Slapping Women

[LukeEl]

I'd rather have them knock me some sugar my way.

 

[cindy CD/TV]

what about when girls slap girls in a porn. what do u guys think about that?

No slapping. :nono: Men (including transgender gurls) should NEVER hit a woman, ever. Unless she want's to be spanked. And if girls want to slap each other harmlessly and playfully, that's OK. But if they're really clocking each other, that results in instant limpness for me. Aside from a light tug on her hair during doggie style or some harmless spanking, violence and porn don't ever belong together. IMO. :2 cents:

 

[emceeemcee]

:1orglaugh



I like the bit when Barbara Walters says "he's been happily married for years and we've heard no complaints from his wife"


gee, I wonder why.

 

[Niels]

I never slap a woman and I will never do it!!!

 

[VeronicaVice]

i grew up in a fam with domestic abuse. its not cool.

rough sex is way different.

 

[RichardNailder]

i grew up in a fam with domestic abuse. its not cool.

rough sex is way different.

Agree -

I grew up in a family that had zero abuse but we played very rough.


I abhor abuse but rough sex does not have to be abuse. I have a pretty good sense of a lover's comfort level and always back off it something isn't just right. I get sick when I see a scene where you can tell the poor girl is totally terrified - just not cool in my book.

 

[Njosnavelin]

If you don't like women getting slapped then you can't watch half the porn that's made these days.

Definitely nothing done by Rocco or that one punk who's in all the bondage porns.

Man he has done some fucked up shit its wrong even to laugh at it but like this one I saw with nessa devil. He's giving it to her then some other chick in another room gives off a scream like she is his woman and he is doing the dirt. It stops him getting off so he goes into the room and roughs her up. Fuck some shit lmfao. Don't approve and not into that shit but that one I saw. Ahhh I'll say no more digging holes.

 

[girk1]

No slapping. :nono: Men (including transgender gurls) should NEVER hit a woman, ever. Unless she want's to be spanked.

I totally disagree with Sean Connery advocating the casual striking of women in basic conflict resolution. 'Slap a nagging/annoying woman to keep her in line?' is messed up.

If you feel a woman has pushed you that far(point of violence) and you feel you can't reason with her it is time to give up on that relationship. I recently ended a relationship because of an annoyingly confrontational girlfriend who was sucking the fun out our relationship.

But your 'NEVER' under any circumstances hit a woman stance I find a bit wrongheaded.

If my EX-girlriend cut off my penis and threw it down a fucking garbage disposal that skank would be LUCKY if I ONLY slapped her. Or dumped boiling hot grits on me like Al Green's ex, or bit off my tongue,etc.... or thousands of other fucked up things women do to men because they believe the guy probably won't retaliate.

(AL Green and the dick the down the disposal guy were probably a bit too preoccuipied with medical emergencies to do any ASS kicking though:1orglaugh)

I understand with good reason why women have the moral high ground over men when it comes to violence ,but women just like men should understand there wil be 'consequences and repurcussions' for certain acts.

 

[STDiva]

If a woman is violently hitting me or threatening me with a weapon, I'm going to ko her. You're a bitch if you just put up with that and using the "I don't hit women" thing as an excuse. I've been slapped before, but I deserved it. That's not the same as being attacked. Sorry ladies, but if you're going to be tough and throw fists and plates, you're going to get it back.

 

[cindy CD/TV]

I totally disagree with Sean Connery advocating the casual striking of women in basic conflict resolution. 'Slap a nagging/annoying woman to keep her in line?' is messed up.

If you feel a woman has pushed you that far(point of violence) and you feel you can't reason with her it is time to give up on that relationship. I recently ended a relationship because of an annoyingly confrontational girlfriend who was sucking the fun out our relationship.

But your 'NEVER' under any circumstances hit a woman stance I find a bit wrongheaded.

If my EX-girlriend cut off my penis and threw it down a fucking garbage disposal that skank would be LUCKY if I ONLY slapped her. Or dumped boiling hot grits on me like Al Green's ex, or bit off my tongue,etc.... or thousands of other fucked up things women do to men because they believe the guy probably won't retaliate.

