So i married. Can i continue watching porn?

[dbradford8589]

As long as you are not so addicted to it and neglect her its fine. You have to be honest about it and she hopefully isn't the jealous type and ask you to stop.

 

[emceeemcee]

pfft of course you can't


I won't waste valuable freeones real estate by listing all of the things you can longer do now that you're married. Welcome to the man-made prison that is marriage.

 

[Boothbabe]

Ofcourse you can! My wife and I watch porn regularly.

 

[lechepicha]

pfft of course you can't


I won't waste valuable freeones real estate by listing all of the things you can longer do now that you're married. Welcome to the man-made prison that is marriage.

prison?

that doesn't sound too good. :crying:

can you elaborate on that, mate ?

if you have to hide it, probably not the best thing for the relationship. But it's way hotter to watch it together, so give it the old college try: get her drunk, get her hot, and put it on. See what happens.

:thumbsup:

i already try that and didn't work
she just said she didn't like it

Ofcourse you can! My wife and I watch porn regularly.

now THAT'S gotta be hot!

 

[emceeemcee]

prison?

that doesn't sound too good. :crying:

can you elaborate on that, mate ?

I'm just stirring really :o


I wish you all the best!

 

[LukeEl]

only if you surprise her with a pasta salad can you watch porn.

 

[izabelplayer]

its normal. you can't always think about the same women.

 

[SpexyAshleigh]

Depends on how your wife feels about it. How would you like it if your wife watched pics of guys that look better than you all day long. After a while wouldn't you start wonderin' if she likes looking at them so much why doesn't she be with them? Same thing many girls think. I think if she's cool with it, then go for it, if not then it aint right bro. And that's why I (ahem) hide mine:tongue:

My opinion goes something along the lines of this. You just got married, so its probably not a good idea to hurt her or piss her off too much...and obviously its something that bothers her so I think you should maybe have an honest sit down with her and find out why. If it makes her feel insecure, then find out what would make her feel LESS insecure. If she finds it disrespectful to women, then ask her if theres a kind of porn that would make her feel better about it. Marriage is all about compromise, thats something you gotta deal with. If you want her to give you the ability to watch porn, you gotta meet her halfway and give her something too, whether thats setting limitations, or choosing something less pervy to give her the peace of mind. Don't listen to these dillholes telling you to lie about it and go behind her back - dishonesty is not something that should ever exist in a marriage. Would you want to be lied to about something that hurts or bothers you? Do things the mature, adult way, and just talk to her. If theres something she wants in return, give it to her. If porn isn't worth all that hassle, then give it up completely. You married her, so she's gotta be pretty damn important to you, so really think about whats worse - living without porn, or living without the woman you love, because you lied to her and she found out.

Or, just do what I always advise to guys who have this issue- ask your woman to make you her own porn. Give her a camcorder, some sexy outfits, some fun toys and tell her to go nuts for an afternoon so when you get home from work, you have your own bating material. Worked in my relationships, and I know its worked for others too.

 

[Zolf J. Kimbly]

my advice would be to get in touch with bruce wayne immediately. no body is as good at hidin secrets as he is. if he can lead a double life without alarming anyone then hiding porn should be a cakewalk.

 

[L3ggy]

I'm going to stop visiting adult sites when I get married, but that's just me.

 

[PirateKing]

No you can't, you sick fuck. Instead you should just perform an at home castration as a show of good faith to your wife.

 

[vodkazvictim]

is it right ?

should i discuss it with her ?

am i fuckin' sick ?

:dunno:

Either:

1) Discuss it with her because you're too much of a wimp to be your own man and do what you want without the permission of she who must be obeyed.

2) Watch it behind her back because you haven't got the bollox to discuss it with her.

3) Don't watch it because she's got you under the thumb, pathetic excuse for a man that you are.

4) Watch it and ignore what she says because you're an insensitive twat.

Yes I know I've been rude, but don't take it seriously, I'm in category number 2.
I actually think porn helps me stay faithfull. If I can't masturbate while watching a redhead getting a good face splattin' then who knows, I might find a redhead and give her that facesplattin' meself.

 

[tartanterrier]

I would ask her 1st and she how she feels about it.But it wouldn't stop
me from looking at it

 

[KimoraKlein]

Watching porn with your girlfriend/wife is the BEST! Talk dirty about what you both like to see (*COUGH* Kimora *COUGH*) and go go go!

 

[Bloodshot Scott]

Hmmmm, Lech, I don't know. If you want to explode you load into her probably avoid the porn (if you jerk). :dunno:

 

[Teddy X]

Go head, it dont matter in my book!!!

 

[anairhead999]

I'm not married but I hope so

 

[lechepicha]

I actually think porn helps me stay faithfull. If I can't masturbate while watching a redhead getting a good face splattin' then who knows, I might find a redhead and give her that facesplattin' meself.

i think that too, but i'm concern that she doesn't!

Watching porn with your girlfriend/wife is the BEST! Talk dirty about what you both like to see (*COUGH* Kimora *COUGH*) and go go go!

:tongue:

thanks for your answer, darling

but unfortunately she's not as spicy as i would want.

Hmmmm, Lech, I don't know. If you want to explode you load into her probably avoid the porn (if you jerk). :dunno:

i give that a tough as well.

can i just eat a lot of pinneaple ?

Don't listen to these dillholes telling you to lie about it and go behind her back - dishonesty is not something that should ever exist in a marriage. Would you want to be lied to about something that hurts or bothers you? Do things the mature, adult way, and just talk to her. If theres something she wants in return, give it to her. If porn isn't worth all that hassle, then give it up completely. You married her, so she's gotta be pretty damn important to you, so really think about whats worse - living without porn, or living without the woman you love, because you lied to her and she found out.

WOW! :eek:

nice answer, mate!

THANKS a lot. You got me thinking now...

Or, just do what I always advise to guys who have this issue- ask your woman to make you her own porn. Give her a camcorder, some sexy outfits, some fun toys and tell her to go nuts for an afternoon so when you get home from work, you have your own bating material.

i wish...

 

[hedonis]

How about being YOU. If you watch porn, continue doing it. I'm not saying watch it and yank your crank monkey right in front of her (unless that totally turns her on), but the moment you go down the dark road of appeasement and doing things just for approval, you're in for a long, miserable ride.

Be yourself.

 

[Arden Adamz]

Ask her what she thinks about it... Sometimes women don't want their husbands watching porn because they feel left out... Usually guys just want a fantasy and to experience some variety... If you offer to watch it together (and let her pick it out!) You Might be surprised and get some great insight. Most relationship issues stem from a communication barrier. I would suggest being totally upfront with her. Find something you both like and most importantly-- vocalize your attraction to her so she doesn't feel left out.. You'll never sound like a broken record telling your wife how much her sweet ass turns you on, or how hot her tits look bouncing while she rides your cock. In the end if she's totally anti-porn... Turn your own sex life together into a raunchy escapade...Either way, you win!
xoxx
Arden