, yes, but I am far from a 21 year old girl that goes out to bars, gets wasted, flirts around, and acts like there's nothing more important in the world than having fun. I've been there, I grew out of that stage when I was 19. I've done the drugs and I drank every consecutive day and night away for a year before I even turned 21. Now I work my ass off as a restaurant manager, I have my website, and I have little time in my personal life.

I've been through more than half the people in the world will ever experience in their entire lives. I've been hit, I've been raped, I've watched my step dad get the shit beat out of him by his best friend while he already had a broken bone, I've sold my body for money, I moved out and started living on my own at the age of 17, I paid my own doctor bills as a kid, I haven't seen my dad in 10 years, I've been through hell and back. I've had my heart broken so many times I've lost count. I grew up as the ugliest girl you could imagine, with a cleft lip and extra crooked teeth, only having hand-me-down clothes from my spoiled brat step-sister. My parents have been evicted from multiple homes and who is there to support them when they can hardly afford to feed themselves, living off of a bear that my step-dad shot 2 years ago because they can't afford to buy fresh meat? Me. I buy them groceries when I don't even buy myself groceries, I'm there for them even though they were hardly there for me growing up. I never so much as got a, "Hello, how was school?" when I would come home from school, having walked a mile up the road from the bus stop because my mother wouldn't come pick me up. Even after nearly every single one of my boyfriends in the past cheated on me, I still have the heart, after it was smashed into a million pieces, to be friends with them.

So go ahead you fucking asshole, tell me that I don't care about anyone else in the world!

STDiva has probably never been laid and is angry, so just ignore him.

Soooo. . . What does bear taste like? I've had wild boar, but not bear. I imagine it's very tough to chew, unless used in a stew or chili or something. I'd like to try it, I just never encountered it before.

 

[Harley Spencer]

I quit reading when you started your whole woe is me shit. Whatever it is you've been though, it doesn't justify your actions. You suck.

I told you to be an adult and dump your bf. Why wouldn't you? Quit using your past as an excuse to be a cunt now.

I'm not using my past as an excuse. I hate people that do that shit. I personally know people who do that, who will talk about how they've been forced to have sex with their boyfriends or their mom is a bitch, and one girl actually said, "If you'd been through what I'd been through, you'd be a bitch too." I don't expect people to pity me, and I don't take my anger or frustrations or personal problems out on other people. I leave it at the door.

Who the fuck wouldn't be a bitch to someone that just came out of nowhere and told them to be an adult and to stop being a bitch? I was perfectly fine before you came around. I would happily have a constructive conversation with someone about how it's bad to cheat, if they didn't insult me. You're acting like I don't know that it's bad to cheat! Never, ever did I say it's ok to cheat. I know it's wrong. I tell myself every single day, all day, that what I'm doing is wrong. Actually going through and manning up and either ending the affair or ending my relationship with my boyfriend isn't as easy as telling myself that I need to do it is. I know life isn't easy, so don't bother saying it. I have been mentally debating what to do and how to do it for weeks now.

Just because someone is doing something wrong doesn't mean you have to go up to that person and blast off insults, call them a bitch, tell them they're a 21 year old girl that doesn't care about anyone else, call them a cunt, and taunt them. I am a human being. People do bad things, I have done bad things, I still do bad things, but that doesn't mean that I am a bad person. Everyone makes mistakes, everyone does shit they're ashamed of. Everyone has gone through some serious shit in their lives.
You can't go up to someone and just go off on them about how they're such a piece of shit. You have to take into consideration that they are a human being, that they have feelings, that they have problems, and that they're not stupid. You have to have faith in people. And for you not taking any of that into consideration, that makes you an asshole.

 

[Ace Bandage]

Gotta agree with Diva. If you cheated on a guy, tell him. It's much worse than not knowing, and there's no excuse for continuing the relationship. Part of being an adult is owning up to your decisions. Good and bad. The rest of your traumatic life has no bearing on this situation.

I cheated on a girl a few years ago. So I told her about it. On her birthday. After not buying her a present. And telling her that she had to move out. That's being a boss.

 

[Harley Spencer]

STDiva has probably never been laid and is angry, so just ignore him.

Soooo. . . What does bear taste like? I've had wild boar, but not bear. I imagine it's very tough to chew, unless used in a stew or chili or something. I'd like to try it, I just never encountered it before.

Some people like bear, some don't. It depends on how it's prepared, as with any other food. I visited my mom a week or two ago and she made meatloaf with the bear meat and I wouldn't have known it was bear if she hadn't told me. It tasted exactly like beef.
So with seasoning and such, bear tastes pretty good. There's some animals I won't eat though simply because I've seen them butchered or was forced to help butcher them. I won't eat deer (my step-dad is a hunter and would have me help him butcher the deer, cut the meat, and grind some of it into hamburger), turkey, rabbit, or squirrel. I've seen them all skinned, gutted, and cut up, and I can't take that stuff. Makes me sick to my stomach.

 

[Hondarobot]

Gotta agree with Diva. If you cheated on a guy, tell him. It's much worse than not knowing, and there's no excuse for continuing the relationship. Part of being an adult is owning up to your decisions. Good and bad. The rest of your traumatic life has no bearing on this situation.

I cheated on a girl a few years ago. So I told her about it. On her birthday. After not buying her a present. And telling her that she had to move out. That's being a boss.

Thankfully this all happened in your imagination.

