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This shit happens to me on a daily basis at bars.
Okay, so I went out to a bar tonight
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because you were lying to yourself. all human communication, therefore socializing based on sex. you were hoping deep inside to meet with a female there and this hope inside you decoded that drunk girl's "unhostile" way of talking to you as something else...
well, there's nothing like going to some bar and paying more money compared to staying home and drinking there. if you're doing this you can bet you're hoping something else... what would that be? you want to socialize with horny drunk guys? i bet you don't.
so...
well, there's nothing like going to some bar and paying more money compared to staying home and drinking there. if you're doing this you can bet you're hoping something else... what would that be? you want to socialize with horny drunk guys? i bet you don't.
so...
meesterperfect
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I don't have good luck in discos either. In fact,yesterday I had a great day with a beautiful Colombian blondie, got to first base ,but then she split so I wound up going to a club with my friends later on.
What a waste!!! Just A bunch of dancin fools, hot,noisy,cramped,over-priced
I prefer the bars here that are open no walls, no doors,fresh air,on the street.
I meet most women in places like that and in normal everyday circumstances.
I feel for you Psych, It aint easy meeting girls in the states. I won't get into the reasons why, but its really is true.
What a waste!!! Just A bunch of dancin fools, hot,noisy,cramped,over-priced
I prefer the bars here that are open no walls, no doors,fresh air,on the street.
I meet most women in places like that and in normal everyday circumstances.
I feel for you Psych, It aint easy meeting girls in the states. I won't get into the reasons why, but its really is true.
Facetious
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Another thing that Psychology could do is show us all a bit of gratitude for taking time out of our lives to assist him.
You have a fairly good compilation of ideas and assists here . . .:dunno:
does it mean anything to you ?
If not, I'll beware to not be so yielding to others' concerns / troubles next time.
It's important to properly reciprocate (or better) in whatever you do in life.
You have a fairly good compilation of ideas and assists here . . .:dunno:
does it mean anything to you ?
If not, I'll beware to not be so yielding to others' concerns / troubles next time.
It's important to properly reciprocate (or better) in whatever you do in life.
I think your mistake was listening to some dude who claimed to be dating the chick you were interested in, deciding you should ask her out, and then wondering why those two left you hugging to go get drinks and probably have sex later.
You did nothing wrong. Go back out and try again. Do you have a good buddy who you could go out with? Sometimes it's easier for two guys to talk up a chick. If she has friends she'll bring them over or leave you with a smile.
I don't think getting drunk or talking up the drunk chicks is the way to go.
If you want to sharpen your "talk game" than go to a strip club. You don't need to spend more than $40 to talk to a chick. Forget about the lapdance. Just go to a club, order a drink and observe. I've found a strip club is a good place to get back into "talk" mode with strangers actually...
You did nothing wrong. Go back out and try again. Do you have a good buddy who you could go out with? Sometimes it's easier for two guys to talk up a chick. If she has friends she'll bring them over or leave you with a smile.
I don't think getting drunk or talking up the drunk chicks is the way to go.
If you want to sharpen your "talk game" than go to a strip club. You don't need to spend more than $40 to talk to a chick. Forget about the lapdance. Just go to a club, order a drink and observe. I've found a strip club is a good place to get back into "talk" mode with strangers actually...
Facetious
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I wholeheartedly agree !! Talk Them Down Instead ! :yesyes: :nannerf2:
I go to strip clubs a lot, but I always end up spending more than $40, I'll tell you that. I see booty and I get mesmerized.
Oh yeah Dave, I'm sure he feels better now! He's trying to just get one girl to dance WITH him and here you are beating them off with a stick.
Back on topic Psychology - what'd you do wrong? You didn't wait long enough! Just because the guy says the relationship with her won't work doesn't you march right over there and try to pick her up. She doesn't know it's over yet. Hell, HE doesn't even know it's over yet, he's just sure it won't work. Your move is next week, not 1 minute later.
You're doing fine dude but remember - Drunk girls will play games, even more games than they already play when they're sober, so you HAVE to be prepared for a whole lot of chicanry, evil ruses, and ulterior motives. The female of the species is a crafty query but, with enough experience and patience you will learn to rope them in. So much to the point that eventually you will laugh at how easy it is to pick them up, or so I've been told at least.
Point is, like everything else, practice makes perfect. The first few times some drunken girl flirts with you, you may not recognize that she's just having fun, watching you fawn over her, and stroking her own ego. But they don't always do that. There will always be some that are actually looking for a hookup, if not more. The only way to learn the difference is to experience it a few times. And believe me, it won't take you many times to learn the difference between some drunken floozy flirt and one that you may actually have a chance with.
Keep diggin', you'll get there.
