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Online Dating

Do any of you guys sign up to those online dating sites, and do you actually hook up with any girls?
 
I did recently. I was curious to see how the whole thing worked. Once I was all set-up I got a couple email within 2 days but the problem is, I only signed up for free so I can only receive messages, not send them.

So basically its pointless, atleast for me because I still don't have a credit card lol
 
I don't trust any of those kind of sites, I'd rather just stick the good old method of going out and meeting face to face.
 

Spleen

Banned?
A few of my friends have had successful relationships with people they met online, and many others have gotten laid.

People who shrug it off straight away are idiots.
 

Deepcover

Closed Account
I've signed up on a dating site, only had one girl who lived in the same area as me sent me a message. We finally decided to meet up and date. Overall we just weren't attracted to one another. I'd give Dating online a mild thumbs down. Plus most girls hate when guys send one word or short sentences, so it's like ugh...why does this bitch have to be so complicated? It's not like I wanna marry her, just wanna go out on a date ffs...lol
 

vodkazvictim

Why save the world, when you can rule it?
I have had 2 relationships via online dating. It's a method that works for some.
Is it tough that you still chat to Drik and Stan on this Forum, yet you're no longer dating?
A few of my friends have had successful relationships with people they met online, and many others have gotten laid.

People who shrug it off straight away are idiots.
Indeed.
Back in the world of text only chat, what you got was a persons actual personality devoid of the influence of their looks.
That's personality only.
That's kind of a holy grail if you think about it.
 

TheOrangeCat

AFK..being taken to the vet to get neutered.
After the exit of the second Mrs Orange Cat, I decided a new approach was needed. Traditional clearly wasn't working.

I filled out two Internet dating site 'we match your ideal mate depending on the answers' type quizzes, and went in with an open mind.

And was very disappointed. The so-called ideal matching quizzes offered up women so totally opposite everything I like or look for - looks and status-wise (not to mention half my 'local' matches lived up to 500 miles away from me).

Going in myself to do some manual choosing, I was greeted with what looked like the meet 'n' greet at the world's biggest Moose convention.

Long story short: didn't even both to arrange any dates through the sites.

It all worked out though. After trying 'new school' dating, I went 'old-old school', and I now have a nice harem of lovelies to play with. Girls are good. Several girls are much, much better!
 
I signed up for a few. Most of the girls on there just aren't very attractive. And the ones that are are terrible conversationalists.
 
I tried Match a few years ago, most were duds, but I did hook up a few times and met a couple of interesting girls.

I can't stress enough that people lie through their fucking teeth on their profiles though. :2 cents:
 

vodkazvictim

Why save the world, when you can rule it?
After the exit of the second Mrs Orange Cat, I decided a new approach was needed. Traditional clearly wasn't working.

I filled out two Internet dating site 'we match your ideal mate depending on the answers' type quizzes, and went in with an open mind.

And was very disappointed. The so-called ideal matching quizzes offered up women so totally opposite everything I like or look for - looks and status-wise (not to mention half my 'local' matches lived up to 500 miles away from me).

Going in myself to do some manual choosing, I was greeted with what looked like the meet 'n' greet at the world's biggest Moose convention.

Long story short: didn't even both to arrange any dates through the sites.

It all worked out though. After trying 'new school' dating, I went 'old-old school', and I now have a nice harem of lovelies to play with. Girls are good. Several girls are much, much better!
Be honest.
You've replaced the bossy, domineering Mrs Orange Cats with real cats. Haven't you?
what ever happened to walking up to a hooker and asking "how much?"
So you don't walk up to them and punch them? This would explain a lot...
 

LukeEl

I am a failure to the Korean side of my family
No I only use online dating to find ever lasting love, not to this so called hooking up jibbery you speak of! I say good day to you sir!
 
I did recently. I was curious to see how the whole thing worked. Once I was all set-up I got a couple email within 2 days but the problem is, I only signed up for free so I can only receive messages, not send them.
So basically its pointless, atleast for me because I still don't have a credit card lol

There's a good 100% free (seriously though, I know a lot just say it's "free" but this one actually is) called DateHookup.com. :thumbsup: I don't have a credit card either. (Well I don't anymore...)

A few of my friends have had successful relationships with people they met online, and many others have gotten laid.

People who shrug it off straight away are idiots.

Agreed! I've had a good amount of sex from some dating sites, and one actual relationship that was one of the better relationships I've had! And she was super hot! :D
 
I've used online dating sites and aside from how some of the sites are set up, I've had pretty good experiences.

It's like anything though, you get out of it what you put into it. Meaning if you're not very attractive, don't know how to articulate what you think about yourself or break the ice..you're probably not going to have a good experience. It's a competition like anything else..the people who have the best going for them are going to get the best results.:dunno:

I give online dating (meeting) a big thumbs up over conventional ways of meeting. To me, it's not even close to a comparison when you consider it against going to some club for example. If you want to be economical about it, compare paying about $20 for a month to meet whoever to going out to some club. That $20 is cover charge minimum for most of the places I would consider going. Personally, for the better, more swankier places it would be much more considering I would be getting bottle, table or VIP entry at a cost several times that.

That aside, you get pick out exactly which women you want to contact, you reasonably know they are available and have some clue of who you're dealing with. As opposed to randomly meeting some chick, determining whether she's actually single, somewhat involved or otherwise and finding out 2 or 3 dates down the line some problem you'd have with them that could have easily been read on a profile....

From my experience, chicks who have 1 or 2 pics that look like professional model pics (and no other regular, around the house or at the beach pics) are probably not the same person who wrote the profile. Have a webcam and hope she does so you and her can show that you are the same person and look the same as your pics and you're not looking at pics of her 10 years ago. Meet in person sooner rather than later. Believe it or not....the more time you spend between (aka getting to know them) when you first met and seeing each other in person can make the first date/meeting seem more awkward not less. Plus you still have reasonable expectations and you or her have built up the other into unrealistic personae by the time you meet.

For whatever reason, people still have the perception that online meeting/dating is what some people have to resort to. For me nothing could be further from the truth. To me, it's the best way hands down to meet women outside of my normal circle of travel or activity.

I've met and dated women all kinds of ways and for me, being a to the point kind of guy...the choice and cut to the chase aspects of online meeting is among the best.
 
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