I suppose it's a matter of perception... When one lives like a princess, moving one's ass from the couch might indeed be considered as a being hard to be a single mom...
Either way, I never send money to foreign people and if I suddenly felt the need, I'd start from somewhere else... You know, like something that actually helps poor kids instead of their lazy mommas wasting it all to live over their means, while using their childrens shamelessly as an excuse to drain money from poor "nice guys", then spend it all on drugs or something useless... While in some worse cases they even being completely unwilling to even work or try something else for their money?
Tons of people in porn do this. I see it on my Twitter timeline all the time. They need money for rent, car repairs, implants, new computers, etc. If fans want to help pay, who cares.
...I see, in other words you do openly support a form of scamming action.