Porn stars that are married- Male or Female

[jointsmoker612]

Question. Is okay for your significant other to cheat? I mean, it's okay for you to fuck, right? And don't pull that "it's my job" bullshit. Like Kelly Madison's husband for instance. He has sex with his wife(Kelly) and all her friends but he's so insecure she isn't allowed to fuck other men. Thoughts?

Discuss

 

[Deepcover]

He's insecure.....Gee I wonder how long she will put up with his insecurity because most female porn stars are gonna do whatever the fuck they want. Married or not. Personally, I'm not in favor for that type of thinking but that seems to be the norm here...He should learn how to compromise with his wife, she'll love him more I guess...She prolly loves him anyways for making her website and also, she gets to bounce on a young dick in the bedroom.

 

[jinxypie]

Question. Is okay for your significant other to cheat? I mean, it's okay for you to fuck, right?

"Cheat" is a negative word.

If either partner is having sex with other people, (no, not the "it's my job" crap) there needs to be an understanding and acceptance. If both aren't OK with it, then it's either cheating, or the extra sex just doesn't happen.

It's OK for me to have sex with other people - I'm in a cuckolding relationship.
It's NOT ok for my husband to have sex with other people. First of all, he doesn't desire to be with others. Secondly, if he DID change his mind and want to be sexual with other people, I would want us to have a real discussion of what has changed and why he wants to do things differently.

 

[Gordar]

Is it cheating when you're having an open relationship?
Is it cheating when you know he/she having sex with other people even before you start dating? (& if it is, why start dating the performer?)

Maybe it is according to some people, but those people aren't usually the ones dating the adult performers. In the end it's up to the partners of the performers to decide what is & isn't acceptable.

Some people will accept that their spouses also have sex with other people, because that's what was agreed upon.

Others, like jinxypie will not accept it. It was never discussed (at least, looking at the way jinxypie wrote her answer, I assume it was never discussed) & no agreement has ever been reached & is probably not needed either (why would he stay with jinxypie if he didn't agree with the way things were going?).

 

[eponymous]

"Cheat" is a negative word.

If either partner is having sex with other people, (no, not the "it's my job" crap) there needs to be an understanding and acceptance. If both aren't OK with it, then it's either cheating, or the extra sex just doesn't happen.

It's OK for me to have sex with other people - I'm in a cuckolding relationship.
It's NOT ok for my husband to have sex with other people. First of all, he doesn't desire to be with others. Secondly, if he DID change his mind and want to be sexual with other people, I would want us to have a real discussion of what has changed and why he wants to do things differently.

You are wise, O Jinxy One.

 

[Ari Dee]

Jinxypie gets it.

Thread over.

 

[JasonCook78]

I know that Sophie Dee and Lee Bang are married.

 

[JaanaRuutu]

I only perform with my partner, so maybe I'm not the best person to weigh in on this, but..

There is a different between fucking someone and filming a scene with someone. That being said, I think couples should have some sort of understanding about this stuff. My partner is okay with me sleeping with other women, whether it's for work or not, but I don't really want to. I won't let him sleep with ANYONE, period - and he doesn't want to anyway. We're both completely okay with this, and I trust that if he had a change of heart he'd come to me about it first before doing anything, as I would do that for him.

 

[John_8581]

Question. Is okay for your significant other to cheat? I mean, it's okay for you to fuck, right? And don't pull that "it's my job" bullshit. Like Kelly Madison's husband for instance. He has sex with his wife (Kelly) and all her friends but he's so insecure she isn't allowed to fuck other men. Thoughts?

Discuss

Bullshit!! ...

* I know both of them for a very long time. Quite well in fact. And Ryan is far from being insecure!!

* And it's not that Kelly is not allowed to f*ck other men, she prefers to be with Ryan on an intimate basis on her site (http://kellymadison.com) and she lets him enjoy the pleasures of herself and her friends on the pornfidelity site (http://pornfidelity.com).

It's all because Kelly is very comfortable in her sexual relationships. As is Ryan. It just happens that's she's bi and he's straight. Open marriages are like that.

One last thing, It's all about how you perceive things. You can make a postive thing out of something. Or you can make it a negative experience...

Apparently, you have chosen to look at this as a negative thing.

 

[jinxypie]

Others, like jinxypie will not accept it. It was never discussed (at least, looking at the way jinxypie wrote her answer, I assume it was never discussed) & no agreement has ever been reached & is probably not needed either (why would he stay with jinxypie if he didn't agree with the way things were going?).

It was discussed. He told me he had no desire to be with other women. Therefore, an agreement was reached, he was OK with me having other guys, I wasn't OK with him having other women. But yes, if he didn't agree with how things were going, I would expect him to speak up (before just leaving).

You are wise, O Jinxy One.

Thanks, O eponymous one!

Jinxypie gets it.

Thread over.

Booyah, I WIN!

 

[squallumz]

jinxy <3

 

[Maggie Green]

How do you know that the reason that Kelly and her husband do things the way that they do is because he's insecure? Have you ever seen that quoted somewhere? Maybe she's the one who doesn't want to fuck other men, I don't know.

 

[SabrinaDeep]

"Cheat" is a negative word.

If either partner is having sex with other people, (no, not the "it's my job" crap) there needs to be an understanding and acceptance. If both aren't OK with it, then it's either cheating, or the extra sex just doesn't happen.

It's OK for me to have sex with other people - I'm in a cuckolding relationship.
It's NOT ok for my husband to have sex with other people. First of all, he doesn't desire to be with others. Secondly, if he DID change his mind and want to be sexual with other people, I would want us to have a real discussion of what has changed and why he wants to do things differently.

And AMEN.

Funny though, how after being called filthy, immoral, unworthy to have children and shit like that, now we are also cheaters who should see it as ok to have our partners cheating on us because we have sex with other people.
The de-humanization of adult performers continues...
Guys, wanking is good, but mental masturbation can be dangerous. You would be surprised of how simple, laid back, loyal, caring, sweet, consistent and honest adult performers can be. I see guys being cheated by their "regular" girls all the time and everybody knows, but the guys. Let's not even go there...

 

[STDiva]

"Cheat" is a negative word.

If either partner is having sex with other people, (no, not the "it's my job" crap) there needs to be an understanding and acceptance. If both aren't OK with it, then it's either cheating, or the extra sex just doesn't happen.

It's OK for me to have sex with other people - I'm in a cuckolding relationship.
It's NOT ok for my husband to have sex with other people. First of all, he doesn't desire to be with others. Secondly, if he DID change his mind and want to be sexual with other people, I would want us to have a real discussion of what has changed and why he wants to do things differently.

 

[twat36975248664224]

Bullshit!! ...

* I know both of them for a very long time. Quite well in fact. And Ryan is far from being insecure!!

* And it's not that Kelly is not allowed to f*ck other men, she prefers to be with Ryan on an intimate basis on her site (http://kellymadison.com) and she lets him enjoy the pleasures of herself and her friends on the pornfidelity site (http://pornfidelity.com).

Don't forget teenfidelity too.. Some men just have all the luck don't they.