Sex Predicament...

[Big Sly]

Ok so I have been in a relationship with my GF going on about 2 years now. I couldn't ask for a better lover. She is beautiful and fulfills my needs in every way possible. Emotionally, and sexually. You could say I'm addicted.

But an interesting proposition arose. My closest friend and his girlfriend have been trying to spice up their sex life and are at the end of their rope. They have tried toys, videos, and some kinky stuff. Nothing is working for them. His girlfriend brought up the possibility of a threesome. My friend thinks its a good idea but heres the thing: they can't decide on whether or not to have another girl or another guy join them. They've talked it over with us and my girlfriend suggested they have two threesomes: one with a second man and one with a second girl. They loved that idea but now they want to have a threesomes with me and my girlfriend separately.

I'm very enticed by all of this (I have always found my best friends girl sexually attractive) and my girlfriend is very open and willing, but I'm just not exactly sure how the threesome experience works. I was wondering if anyone could share any stories they have that would help me and my girlfriend get into this more to help them out. It would be much appreciated!

Thanks in advance-

-big sly

 

[SN4P3]

no advice here, i wouldn't do it...i have a friend with a HOT g/f with a huge rack who i would love to tittyfuck, but if my only shot at doing that was in a 3 some with them...i couldn't do it. i don't want to see him naked, let alone cross swords with him.

 

[Big Sly]

honestly, I've known this guy since we were kids and i think i would be comfortable enough that him being naked wouldn't bother me. as for crossing swords...idk i plan on having my sword inside of his gf most of the time. thanks for the input though. i'll definitely take that stuff in mind

 

[Will E Worm]

I wouldn't do it either. It can turn out badly.
Let them work on their life by themselves.
If they truly love each other they really don't need a threesome. :hatsoff:

 

[Torre82]

Someone is always hurt by a threesome in the same way that when you try to take a shower with your girl.. someone is always left cold.

 

[JohnnyThompson]

is your best friend gonna bang your GF too? gotta take that into consideration as well. I mean if you and your GF are not swingers, why start with your best friend and his girl?

 

[Big Sly]

wow i think we are pretty much talked out of it

thanks everyone for the advice and keeping us from making a big mistake. it's looking a lot like we aren't gonna go through with this after all.

cheers :thumbsup:

 

[jamrak]

maybe it would be better to start from a foursome? to get know each other closely, to raise the level of the trust... I think there is less place for jealosy when you all do it at the same time and in the same place altogether. And by the way, in a foursome there are more chances for everybody to get involved in equal measure, to get share of the cake

 

[Big Sly]

wow that almost makes too much sense...good lookin' out.

 

[calpoon]

the thing is that there's nothing wrong with wanting to have a threesome, because... well, you're into threesomes...

But if their sex-life is lacking, than having a threesome ain't gonna help it. nothing is going to help it in the bedroom. the problem is not the technique. if you are not enjoying sex, hell even boring vanilla sex with your partner, than it's a sign that you are having some problem with your relationship.

 

[BlueBalls]

I wouldnt do it.

 

[Jagger69]

You'll lose your girlfriend over it. It also sounds like your friends are headed for splitsville if they can't seem to find a way to keep themselves mutually satisfied.

Don't do it....no way.

 

[Renegade1Oh]

My Thoughts, If There Having Sex Problems. Let Them Work It Out Themselves. If You Get Involved, You Can Lose Your Girl & Best Friend To Boot, Just To Bang Your Friends Girl, Hell, For That Matter He Could Be Thinking The Very Same Thing. I Tried It Years Ago, Lost My Girl To My Buddies Girl, They Both Went Lez. Didn't Last, And I Had Another Gal When She Wanted To Get Back Together. All I Can Say Is "Been There, Done That, Won't Do It Again!!!" Have A Cold One!! :glugglug:

 

[Peter Gazinya]

Have a Bukkake party.

 

[thegod]

dont' forget that your best mate is also going to be fukcing YOUR gf of 2 years

 

[Becks...poamr]

Threesomes seldom work out the way people think they will.

 

[squallumz]

i say do it. it could be the Chance of a lifetime. could bring you closer than u ever thought possible.

 

[xxaru]

Threesomes seldom work out the way people think they will.

True dat... I've had a few of them and none of them really lived up to my expectations.

 

[squallumz]

True dat... I've had a few of them and none of them really lived up to my expectations.

but its not always the case.

 

[MAJ Perv]

This thread brings back painful memories of three... count 'em, THREE times I came THIS close to having a threesome.

First time, when I was 19, this beautiful Greek girl (just an acquaintance, not a close friend) outright asked me if I wanted to do it with her and a girlfriend. I thought it was a set-up for some kind of prank, so I refused. But to this day, I still wonder...

The second time was in my early 30s. I was banging my plain-looking but huge-breasted 22 year-old co-worker (I'll call her "Joan") on a regular basis. She had a slightly zaftig but pretty and sassy friend who had even BIGGER breasts. One night while hanging out at Joan's apartment, the three of us found ourselves in a kiss/suck/gropefest that NEARLY became a threesome except that, just as bare genitals were about to become involved, the friend experienced a sudden bout of guilt over cheating on her boyfriend and withdrew. Frustrating!

The last time was also with Joan, just a few weeks later. The two of us--along with Joan's absolutely beautiful 18 year-old friend, who looked like a brunette Heather Graham and had a perfect body--ended up drunk and naked in Joan's bed after a party. Kissing, caressing and then oral sex transpired: the girls pleasured each other, then they both started pleasuring me together. But wouldn't you know it, they both passed out from too much alcohol before any coitus could take place! I, on the other hand, found myself lying there wide awake, stewing, as they snored next to me.

All these years later, it STILL bothers me to think about it. I'm not kidding when I say that 18 year-old chick was gorgeous... and she wanted to do it with ME! I don't think THAT'S ever going to happen again!