First time at 18 with a 35 years old woman (very sexy mature -she was a hip-hop dance teacher that I met in a bar-)
Then 2 girl friends for short time (not together ).
I'm extremely picky when it comes to who I'll date (not so much with looks, but with personality), perhaps even to a fault, and I don't typically go for one night stands.... so I'm still at 6. I don't go for prostitutes either.
Quality, not quantity, is what's important. Anyone can go get laid. I don't understand why people feel a need to keep some sort of a "count," as it were. It makes you no more of a man or woman, or more an attractive man or woman, if you have had many partners.
I've had a few partners, yes, but not a LOT, and if I had my wishes, I'd only have had ONE. Sometimes it doesn't work that way, but it's (having had just one) certainly nothing for which to be ashamed or by which to feel emasculated or shrewish.
Besides...sex can kill you these days (HIV). Be careful, everyone. Keep it safe, and use your best discretion!!! :hatsoff: :glugglug:
like a member above said, "can I count hookers?" if that's so then gee, I think around 10, maybe more maybe less, if only non-hookers, then... 1 though if life were perfect I'd still be with her today as she was my first girlfriend as an adult.
i've had 2 ladies, but they where both long term relationships.
i dont do the one night stand thing.
but i've done a fair bit of fooling around if you know what i mean (not full sex for tha people who dont get me) :1orglaugh
Yes I agree numbers are not important. I have had 3 all who I have loved. I was just curious to see what the average was around here. Though these replies have given me an idea to do a thread about hookers...
i seemed to have thrown it around more than most on here. when i met my wife i had had sex with about 11 women. we split up after a few years and stayed seperated for nearly 3 years. when we got back together i think the number had gone up to about 32. i just count it as an early midlife crisis.