signs she is interested?

Supafly

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I had two workplace relationships and one went good, one went baaad.

First with a colleague from another department. That, in my opinion, is the one that is low-risk. When we broke up, we just ran across each other randomly, and with time, we were fine again.

The bad kind was with a girl from the workgroup right next to mine. She drove me nuts, I split up, and two months later, lucky me, she mecame my group leader. Man, I did not get so many shitty things to do for ages.

But on the whole, I would say, go for it, you can always find another job, huh ;)
 
Dont do it man, look at Anders and Petra. Its really not worth it and it will annoy the fuck out of your colleagues.
 
Speaking for myself, I wouldn't. The reason being 1/ workplace relationships are a bad idea and people say this for a reason- they are. If you get together and it doesn't work out one of you, probably you, will have to leave that job because of the awkward atmosphere and in this economic climate that's financial suicide. 2/ The Other Guy. Not much needs to be said here unless you want a fight. Stay in the friend zone unless she makes a clear move on you. Hugs and asking about her nails and stuff that's common female behaviour and does not indicate romantic interest.
 
I agree with the previous poster, don't take anything a girl says to heart. It's probably just normal talk for them. You could always try to ask her out anyways but just understand that because she's friendly with you doesn't mean she want to fuck you. I've went out with a girl before who just sang my praises all day, then one day she told me she was pregnant with another dude's baby. Take everything lightly.
 

Mr. Daystar

In a bell tower, watching you through cross hairs.
Workplace romances aren't always bad. I guess it depends on the people in question. Yeah, more often than not, it causes trouble. But for example, with me, I've been dating my guy for over 2 years and we work at the same place. That's how we met. And it hasn't caused us any problems. The only problems we have are in the bedroom.

I do believe you and your boyfriend are in the minority though. I've NEVER had anything good come from it...but by the same token, you can't win, if you don't play, so there it is.
 
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