_Jill_
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Slow draining is a term i coined a few years ago
as it was part of the natural progression that started
with minimized orgasms.
Over the years I have become quite effective in
minimizing his orgasms to suite my purposes.
Depending on when his last orgasm was,
combined with the speed I bring him to the edge
and how soon I let go of his cock either before,
during or after he starts to ejaculate, I can
accurately control the amount of sperm that
he releases.
The smallest amount is a simple stream of cum
that oozes down the shaft of his cock, leaving him
hard and just a little less horny for further play.
The largest amount that I allow him to ejaculate
during a minimized orgasm is up to 3/4 of his load
which leaves him semi hard/soft and unable to
regain his erection right away.
But I generally allow him to release between
1/4 which cools him down significantly while
effecting his erection momentarily till he regains
his composure... This allows him to have more sex
for my immediate pleasure instead of concentrating
on his pleasure.
Minimizing his orgasm by 1/2 is sufficient
enough to challenge his ability to regain and maintain
his erection as he finds it "harder" to concentrate
during a draining of this magnitude.
A lot of what happens to the males erection after
his orgasm is minimized also depends on what his
partner does right afterwards.
I find that waiting no more then one or two minutes
after the process before stroking him again, plays
an important part in his ability to "perform" again.
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In regards to slow draining the male...
Slow draining is simply a "series of minimized orgasms"
"repeating one after another" till the male's ability to
perform is "spent".
Over the years i have developed to distinctly different
ways of slow draining. both required that each minimized
orgasm is as "minimal" as possible.
The first involves repeated minimimized orgasms
with as much as one minute between each of them
and as little as 15 seconds between each one.
Once the process has started, it generally lasts for
a few minutes at most as the males ability to maintain
his erection and desire to ejaculate lessons with each
minimized release.
The longer process is more demanding on the males
ability to perform as the time between each minimized orgasm
is increased to several minutes as he is brought back to the
edge and then kept their for by repeated "stroking" for
4 or 5 minutes until he is "minimized" again.
The 4 or 5 minutes of arousal in between allow him time
to regain some of the arousal that he just lost while testing
his sexual ability.
Either way, the ending is the same as the process is over
when he no longer has the ability to be minimized.
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Hope that explains it a little better...
Jill
