Serious questions for all OCSMs in here

Why the hell do people continue to respond to this asshole? If everyone ignored him, he'd go away.

No. No he won't. It's a nice theory people like to put forward but that never works. People like him aren't any different than bullies, and growing up I have had more experiences with those than any one human being should have to. The idea that if you ignore them then they go away is based on the idea that your denying them what they want will disappoint them and drive them off. That never works. You know what happens? They redouble their efforts to provoke a reaction and continue to do so until they get what they want, because they want it.

You're mostly looking at an impulse control issue.
 

Elwood70

Torn & Frayed.
You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to lurkingdirk again.

FUCK!!:mad::mad::mad::mad:

I'm been saying the same thing...

Happy; I respectfully disagree.
 

bobjustbob

Proud member of FreeOnes Hall Of Fame. Retired to
actually I am an American with an Indian/Middle Eastern type of appearance, which is why I ask

and by the way I posted to make sure if any of these OCSMs or are open to doing guys of races other than black or white, simple question, REALLY IS
In your 2+ years here hundreds of times OCSMs have replied to your threads answering this question. Why do you come back here to ask them again? That question you answered yourself over the time you have been here also. So all being said, what about my bet? How much for how long you don't start another one of these?
 
Looks like SOMEBODY went on vacation... :sheep:
 

Rey C.

Racing is life... anything else is just waiting.
Every time I read Revamp's posts, I think of that line from that goofy Harold & Kumar movie: A Very Harold and Kumar Christmas. The one where the ditzy girl looks at Kumar and says, "Sorry, but I don't date Black guys."
Wait. What? :error:

But this is exactly the sort of girl that Revamp will spend his life pursuing... I'm sure.

So long, Revamp. :wave: I wish I could say you'll be missed, but you can always sense when I'm lying. I get that odd smirk on my face. Can't help it.

 

Elwood70

Torn & Frayed.
Well, since everyone is a fucking expert here, then how do we get rid of them? The obvious answer is banning them; but that doesn't seem to be happening...
 

JaanaRuutu

Official Checked Star Member
I dated an Asian for 6 months when I was 16. We didn't have sex because I wasn't ready for it. I also went on a few dates with a guy from Bangladesh that had moved to my area in the States, but we never had sex because we didn't end up hitting it off well. Race has nothing to do with anything. yeah, my man is white and he's the only man I'll ever film with, but that doesn't make me racist. I'd fuck an Asian chick right now if she was hot and we had decent chemistry on camera. Stop whining, you're not making sense.
 
Well, since everyone is a fucking expert here, then how do we get rid of them? The obvious answer is banning them; but that doesn't seem to be happening...

Without banning? Generally you don't. You need someone in authority who is willing to exercise that authority. FreeOnes doesn't allow that though, because some reason trolling isn't seen as an offense here. It's a rather... questionable policy. I understand the reasoning behind it, since "trolling" is subjective, but then most things are subjective. Morality is subjective according to most, that doesn't tend to stop anyone from condemning people who are total assholes, nor should it.

Beyond that? Ignore list. It doesn't stop them, nor get rid of them, but it does stop you from seeing what they do.
 

JaanaRuutu

Official Checked Star Member
Without banning? Generally you don't. You need someone in authority who is willing to exercise that authority. FreeOnes doesn't allow that though, because some reason trolling isn't seen as an offense here. It's a rather... questionable policy. I understand the reasoning behind it, since "trolling" is subjective, but then most things are subjective. Morality is subjective according to most, that doesn't tend to stop anyone from condemning people who are total assholes, nor should it.

Beyond that? Ignore list. It doesn't stop them, nor get rid of them, but it does stop you from seeing what they do.
I don't think enough people use the "report" function on obviously-trolling/hate-mongering posts,
 
I don't think enough people use the "report" function on obviously-trolling/hate-mongering posts,

That could be part of it, but I've had a moderator specifically tell me that he can't moderate trolling because it's not against the board rules. So unless the troll breaks some other form of board rule then generally it's not going to do much good.
 

xfire

New Twitter/X @cxffreeman
That could be part of it, but I've had a moderator specifically tell me that he can't moderate trolling because it's not against the board rules. So unless the troll breaks some other form of board rule then generally it's not going to do much good.

Ha. Imagine a scenario where you're actually told to stop reporting troll posts. I'm not saying it happened to me or anything, but just imagine.
 
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