Should I get engaged?

[brodkill]

 

[abrogate]

Nah, just buy a woman you hate and buy her a house.

Just kidding...I've past my 15 year anniversary recently and am very happy. Smartest thing I ever did (maybe the dumbest she ever did) Go with your heart. When it works it is great. There are no sure things in life.

 

[Red Spyder]

We all got to die some day.

 

[SpexyAshleigh]

My advice? Don't do it. You said you're not 100% sure she's the one, and my motto in life is "if in doubt, DON'T." Ask her to move in and spend a year getting to REALLY know each other. And if at the end of the year, you can't see your life without her in it, then do it. Marriage isn't something to jump into simply because you love the person - people fall in and out of love very easily. You both gotta be really invested in it and a year just isn't alot of time. Its hard work, more than people realize...and its not something to rush into. And this coming from someone who has been married and has learned a thing or two about it :2 cents:

 

[squallumz]

/\ like i said, you'll know. you'll know with every molecule in your body when you have the right one.

 

[Baill Inneraora]

If you wait long enough, you'll find something wrong with her......or she'll find something wrong with you!

 

[Straight Shooter]

My advice? Don't do it. You said you're not 100% sure she's the one, and my motto in life is "if in doubt, DON'T." Ask her to move in and spend a year getting to REALLY know each other. And if at the end of the year, you can't see your life without her in it, then do it. Marriage isn't something to jump into simply because you love the person - people fall in and out of love very easily. You both gotta be really invested in it and a year just isn't alot of time. Its hard work, more than people realize...and its not something to rush into. And this coming from someone who has been married and has learned a thing or two about it :2 cents:

I meant I'm not 100% sure about proposing. But I'm pretty sure to almost positive she's the one. But I'm definitely going to think about all this.

 

[dirtylittleholly]

Don't do it unless you're 100% sure. It should be one of the best times of your life and you don't want to go into it with doubts.

 

[vodkazvictim]

No.
Been there, know the next step and let me tell you...
NO.