Old Flames

[Nester6]

I was wondering if anyone had a really close girlfriend, or even high school sweetheart that ever completely lost contact with you, or ever reestablished contact?
I had several close female friends who chose to never communicate again for no apparent reason. Maybe I am just sentimental, but sometimes this hurts when you really had feelings for another.:lovecoupl

 

[biomech]

I have one in particular that I think about. She was amazing and I was a douche.
Possibly could have been a long term deal.Needless to say she got married a few years back, and that is that. But you cant dwell on the past, learn from your mistakes and move on.

 

[Embryoyo]

I had several close female friends who chose to never communicate again for no apparent reason.

Me too. Bitches are nuts, yo :dunno:

 

[Ace Bandage]

I've had a couple. One in particular has a brother who plays professional baseball for the Padres now. I could have ridden the gravy train for the rest of my life. Too bad she was fuckin' crazy though. Looking back, I might have been able to tolerate her. The money would have been worth it...

 

[alexpnz]

I was wondering if anyone had a really close girlfriend, or even high school sweetheart that ever completely lost contact with you, or ever reestablished contact?
I had several close female friends who chose to never communicate again for no apparent reason. Maybe I am just sentimental, but sometimes this hurts when you really had feelings for another.:lovecoupl

Co-sign.
My first love and I lost contact for a decade or so and we re-connected recently thru some douchey Classmates.com site that insists on charging me $20 a month for absolutley nothing!:crash:

The best part? she lives 5 miles from me and only wants e-mail contact with me!?
Guess I didn't leave such a great impression on her as she did me huh? :1orglaugh

 

[sualcalay]

I was wondering if anyone had a really close girlfriend, or even high school sweetheart that ever completely lost contact with you, or ever reestablished contact?
I had several close female friends who chose to never communicate again for no apparent reason. Maybe I am just sentimental, but sometimes this hurts when you really had feelings for another.:lovecoupl

Yeah, from time to time I too feel that pain. I still have'em on facebook or something but it seems they've left the impression on me without me leaving that impression on them. So I seldom talk to them, only sometimes in order to know if they're fine and what they're doing, other than that, life goes on, I meet new women, new relationships...and that's it.

Women come and go after all...but there's always those ones we cared about and that we think about from time to time.

 

[pete rose]

You gotta let go.

 

[thebear247]

i had a highschool sweetheart nothing serious. she ended up going away to school in california we met online in a game site like 3 years later and we got back together for a bit she came back to michigan and stayed with me for 6 months .
then she left me for someone with more money

 

[sualcalay]

You gotta let go.

Word

 

[lurkingdirk]

I mail a picture of my erect penis with the words, "remember what you're missing?" to every girlfriend I've ever had every month. I have to fight them off, reminding them that it didn't work out the first time, this time would be no different.

 

[SpexyAshleigh]

I'm really good friends with one of my ex's. We lost touch for a few years, mainly because his fat gf at the time couldn't handle him being friends with an ex who was an "internet whore" but they broke up and all is good with our friendship again. He's the only ex I communicate with really....out of the rest, one is deceased, one knocked up a minor and disappeared (probably prison) and the other isn't legally able to contact me or my family (thank youuu restraining order )

If I could still be in touch with any of them, it'd be the one who passed away. He died in 2003 at the age of 17, and was my best friend in the world....still love him to this day. Would love one more day to spend with him and tell him how I feel and get to properly say goodbye but I guess you don't always get what you want right?

 

[Smallville417]

I haven't had contact with any old flames in years. Most of them would still consider me a friend, bad breakups were not the norm for me. I don't spend time thinking of any of them, at least not in the way of wondering what it would be like if we were still together or anything like that. At the most, just curiosity of how their life is going.

 

[GregCentauro]

I'd like to but I can't. Every woman I've ever met has sought restraining orders against me.

 

[jod0565]

I just reestablished contact - at least for one phone call - with the only girlfriend I loved last week.
It was nice talking to her.

 

[Smallville417]

I just reestablished contact - at least for one phone call - with the only girlfriend I loved last week.
It was nice talking to her.

Who called who? Conversation went well? Hope it works out for you if you have intentions to get her back.

 

[jod0565]

Who called who? Conversation went well? Hope it works out for you if you have intentions to get her back.

Thanks for the support, Smalls, but, although it went well, she's married now, and I wish her the best.
I called her after I was thinking about her for several days.
She actually still had the same number.

 

[gunslingingbird]

I stopped talking to my best friend in December because she asked me not to contact her anymore. We met in high school, and had been close friends since. She was the first person that I ever fell in love with, and she knew. Although she moved 2 states to the right 7 years ago, we were always close. We talked and texted every day, and we would visit each other a few times a year. She and I were so close that a couple times my ex girlfriends got jealous because she knew what to get me for my birthday or for Christmas, while they didn't have a clue what to get me. Even though I tried dating other women it didn't work because my heart was yearning to be with her. I decided I would propose to her, since I thought that would be more appropriate than to ask if she wanted to be my girlfriend (living 2 states apart makes dating hard, plus we had known each other for so long and we knew each other so well that dating wouldn't really have done much in the way of getting to know each other better). On December 2nd, when she had come to visit, I proposed tp her, and was promptly told to give my ring to someone else because she wouldn't take it. Shortly after that she sent me an e-mail asking me not to contact her again because she had already done enough damage to me, and didn't want to hurt me any more. So now I'm left with 12 years of memories, an aching heart, and a $10,000-dollar diamond ring that will never be used. So, yeah.

 

[L3ggy]

The only one that rings a bell is my latest ex-girlfriend...but we don't wanna talk about her..

 

[STDiva]

This is a sad thread.

Everybody has that person(s) who they'll never forget, and it hurts like hell to think about them and what could have been. Even diva's feel that way sometimes. It's hard to believe, but it's true. But we have to remember that it didn't work out. Maybe you weren't feeling it, maybe she wasn't feeling it, maybe you wanted to play the field before settling down. You have to just let go and instead of wondering what could have been, cherish the good times you had and move on. If you don't let go of your past, you won't be able to grab hold of your future.

 

[thebear247]

I stopped talking to my best friend in December because she asked me not to contact her anymore. We met in high school, and had been close friends since. She was the first person that I ever fell in love with, and she knew. Although she moved 2 states to the right 7 years ago, we were always close. We talked and texted every day, and we would visit each other a few times a year. She and I were so close that a couple times my ex girlfriends got jealous because she knew what to get me for my birthday or for Christmas, while they didn't have a clue what to get me. Even though I tried dating other women it didn't work because my heart was yearning to be with her. I decided I would propose to her, since I thought that would be more appropriate than to ask if she wanted to be my girlfriend (living 2 states apart makes dating hard, plus we had known each other for so long and we knew each other so well that dating wouldn't really have done much in the way of getting to know each other better). On December 2nd, when she had come to visit, I proposed tp her, and was promptly told to give my ring to someone else because she wouldn't take it. Shortly after that she sent me an e-mail asking me not to contact her again because she had already done enough damage to me, and didn't want to hurt me any more. So now I'm left with 12 years of memories, an aching heart, and a $10,000-dollar diamond ring that will never be used. So, yeah.

ill take that ring if u dont want it anymore