Sick of being lonely

[spegeln]

I just wanted to ventilate my misery.... I am turning 40 in a month or so. I haven´t had sex since 2003 I think. 1o years and I am so sick of
feeling like a social retard, fat, ugly and the list goes on... I am a pretty nice guy I think and I used to be outgoing but everything is just at a stand still and my self esteem is at the bottom of the deepest sea. So for my 40 years birthday I want to be liked just for one day...What should I do to have one day of a feeling of being liked... please cheer me up, give advice, send me free sex coupons, pay for surgery so I can look like a ordinary dude...
Thank god that I have porn. My beautiful family...

I got it...!! I will start a fund " Help Niklas get laid, donate to "October spawned a monster"

Maybe when I turn 50...

enjoy the summer folks, I love you all!

 

[Mayhem]

Well, that was a troubling peek behind the curtain.

I recommend you spend your birthday with Sam Fisher. Your self-esteem will raise immeasurably and you'll realize that your life doesn't suck at all (comparitively speaking).

 

[L3ggy]

Fyrtio är ju det nya tjugo.

 

[CrimsonBolt]

Fyrtio är ju det nya tjugo.

what???
do you want a hug?

 

[Lacey Black]

Buy a gym membership and commit to going at least twice a week. I guarantee you will feel better about yourself in a month and probably meet some nice people too.

 

[Deepcover]

Whatever you do don't kill yourself. A few years ago a user killed himself because he didn't have a gf. The gym, Church activities or even joining a dance class would do you right imo.

 

[DOA82]

Whatever you do don't kill yourself. A few years ago a user killed himself because he didn't have a gf. The gym, Church activities or even joining a dance class would do you right imo.

Really?

But in regards to the OP, lose the self pity, go out and meet people. Be awkward, be nervous, just don't sit there, get off your lazy ass and go out!

 

[Deepcover]

Really?

But in regards to the OP, lose the self pity, go out and meet people. Be awkward, be nervous, just don't sit there, get off your lazy ass and go out!

Yeah it was pretty disastrous. He was teased obviously on FO but it looked like he really ended his life cause he hasn't be online since and a lot of ppl were wondering if he really ended his life. Pretty sad but you know it happens.

 

[PierreDK]

what???
do you want a hug?

Fyrre er jo det nye tyve.

 

[georges]

I am single since 2006 but it doesn't prevent me to be happy. Sometimes it is better to be single than be in bad company. Sometimes, it is the love who finds you and you don't have to get mad in order to hope to be in relationship. Those are just my thoughts.

 

[Mr. Daystar]

But in regards to the OP, lose the self pity, go out and meet people. Be awkward, be nervous, just don't sit there, get off your lazy ass and go out!

THIS!! You wanna feel better? Watch the Jerry Springer Show....seriously. All it sounds like to me, is you need to interact with hmanity. Be yourself, and treat people the way you wanna be treated. The worst a girl can do, is turn you down...big fucking deal. Her lose. If you're that nice of a person, it'll show through in your personality...and anyone that judges you based on anything more, isn't really anyone you want to waste your time with.

Happy Birthday....and many more.

 

[luis1972]

Get a pet...

 

[Jack Davenport]

When someone feels the need to post something like this on a board especially on such a personal level I worry that people will say something to them that will make their despair worse. Tread carefully people.

When you reach the point that you reach out to strangers it says a lot about the seriousness of the depression.

 

[Philbert]

This oughta cheer ya up...
Two
Three

Yes, I'm lonely
Wanna die
Yes, I'm lonely
Wanna die
If I ain't dead already
Whoo!
Girl, you know the reason why

In the morning
Wanna die
In the evening
Wanna die
If I ain't dead already
Whoo!
Girl, you know the reason why

My mother was of the sky
My father was of the earth
But I am of the universe
And you know what it's worth
I'm lonely
Wanna die
If I ain't dead already
Whoo!
Girl, you know the reason why

The eagle picks my eyes
The worm he licks my bone
Feel so suicidal
Just like Dylan's Mr. Jone
Lonely
Wanna die
If I ain't dead already
Whoo!
Girl, you know the reason why

The black cloud crossed my mind
Blue mist 'round my soul
Feel so suicidal
Even hate my rock and roll
Wanna die
Yeah, wanna die
If I ain't dead already
Whoo!
Girl, you know the reason why

Yes, I'm lonely
Wanna die
Yes, I'm lonely
Wanna die
If I ain't dead already
Whoo!
Girl, you know the reason why

In the morning
Wanna die
In the evening

Been done before, misery is nothing new; third world folks would laugh at the Western idea of suffering, and kiss your feet for a chance to suffer the life the OP has...
I'm not sympathetic; old story: no balls.

 

[Jack Davenport]

The worm he licks my bone

Will E. will not be happy about that.

 

[greatjob]

I just wanted to ventilate my misery.... I am turning 40 in a month or so. I haven´t had sex since 2003 I think. 1o years and I am so sick of
feeling like a social retard, fat, ugly and the list goes on... I am a pretty nice guy I think and I used to be outgoing but everything is just at a stand still and my self esteem is at the bottom of the deepest sea. So for my 40 years birthday I want to be liked just for one day...What should I do to have one day of a feeling of being liked... please cheer me up, give advice, send me free sex coupons, pay for surgery so I can look like a ordinary dude...
Thank god that I have porn. My beautiful family...

I got it...!! I will start a fund " Help Niklas get laid, donate to "October spawned a monster"

Maybe when I turn 50...

enjoy the summer folks, I love you all!

it's true what they say, "the grass is not always greener..." you pretty much described me in your first 4-5 sentences. I got a gf finally after a 10 yr drought and have been with her for past 6 months. the relationship is good but it comes with a price. ive lost most of my freedom and everything got complicated. sometimes i'd rather be single again. I suggest you buy a book called "The Game" by Neil Strauss. he was a fat and ugly nerd just like us and now he bangs 10's on a weekly basis. imagine having 1 or 100 supermodel girlfriends, lol. the book is definitely the man's bible and helped me get my gf. i'm convinced any man can get a 10, you just gotta put some effort into it. I hope this helps you feel better.

 

[Philbert]

it's true what they say, "the grass is not always greener..." you pretty much described me in your first 4-5 sentences. I got a gf finally after a 10 yr drought and have been with her for past 6 months. the relationship is good but it comes with a price. ive lost most of my freedom and everything got complicated. sometimes i'd rather be single again. I suggest you buy a book called "The Game" by Neil Strauss. he was a fat and ugly nerd just like us and now he bangs 10's on a weekly basis. imagine having 1 or 100 supermodel girlfriends, lol. the book is definitely the man's bible and helped me get my gf. i'm convinced any man can get a 10, you just gotta put some effort into it. I hope this helps you feel better.

I'm sure the OP will run out and get your awesome book, Neil...why not be a lame BS artist and scam women using a great book...?

The OP seems like a hooker's dream client to me...why wait 10 years?

 

[Philbert]

Will E. will not be happy about that.

May not be related...:dunno:

(I worry about that cyber-lawyer.)

 

[greatjob]

I'm sure the OP will run out and get your awesome book, Neil...why not be a lame BS artist and scam women using a great book...?

The OP seems like a hooker's dream client to me...why wait 10 years?

I'm not the author and the book is cheap. just trying to help since it helped me.

 

[Deepcover]

Get a pet...

Haha