So, I just lost my virginity...

[t806]

Just had an encounter with an escort and got laid for the first time. While it was pleasurable, and the lady was really nice and helped me get the ropes of things, I find myself wondering at the fact that very little of it wasn't quite what I expected, the whole thing seemed surreal. I've put this off till I'm 27, and I often wondered if losing my virginity would change my life in some profound way, and was surprised to find that the only major breakthrough was that there was very little change. I feel like I can go the rest of my single days now without screwing another woman, now that I got it out of my system. Jacking off alone seems to achieve the same ends, even without that sexy woman moaning and saying encouraging things. I didn't expect to feel this way at all.

Anyone else experience something like this their first time? Still trying to make sense of it here.

 

[mrtrebus]

Lost your virginity?!? Check down the back of the sofa, it might be there!

 

[t806]

Oh no, my friend. It's as far away from me now as the east is from the west.

 

[BlueBalls]

First time's are never that great. I would advise you to continue on with this quest

It gets a lot better ... trust me :hatsoff:

 

[titsrock]

OP: There's more to life than the missionary position. :dunno: If you liked this escort, continue to use her and experiment. See what kinds of positions you like...:dunno:

Did you try out anything or was it boob fondle>hand job> blow job>Mish>Cum>Shower....

 

[Jeep!]

Apart from being a milestone, the first time really doesn't mean anything. I've always maintained that there's only two fucks worth remembering in your life - the best one and the most recent one, and ideally they should be one and the same. I found that I had a great confidence boost after my first time, that lasted maybe a week, before I just settled back to being the same ol' guy, but I tend to feel good about myself after every shag anyway. It's good that you had someone encouraging and helpful, though, as that lets you ease in without being too nervous, so you enjoy yourself more. I wouldn't discount it happening again, though, as I can tell you, I love wanking but it's just not the same as a good night of passion - your hand's never gonna whisper your name while you lick its clit, after all. But hey, congrats on it.

 

[thebear247]

you had sex and you lost your virginty good for you but myf riend you aint living until you make love with a woman all day and night long till she walks funny the next morning

there is a difference between sex and making love

 

[busenbust]

Congrats!!! :beer: :drinks:

 

[boobmanz]

You shouldn't draw too definite conclusions after the first. My first time was also disappointing. Don't forget you were having sex with someone who makes a living out of it. Having sex with someone who wants it just as bad as you, can off course make a whole lot of difference.

 

[mrtrebus]

First time's are never that great. I would advise you to continue on with this quest

It gets a lot better ... trust me :hatsoff:

It doesn't. . .trust ME!

 

[BlueBalls]

It doesn't. . .trust ME!

:1orglaugh

Well, it gets better for some of us

 

[t806]

Actually, it wasn't so much what we were doing, titsrock. For my first time, I thought the variety of activities was pretty good and I performed better than I expected (taking longer than just 2 min to pop, for instance). It's more that it didn't feel quite like what I expected. It was fun, but I just felt out of my element and somewhat overwhelmed at the circumstances (half the time I found myself in disbelieve that I was even there doing what I was doing, lol).

It went like: receive massage, kiss and fondle, bj, cock riding till i came, rest, finger fuck her, missionary fuck her till she came (or at least claimed to), doggy fuck, and finished off with prone fuck till i came. Started out slow and gentle, but got to boning her pretty hard, though she didn't seem to mind.

 

[mrtrebus]

half the time I found myself in disbelieve that I was even there doing what I was doing, lol.

I still get that feeling sometimes!

 

[busenbust]

:rofl:

 

[Yankeefan21325]

It may sound sappy and stupid, but when you have sex with a woman that you are completely 100% in love with, well then my man, you will get the full effect of it. Doing it with the woman you love, well nothing compares.

 

[t806]

I recently learned to fly private airplanes and some of what I'm feeling now reminds me of what I felt when I first took the controls of an airplane. It just feels foreign and unusual.

Anyway, thanks everyone for your input. Helps to get some things off of one's chest. Hope things get better for you mrtrebus.

 

[Ainttalkinlove]

Its way better when your banging out a bunch of random chicks all the time. it almost feels like you lose a little piece of yourself every time I... I mean you do it.

 

[DOA82]

You sound almost disapointed by it. Youve done it and lack of desire to do it again? Did you not enjoy it, or was it the fact you had to pay for it, making it devoid of genuine emotion and sensuality between two people who genuinely want one another.

Try it with a girl you feel something for, who isnt there for the night to lick your balls, cash her cheque and hit the road. Someone who was there before and will be after and see how much you want to do it afterwards.

 

[titsrock]

Actually, it wasn't so much what we were doing, titsrock. For my first time, I thought the variety of activities was pretty good and I performed better than I expected (taking longer than just 2 min to pop, for instance). It's more that it didn't feel quite like what I expected. It was fun, but I just felt out of my element and somewhat overwhelmed at the circumstances (half the time I found myself in disbelieve that I was even there doing what I was doing, lol).

Putting on my armchair Psych Coat for a minute...it sounds like you're merely feeling guilty for having followed a *nontraditional* path toward losing your virginity, that's all. We all get the standard American conditioning of being with a high school sweetheart (or maybe even less than that). You went a different path.

I would look at is as you being very smart, actually. If you wanted to learn how to golf, you would seek out a professional for lessons.

Make another appointment or two and then try out your "game" with some new partners....

 

[mrtrebus]

putting on my armchair psych coat for a minute...it sounds like you're merely feeling guilty for having followed a *nontraditional* path toward losing your virginity, that's all. We all get the standard american conditioning of being with a high school sweetheart (or maybe even less than that). You went a different path.

I would look at is as you being very smart, actually. If you wanted to learn how to golf, you would seek out a professional for lessons.

Make another appointment or two and then try out your "game" with some new partners....

"in the hole!!"