(AL Green and the dick the down the disposal guy were probably a bit too preoccuipied with medical emergencies to do any ASS kicking though:1orglaugh)

I understand with good reason why women have the moral high ground over men when it comes to violence ,but women just like men should understand there wil be 'consequences and repurcussions' for certain acts.

To clarify, I was specifically referring to sex/porn. But domestically a man should never ABUSE a woman. Now, if some crazy wench is attacking me with a knife ... well that's different. Obviously.

 

[Ravenholm]

Only in self defence because I have every right to defend myself from ANYONE who attacks me. Even those who have a vagina who might think such a thing gets them right of passage most of the time. But striking first? nope I wont strike first. But I will strike back!.

 

[Basedow]

The great Leslie Nielsen seemed to be on the same page as Sean Connery

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i0GW0Vnr9Yc&feature=channel_video_title

 

[RichardNailder]

What about all the battered men?

http://www.batteredmen.com/

 

[BCT]

If you're going to slap a woman, there is only one way to do it:

LMAO Ive done that a few times :clap:

 

[Baill Inneraora]

I slap my gf on the buttocks! She likes it!

 

[RichardNailder]

LMAO Ive done that a few times :clap:

Did it cause any permanent damage to your nose? :dunno: :1orglaugh

 

[RichardNailder]

Slap your woman once a day. If you don't know why, she does.

 

[Rey C.]

No slapping. :nono: Men (including transgender gurls) should NEVER hit a woman, ever. Unless she want's to be spanked. And if girls want to slap each other harmlessly and playfully, that's OK. But if they're really clocking each other, that results in instant limpness for me. Aside from a light tug on her hair during doggie style or some harmless spanking, violence and porn don't ever belong together. IMO. :2 cents:

Wouldn't it be more consistent to simply say that "people shouldn't slap other people?" That's pretty consistent and much easier to avoid pitfalls, yeah? I mean, is it acceptable for a female nurse to hit an elderly male patient? I would say, no. At the nursing home where my father was for a time, there was an incident involving a female nurse and a male patient (not my father, thank God for her). She hit the old man when he wouldn't follow her directions, and apparently had a habit of raising her hand as if she was prepared to strike others.

I think it's great to have a sense of chivalry, even though few other aspects of chivalry exist anymore, as if they ever did in reality. And despite my appearance or demeanor, it has never been my way to intimidate people or beat people up just because I could. But I also give no quarter to people just because of their gender, race, religion or sexual orientation. I try to treat people as they treat me and those close to me. So I'm sorry to have to say, had that female nurse ever even raised her hand to my father (the King of the Manor, in my eyes), I would have beaten her like a rented government mule. And that's the same treatment I would have given a male nurse. Only if that person could get God at their shoulder before I began to unload on them would I rethink my actions. I don't have children, but if I did, the same would hold true in that case. My family means more to me than anything else in this world. I care more about them than anything, and a person's gender would not protect them from me if they sought to harm them. The only choice such a person would have is to fight or run. High heels aren't conducive to either, so being a somewhat fair fellow, I would give them the opportunity to shed those. Other that that, we are going to dance!

But I suppose what's really being discussed here is the "play acting" in porn. There's some increasingly weird shit out there these days ("weird" being decided by the viewer). But as far as I know, that which is produced (in the U.S., anyway) involves actors who sign release forms and are free to walk off set if something is happening that they are uncomfortable with... just like any other type of movie. But from the days of the Meese Commission, I know that different treatment was given to maledom movies vs. femdom movies. And I am opposed to double standards. If you don't like something, my simple rule is don't watch it. One rule for all.

 

[Rane1071]

If James Bond recommends it, it's got to be cool. Right?

Seriously. I think Rey C covered it pretty well. Apart from some slap-ass during sex I wouldn't think of hitting women.

However, if some sheila's out of control and swinging her fists and attacking. Well. Equal rights and all that ...

 

[24 Grams]

Slapping in the face? :nono: The ass?:yesyes: Spitting in their faces?:yesyes:

The former is assault. The latter two? Affection? :dunno: