yes, over the years it has almost been something like an addiction but now i haven't watched any porn for weeks and i don't miss it at all
the reason is that porn has become so repetitive (clichéd but true), i mean i have seen almost all kinds of porn movies but most of them are crap anyway
what do you think? is porn an addiction and are you trying "get away" from it? what really helped me is the fact that most porn actresses are in no way adorable or something (not even their looks in most cases), these "behind the scenes"-footages showed me that they are actually as stupid and naive and just plain disgusting as they presented themselves to be in the movies
i know many porn stars think that we "need" them, that they're therefore even kind of superior to us but this is not true at all, actually we use them, we don't care about individual ones of them because when they retire at the age of 28 or die of suicide or hiv there'll be plenty of new ones and the whole thing starts all over again
maybe it's just that for me, sex isn't important as i used to think and it's ultimately not (the only thing) i "long for"
i wish you the best to also come to this conclusion because life gets much easier without porn, positive side effect: you waste less time on your pc, it ultimately won't "satisfy" anyone anyway, it's just pathetic and makes you depressed
Hi bro, I have sort of come to that same conclusion over a year a go. I had a gap year, and after a short initial holiday I came back and porn was all I had for breakfast, lunch and dinner. I never really seen any behind the scene footage of pornstars yet, but I am certain what you say is more than definately true. If they weren't the complete dumb, very low-IQ, naive and wothless bitches they are, why would they do porn?
Even if your into "complicated"/Troubled girls, your not gonna find anything in the porn industry, as not even someone on a purposefull course for self-destruction would consider that as a viable career option. More chance they'll attempt to become a Max Payne-like depressed loon (not the film, the games).
Anyway, now I'm out and in uni, and discovered there are a lot of much better looking girls, which I'm sure can be just as nasty in the bedroom with me, and for real. Not like porn where it is all staged with some gimp, and nothing is enjoyed by no-one - not even you watching it that much.
There's this really awsome girl I like, and I am just using porn as hopefully a temporary satisfier for my sexual urges till I can get her - well that's what I am really hoping for. But having someone else you like/love in your life and attempting to date them etc... till you get them to be "your little porn star" is a lot better than placing any admiration, or idolising to any extent those worthless, temporary physical turn-on whores. :thefinger
That's just my two cents on it man, hope it helps. TC