So Sick of These People

Fucking too right Harley, too fucking right. No one knows you and your business than you, and no one has the right to tell you what to do.

I find so many (mainly straight, white, middle to upper class guys) who [...] think they know better about [...] pretty much everything.

Hmm. Sounds like you're saying my ignorance is, like, a virtue or something. I feel better about myself now! :D
 

Harley Spencer

Official Checked Star Member
Fucking too right Harley, too fucking right. No one knows you and your business than you, and no one has the right to tell you what to do.

I find so many (mainly straight, white, middle to upper class guys) who are brothel rats or visit lots of porn sites think they know better about not just the adult industry, but about pretty much everything. They are in such a privileged position in society and are just so used to having their thoughts and feelings and opinion validated (even if they arent valid) and always getting listened too simply because of status they don't even know they have, that they feel entitled and justified in sticking their nose into anyones business and giving unsolicited advice and opinions. Lucky these days I'm finding they are much more few and far between but when you meet one of them it's beyond infuriating. Guy sounds like he's got issues, and with guys like that even if you did 5 way triple anal bang bangs live on cam, they'd still stir shit, whine and give useless, unsolicited advice.

People don't get that we aren't all just in it only for the money. Some of us pour our hearts and souls and real sexuality into our work. You have every right to be shitty, and offended and not sit by meekly so you can be appealing and perfect 24/7 like a robot. Youre a person, and your feelings are totally valid. It's so shitty that people are so.. blah. I totally get it.

Your fans and members love you already doing what you do. If you don't offer what peeps want, peeps can go elsewhere. I hope you can stay positive beautiful xxx

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This is probably pretty much completely and totally true. Good point!

Hmm. Sounds like you're saying my ignorance is, like, a virtue or something. I feel better about myself now! :D

You're not ignorant. I'm sure you know very well the basics of what makes the most money in the adult industry, and you know even more than that. You are far from ignorant. The people who talk a lot of shit and a big game are usually the people who, in reality, know very little.
 
You're not ignorant. I'm sure you know very well the basics of what makes the most money in the adult industry, and you know even more than that. You are far from ignorant. The people who talk a lot of shit and a big game are usually the people who, in reality, know very little.

Aw, there's the ringing endorsement I was hoping for! :o :drawheart:

And yeah, Aeryn is absolutely right. Some people just feel the need to try and boss other people around, to try and assert dominance over the people around them. No matter what you do or don't do people like that will be never be happy, because it's not about them, and they need everything to be about them. Your site is yours, and it's about you... some people just can't accept that they aren't the center of everyone's universe.
 

Harley Spencer

Official Checked Star Member
Don't do anal. Too many girls are getting pressured into doing it and it is just wrong.

Well seeing as I don't do b/g porn, anal in that sense is out of the question. However, I have done anal in my personal life and sometimes I did enjoy it, and on my website I've done tons of stuff with anal beads, butt plugs, and fingering my ass.

PS. And DP porn is my favorite.
 
[B][URL="https://www.freeones.com/harley-spencer said:
Harley Spencer[/URL][/B], post: 7505889, member: 579739"]Well seeing as I don't do b/g porn, anal in that sense is out of the question.
Crap:brick:
[B][URL="https://www.freeones.com/harley-spencer said:
Harley Spencer[/URL][/B], post: 7505889, member: 579739"]However, I have done anal in my personal life and sometimes I did enjoy it, and on my website I've done tons of stuff with anal beads, butt plugs, and fingering my ass.

PS. And DP porn is my favorite.
Yessssssssssss:banana:
 
[B][URL="https://www.freeones.com/harley-spencer said:
Harley Spencer[/URL][/B], post: 7506457, member: 579739"]Really?! Yay! Let me know what you think.
The Merry Christmas set is spanktastic!
 

Harley Spencer

Official Checked Star Member
The Merry Christmas set is spanktastic!

Isn't it? I liked that one too, not to toot my own horn or anything :o My all time favorites are probably the New Year sets, but I also really like my most recent sets with the realistic dildo vibrator.

EDIT: I've been trying and wanting to get a new feature enabled into my website where you can click on a photo and it'll pop up big in the same window, then you can just click next or back to view the entire set, instead of having to click each individual picture. But neither myself nor my webmaster know how to implement that feature :(
 
Hi Harley, How you doin Baby! Just wanted to say never to let those idiots get to you k, Its one thing to take criticism but to have people telling you what they think you should be doing is not right. You are your own person and should always be, Thats what makes you Unique!!! :yesyes:
 

Maggie Green

Official Checked Star Member
Harley, I agree with all of the other ladies in that you have every right to be pissed and feel shitty. You obviously have a real passion for what you do and not everyone in this biz can say the same. Keep sticking to your guns and do what YOU want to do!!
 
The only thing Harley that I would recommend is that the video and pictures have multiple pages instead of one long one. Makes it easier to go and find a set you want to download but passed over when looking around. I will make notes of where a certain set was (page number and how many down)and go back and download it later. If I dl to much at one time my compooter gets slower. :2 cents:
 
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