So i think my gf might be cheating on me :/
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Possibly, it was just a few little things that seemed to suggest that that was the case.
And oh yeah, nearly forgot,
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WHO IS THAT?!
I have seen this gif. before and I...
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WHO IS THAT?!
I have seen this gif. before and I...
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I believe it to be Shay Laren.
Oh, and by the way:
Anyways, this dude whining about his GF is bugging me.
I had a GF once and she dumped me...
then she did a gangbang in a bar I wasn't invited to and now everyone in town makes fun of me for it.
Then heard she took off with some nutbag and got paid to get donkey punched.
*sigh*
She went off the deep end.
...it's one of those days
I had a GF once and she dumped me...
then she did a gangbang in a bar I wasn't invited to and now everyone in town makes fun of me for it.
Then heard she took off with some nutbag and got paid to get donkey punched.
*sigh*
She went off the deep end.
...it's one of those days
SpexyAshleigh
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Sure but the Depo shot also helps regulate iron deficiency anemia (which I have struggled with), PID, endometriosis, dysmennorhea (which I suffer from), ovulation pain (which I suffer from), ovarian cysts (which I suffer from) ...the list goes on. Alot of women suffer from these conditions, and certain forms of birth control help regulate it. And not to mention, the Depo shot is given every three months...is it perhaps likely that maybe she chose this form of birth control so that when and if (by the sounds of the OP's first post, a VERY big if lol) she hooks up with the OP, she'll be covered against pregnancy, without the hassle of having to take a pill everyday? Sorry, I'm just giving my two cents as a girl, most of the girls I know remain on birth control in some form whether or not they have regular sex. My own sister in law stayed on BC after having her tubes tied lol. I'm just saying to the OP, her being on any form of birth control doesn't immediately mean that she's fucking around on him. Most women are on birth control even if they're not having sex....its just something we do to keep us safe from pregnancy, but also to help with other hormonal issues.
I'm actually more interested in your opinion of whether the OP was out of line by asking or even questioning why she would be taking birth control when they are supposedly in a relationship and not having sex. I think that is a fair question to ask. The OP only said that it "makes her feel "safe"". That response just sounds odd to me.
Damn. all my favourite titties in one place.
SpexyAshleigh
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Most girls take birth control so that if and when sex does occur, they're covered. If they're in a relationship, then guaranteed sex will eventually happen, so she's likely just covering her bases for when that time comes. Birth control usually takes a month or two of using it for it to be effective anyways, so she's probably just being smart. I started taking birth control for a full year before I even had my cherry popped because I was in a relationship and knew that sex was imminent...I wanted to make sure I was doing everything I could to prevent pregnancy. It'd be no different honestly, if the OP was carrying around condoms, or had them stored in his apartment...which I'm sure he does because what guy DOESN'T carry condoms "just in case"?
Taking measures to prevent pregnancy is an everyday occurrence for most women, regardless of if they're having sex or not. For the OP to question his gfs faithfulness is just showing weakness in his trust in her, which could ultimately ruin what they have if he doesn't talk to her and get some clarity. A girl taking birth control doesn't = her being sexually active, and he needs to realize that and sort it out without jumping to conclusions that'll ultimately damage the relationship. Maybe long distance relationships aren't what he can handle, seeing as he's having trust issues.
If this were me and I was dating a guy long distance, and he flew off the handle because I told him I was on BC....I'd freak out right back at him. Birth control is just the norm for most girls and the fact that she outright told him she was on it, probably means that she wasn't cheating on him (why would she say ANYTHING if she had something to hide?) and I'd be willing to bet she was just trying to hint to the OP that she wanted some cock when she see's him. lol.
SpexyAshleigh
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I dunno, maybe I'm just more laid back in my relationships. But if I was dating a guy, and we hadn't had sex yet, but I saw condoms in his bathroom, or saw one in his wallet, I wouldn't freak out and think he was screwing around on me. That'd be horribly stupid, don't ya think?
It's more a question of taking prescription meds. Just a personal thing for me maybe. I'm just not into shooting hormones or popping pills unless it's really necessary at the time. I have high blood pressure for instance and the meds I take keep it low but not perfect. I suppose I could get a doctor to give me viagra to help out. If you found that in the medicine closet, would you ask why?
I also think he would be an ass if he automatically assumed that she was unfaithful. I am only saying that I think it is ok to ask her. Being a dick about it is just that.
SpexyAshleigh
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Well no offense, but you're a guy who doesn't HAVE to take hormone treatments to prevent pregnancy. Its not even an option for you. But for us girls, its a part of everyday life. You can't even compare it to taking Viagara, because its not even the same thing. Birth control is just one of the facts of our life if we want to take control over our bodies and our sexual health, just like you guys buying and carrying around condoms is for you. So taking birth control IS necessary for us, just like it'd be necessary for you to wrap your weiner during intercourse. I'm sorry you have high blood pressure, and that you have to take meds for it, but that has absolutely nothing to do with a girl taking birth control- its not even the same thing. We aren't treating a disease, we're preventing an unwanted pregnancy, again, just like guys are when they buy condoms.
So I do think this guy IS out of line for assuming she's unfaithful...and he did ask her, and she DID give a reasonable response. She's just being safe. Its not like she can pop a birth control pill before they have sex like you can with a condom...you have to continually be on it for it to work, so she's just taking care of shiz. He should be thanking her for being so responsible with her body and their potential future sex life.
SpexyAshleigh
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oh and this thread needs moar bewbs.
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Those are lovely, whose are they?
SpexyAshleigh
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They belong to me duhhh:tongue:
To honest, and take no offence, Ive never looked at your work....
SpexyAshleigh
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No offense taken...I don't really have "work" lol. I'm just a regular, everyday camhoe lol.
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