Congratulations to Eva and Danny on their new baby. I can't see the problem some people seem to have with her being both in porn and being a mother. Presumably everyone on this site is a porn fan, and has enjoyed Eva in her hot scenes. By saying she shouldn't be a mum and do porn, you are pandering to the anti-porn league - effectively admitting that porn is wrong and smutty, and making people feel bad about it. It will be seen as smutty so long as we let people get away with pushing this idea without a loud response. Porn doesn't have to have a smutty image (alright, slightly smutty, but in a positive, not in a horribly negative way - you know what I mean); it's sexy, and can be beautiful and erotic, and provides a relief to a lot of repressed, frustrated individuals. Maybe one day there will be no need for porn, when everyone has lost all their hang ups and frustrations, and lead completely fulfilled and sexually rewarding lives. If that day ever comes, it will owe more to Eva and her like than to repressed moralisers trying to tell everyone how to be 'good'. I'm sure Eva will make a great Mum, which in itself will be one in the eye for the opposition, and if she wants to come back to work in porn, that's entirely up to her; I'll bet she'll be sensible and professional about it. I'm also sure she will raise her child in a healthy, open way, and that she will grow up comfortable with how her folks earn a living - doing the most natural thing in the world, and free of the horrible sexual hang ups that most of us have had to live with in our lives. If nothing else, she will be knowledgeable about safe sex.
We need to change people's attitudes, and we won't do that if we don't
show the opposition that whilst we enjoy viewing porn for our pleasure and relief of stress, we also respect those who are performing it for us, and that means recognising that they are capable of all the qualities that so called 'normal' people are, including parenthood. Yes, when I'm watching Eva in action, she is vicariously my own 'dirty little whore' - acting out a fantasy for me, but I am able to separate my fanatsy from my knowledge of reality; I know that in real life there is much more to Eva than her gorgeous physique and sexy skills.
I know there are some really screwed up people in porn, and it's far from a perfect business, and that situation won't be helped by people going along with the 'pornstars are degenerates' lobby. I would argue that most pornstars are just fairly normal folk trying to earn a living, and performing a very useful, probably vital, social service into the bargain.
So let's give Eva and Danny our full support; it would surely be hypocritical not to. Our mantra should be, 'Pornstars can make great mums'. Why not? Maybe in this way we can make the world a slightly happier, more chilled out place. So there you go! Love, peace and respect to Eva and her family.