She ended the relationship a few weeks ago and i was a little sad but it wasn't too big of a deal. Why is it that she keeps reading my email. I know since I have AOL and you can't mark it as unread, just keep it as new. She's the one that broke up with me, is it curiousity, does she still have feelings for me, what? I'm lost. Thanks for any help offered.
Question: Why does my ex read my email?
- Thread starter Krawzer
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Could be a few things, but she sounds like a control freak to me.
Spleen
Banned?
Curiosity.
She might not want to be with you, but that doesn't mean she wants you to be with anyone else.
I suggest you set up a fake email account with a girls name in the title, then send yourself an email saying something like "Hey last weekend was really cool, I had a great time. Thanks for giving me your email address, hope we can meet up again soon ;-)"
Wait until you know she's read it, then change your password.
She might not want to be with you, but that doesn't mean she wants you to be with anyone else.
I suggest you set up a fake email account with a girls name in the title, then send yourself an email saying something like "Hey last weekend was really cool, I had a great time. Thanks for giving me your email address, hope we can meet up again soon ;-)"
Wait until you know she's read it, then change your password.
youwanttoshagme
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Change password! Any infringement, change password! School boy error. My god, do you think anything that I type on here, PM's, referrals or anything porn related from any website that looks slightly dodgy goes any where near my normal email account??
Make sure you come up with a new password that she'll never work out ie the serial code to a cookie bar you can only get from your works vending machine, anything!!!
If you worried about anything she may read in you email account, and she has access to it, why have it there??
My emails are free to read by people in my house, but they are my work and personal email accounts. My porn email account, that'll go to the grave with me.
Make sure you come up with a new password that she'll never work out ie the serial code to a cookie bar you can only get from your works vending machine, anything!!!
If you worried about anything she may read in you email account, and she has access to it, why have it there??
My emails are free to read by people in my house, but they are my work and personal email accounts. My porn email account, that'll go to the grave with me.
Yeah, why don't you change your password or whatever????
As for WHY she does it, I'd say she's unscrupulous generally or has some specific moral imperfection that prevents her from resisting what she knows is wrong....
As for WHY she does it, I'd say she's unscrupulous generally or has some specific moral imperfection that prevents her from resisting what she knows is wrong....
I guess deep down I feel like she still does care about me, infantile notion of course but it does make me feel good. Changing AOL passwords is also a nuisance so I created another account, which she does not know about. I only recently noticed that a lot of my mails in my old account kept showing up as read, but new or they'd be there and then disappear.
youwanttoshagme
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Pull yourself together man! If it's a split, make it a split. If she pisses on your chips, don't carry on chewing them.
No way will letting anyone carry on reading your emails ever entice a girl back. Get shat on maybe, but getting her back?? Not a chance.
If she cared for you, she would want to talk to you face to face and be a friend, not sneak around in you emails. If she's looking for proof you've cheated etc, it shows she doesn't trust you. If theres no trust, then why bother??
Change the password, and if she want to find out anything about your private life, then she should have to come to you.
No way will letting anyone carry on reading your emails ever entice a girl back. Get shat on maybe, but getting her back?? Not a chance.
If she cared for you, she would want to talk to you face to face and be a friend, not sneak around in you emails. If she's looking for proof you've cheated etc, it shows she doesn't trust you. If theres no trust, then why bother??
Change the password, and if she want to find out anything about your private life, then she should have to come to you.
Changing AOL passwords is a two minute job, dont kid yourself, Im an AOL member so dont play that card. You want her to read them then, thats it isnt it? Im curious what he hopes to learn from reading your emails, who says its even her, your password could have been hacked and someone is checking your mail elsewhere online.
Just out of curiousity, what mail is she reading, bank accounts, newsletters, those colourful ads for viagra even?
Just out of curiousity, what mail is she reading, bank accounts, newsletters, those colourful ads for viagra even?
Spleen
Banned?
youwanttoshagme
Closed Account
Spleen - I shout first dibs on sending the fake email.:wave:
She only reads the emails from girls (who are only friends) and ones that I send myself. All the other spam and junk emails are untouched except for the ones that say "it was nice meeting you last night" then turn out to be ads for viagra or whatnot. I know I did not get hacked.
And that is a great idea Spleen or was it youwanttoshagme lol
ChefChiTown
The secret ingredient? MY BALLS
I hope you're not thinking of getting back together with her at some point. It sounds to me like she has some serious trust issues.
Spleen
Banned?
I don't know why she would I never cheated on her or ever gave her any indication that I wanted anyone else. She is actually going out with someone now too thats why i'm so confused.
ChefChiTown
The secret ingredient? MY BALLS
She's just checking up to see if you're fucking another girl yet. Every relationship goes through that phase after the break-up. The "I wonder" phase.
