Still virgin?

Hi guys,
i wanted to ask if you are still virgin or not? i'm actually 28 years old and i had never a girl friend, so i'm still virgin. :( and is here somebody still virgin like me? :rolleyes:
 

plucap

Banned
Just get drunk or high, be honest with some girl that's drunk/high too and say you want to fuck her and how beautiful she is. Try it until you succeed and eventually you're not a virgin anymore. Trust me, not only men want to get laid like that once in a while.
 
I'm a virgin, and in no particular rush to change it. If it bothers you, the local bar or club is probably your best bet. As long as you don't mind if there's plenty of alcohol involved, it shouldn't be a problem finding someone willing to help you with your condition if you try a couple of nights. Not the most romantic way maybe, but if you're just looking to get it done...
 
Get the fear of rejection out of your head and talk to some women. If you do not a decade will pass and you will still be a virgin.
 
Get the fear of rejection out of your head and talk to some women. If you do not a decade will pass and you will still be a virgin.

I agree.

If you're not dating at all, there's a good chance you're unwilling to take chances, far too self-conscious, too afraid of rejection.

You're 28 years old and you've never had a girlfriend. Most people already think you're a loser, so if you're burdened with fears about perception, you really have nothing else to lose. Taking chances can only improve your non-existent love life. If you ask out a thousand women, and only one responds positively, you're in a better position than if you ask out none at all.

Don't give a damn what people think of you. Force yourself to grow a thicker skin. It's obviously important to balance this with the obvious societal and moral concerns -- you don't go doing something that's going to hurt someone, or do something that will lose you your job. But if someone laughs at you or thinks less of you for failing to hook up with that hottie, so what? Fuck 'em. Your worth as a human being is not determined by what other human beings think of you.

While it's a good idea to develop that kind of attitude, it's also okay to bear in mind that it can be difficult to shake fears and doubts completely. Virtually everyone still worries about rejection from time to time -- you're in the same boat as everyone else in that regard. But at some point (usually during adolescence), most people realise that the pain of inaction and regret is far worse than the pain of rejection. For whatever reason, you've never made that cognitive leap, but perhaps now is the time for you.

A large portion of confidence comes from practice, familiarity and that thicker skin. Actually talking to girls often will make you more comfortable around them. Regularly trying to charm women will probably make you better at actually charming them. Funny how that works, isn't it? ;)

In the end, you've got to ask yourself... do you want to live the rest of your life trying to improve, or are you all ready to give up?
 

ChefChiTown

The secret ingredient? MY BALLS
Hi guys,
i wanted to ask if you are still virgin or not? i'm actually 28 years old and i had never a girl friend, so i'm still virgin. :( and is here somebody still virgin like me? :rolleyes:

I'm not a virgin, unfortunately, but I'm 26 years old and I've only been with one girl before. I wish I never slept with her to begin with, but I can't change that.

There's nothing wrong with being a virgin. Personally, I think it's a very admirable quality for someone to have. Don't worry about the girlfriend issue either...there are plenty of other people who have never had a boy/girlfriend.
 
Hey man go out and get some pussy, there are so many sluts to fuck out there dont get depressed. You sound like confidence maybe the issue, just like someone else said here, go out and take chances, if you see a hot slutty looking girl, go straight up to her and ask her to suck on your dick a little, what do u have to lose dude? Look at how dirty these pornstars are here, plenty of women out there are just like em, go out and find em, and be agressive, dont waste time dude, good luck!
 
MIDDLE AGED HOOKERS!!!!

Just wear a condom so you don't get typhus.
 
Hi guys! thanks for all your advices!!! but actually i'm religious (islam), too. and i can only have sex when i'm married, that's also another reason. anyway i hope i will marry one day and stop watching porn, too. because that's also forbidden in Islam!

Best Regards,
arabian
 

slowhand

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Nope I lost in along time ago.
 
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