SpexyAshleigh
Official Checked Star Member
Trying to cheat (does trying to hook up consitute cheating)?:
Yes. Even if you don't succeed, its still cheating. Attempted murder still counts for something, even if the person doesn't die...cheating is no different.
A kiss with another woman?: Definitely. I mean if its a romantic/sexual kiss, and not a kiss on the cheek.
An online "affair?": Yes. If you're getting involved with any woman on a romantic/sexual basis...its cheating. Even if it IS online and not IRL.
A handjob?: Yes
Oral sex?: Yes
Frequenting porn sites (LOL - I know, I know, loaded question...):
This one I'm struggling with. I think the answer to this question would depend on circumstance. For instance, if you are going behind your spouses back, spending money that should be being brought into the household or being deceitful, I'd say its cheating. However, if your spouse knows, if its not affecting your finances or sex life or if its used between both partners to enhance sex, then its not cheating.
Also, it depends on the type of porn. Straight up videos, dvds or photos...not really as bad as say, engaging with a camgirl, getting to know her on an intimate level and having an online relationship with her. Porn to me is more...two dimensional, and webcam chats is more three dimensional...if I may make that comparison. I've seen alot of men who've become attatched to their favorite webcam model when they're married, and I'd definitely say thats cheating. I know it sounds hypocritical coming out of my (a camgirls) mouth, but its true. I've turned away guys who've gotten seriously, unrealistically attatched to me, and its because I don't want to be even partially responsible for his family breaking up over it.
Have you cheated?: I have, once. Not defending it, because it was obviously the wrong thing to do, but I was 16 at the time, stupid, naive and it was my first relationship that wasn't going so well. In my immaturity, I thought that another guy would make things better...and it didn't. I didn't sleep with him though, I was a virgin still at that point so I just made out with him lol.
Would you if you could (and get completely away with it?): Nope. I'd end a relationship if I even remotely started desiring someone else.
Yes. Even if you don't succeed, its still cheating. Attempted murder still counts for something, even if the person doesn't die...cheating is no different.
A kiss with another woman?: Definitely. I mean if its a romantic/sexual kiss, and not a kiss on the cheek.
An online "affair?": Yes. If you're getting involved with any woman on a romantic/sexual basis...its cheating. Even if it IS online and not IRL.
A handjob?: Yes
Oral sex?: Yes
Frequenting porn sites (LOL - I know, I know, loaded question...):
This one I'm struggling with. I think the answer to this question would depend on circumstance. For instance, if you are going behind your spouses back, spending money that should be being brought into the household or being deceitful, I'd say its cheating. However, if your spouse knows, if its not affecting your finances or sex life or if its used between both partners to enhance sex, then its not cheating.
Also, it depends on the type of porn. Straight up videos, dvds or photos...not really as bad as say, engaging with a camgirl, getting to know her on an intimate level and having an online relationship with her. Porn to me is more...two dimensional, and webcam chats is more three dimensional...if I may make that comparison. I've seen alot of men who've become attatched to their favorite webcam model when they're married, and I'd definitely say thats cheating. I know it sounds hypocritical coming out of my (a camgirls) mouth, but its true. I've turned away guys who've gotten seriously, unrealistically attatched to me, and its because I don't want to be even partially responsible for his family breaking up over it.
Have you cheated?: I have, once. Not defending it, because it was obviously the wrong thing to do, but I was 16 at the time, stupid, naive and it was my first relationship that wasn't going so well. In my immaturity, I thought that another guy would make things better...and it didn't. I didn't sleep with him though, I was a virgin still at that point so I just made out with him lol.
Would you if you could (and get completely away with it?): Nope. I'd end a relationship if I even remotely started desiring someone else.