 

[STDiva]

Yes it is easy. Just break up. You've been complaining about the guy on here for as long as I've seen you posting. Where is the difficulty? Is it easier juggling two guys and dealing with the guilt? Nope. And if you know its wrong, why do it?

Some people's kids...

 

[Hondarobot]

Some people like bear, some don't. It depends on how it's prepared, as with any other food. I visited my mom a week or two ago and she made meatloaf with the bear meat and I wouldn't have known it was bear if she hadn't told me. It tasted exactly like beef.
So with seasoning and such, bear tastes pretty good. There's some animals I won't eat though simply because I've seen them butchered or was forced to help butcher them. I won't eat deer (my step-dad is a hunter and would have me help him butcher the deer, cut the meat, and grind some of it into hamburger), turkey, rabbit, or squirrel. I've seen them all skinned, gutted, and cut up, and I can't take that stuff. Makes me sick to my stomach.

Yeah, I've had to witness the butchering process too, when I was kid. It sucks.

 

[Ace Bandage]

Thankfully this all happened in your imagination.

No, that actually happened. The girl was crazy though. We were headed for a breakup anyway. I just hurried to the conclusion by cheating on her.

I felt really bad about it after a month or so and reconciled with her. We're on good terms now, but we're not friends by any means.

 

[Harley Spencer]

Gotta agree with Diva. If you cheated on a guy, tell him. It's much worse than not knowing, and there's no excuse for continuing the relationship. Part of being an adult is owning up to your decisions. Good and bad. The rest of your traumatic life has no bearing on this situation.

I cheated on a girl a few years ago. So I told her about it. On her birthday. After not buying her a present. And telling her that she had to move out. That's being a boss.

I know, like I said, I tell myself this stuff all the time. It's tough to do. Especially in my situation- we live together, we work together, we have a dog and now a new kitten. If I go out to live on my own without him, I will have nothing. I will not be able to afford life. Personally, I make less than $12,000/yr. Just under $12,000 is the poverty line. So to break up with him will mean losing my job, my home, my pets, and a lot my personal belongings. I'd most likely go to live in New York, and there's no way I can take all of my personal belongings with me.

Again, that's not an excuse, and no, I'm not using him for what he provides me with. I fell in love with him for who he is, I fell in love with him before we lived together. I am simply saying that breaking up with him will mean an entire life change for me. It's a very tough decision. I have to either end it with the other guy or I have to end it with him. And ending it with him will mean figuring out what I'm going to do and how I'm going to do it before I do it. God knows he's going to be heartbroken and will be pissed and will want me out immediately.

The difference between you and some other people on here and Diva is that you guys are constructive. You aren't insulting. He's being a straight up jackass about it while you are being reasonable. I'm not pissed off at Diva for telling me that cheating is wrong, I'm pissed off at Diva for being a dick about it.

 

[STDiva]

I know, like I said, I tell myself this stuff all the time. It's tough to do. Especially in my situation- we live together, we work together, we have a dog and now a new kitten. If I go out to live on my own without him, I will have nothing. I will not be able to afford life. Personally, I make less than $12,000/yr. Just under $12,000 is the poverty line. So to break up with him will mean losing my job, my home, my pets, and a lot my personal belongings. I'd most likely go to live in New York, and there's no way I can take all of my personal belongings with me.

Again, that's not an excuse, and no, I'm not using him for what he provides me with. I fell in love with him for who he is, I fell in love with him before we lived together. I am simply saying that breaking up with him will mean an entire life change for me. It's a very tough decision. I have to either end it with the other guy or I have to end it with him. And ending it with him will mean figuring out what I'm going to do and how I'm going to do it before I do it. God knows he's going to be heartbroken and will be pissed and will want me out immediately.

The difference between you and some other people on here and Diva is that you guys are constructive. You aren't insulting. He's being a straight up jackass about it while you are being reasonable. I'm not pissed off at Diva for telling me that cheating is wrong, I'm pissed off at Diva for being a dick about it.

Lol. Constructive vs being a dick. Sorry, you don't deserve constructive criticism. Why do you think you deserve better? You're being a scumbag, and I'm treating you like one. For the record, if I cheated, I would expect to be treated exactly as I am.treating you. It's wrong, and you're a loser for doing it.

 

[Hondarobot]

Lol. Constructive vs being a dick. Sorry, you don't deserve constructive criticism. Why do you think you deserve better? You're being a scumbag, and I'm treating you like one. For the record, if I cheated, I would expect to be treated exactly as I am.treating you. It's wrong, and you're a loser for doing it.

Are you dating now, or married, or have you ever been in a relationship (and chatting with girls online doesn't count)?

 

[STDiva]

Dude. Sticking up for Harley isn't going to get you in her pants. She's seeing someo...oh wait. Maybe it will!

 

[Hondarobot]

Dude. Sticking up for Harley isn't going to get you in her pants. She's seeing someo...oh wait. Maybe it will!

Just watch what you say.

 

[Vanilla Bear]

I'm sorry Harley, but I'm absolutely with Diva here. It's so lame you have an affair. I told you shouldn't be with your guy just, because he's so sweet and that bullshit...He doesn't deserve you 'cause he's egoistic.

But he doesn't deserve to be cheated on anyway. Just be an adult and break up with him.


Oh and you can go to Lurky. I don't want a cheating girl. Thanks. :hatsoff: