No longer a lez
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Lol, nice, Lisa.....having sex with a man...did ya like it?
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Jakeness
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BEAUTIFUL! Does this mean you're taking dates? :hatsoff:
Violator79
Take a Hit, Spunker!
Woo!!!! Go Lisa!!! As long as you're happy and had a good time, that's all that matters.
Lisa
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Heres what happened
I was up the M20 nightclub in Ashford with a few friends on Saturday night. I had several smiroff ices and was a bit tipsy . My friends were also drunk and somehow we all got seperated. This bloke kept eyeballing me then he came over and start talking to me then we began to dance on the dance floor where he kept clinching my bum
Then we seperated for a while and as we were about to leave at 2am he voluteered to drive me home as he was sober were i was still tipsy by now.
As me and Paul ( the bloke i kopped off with) were driving home he said he had to stop off home first . He asked me in for Coffee and i Agreed
One thing led to another and within 10 mins we were undressing each other and kissing each other. It felt great he was so gentle with me he treated me like a lady until...............................
He wanted me to give him a BJ ( I refused) he got ratty told me that the sex was great but he wanted me to finish him off in style by doing a BJ
It was about 4am then and the sun was comming up so i told him I wont do that he still got ratty so i got dressed and left
I saw him on Sunday in my local supermarket and he asked me for my phone number . I told him that i got a Girlfriend ( who i havent told ) he was very surprised and asked me if she was up the M20 last night
My first time with Sex with a man was Ok but i feel a bit of a Slapper for cheating on my girlfriend
Should i tell her Plz help me?
Love lisa XXX
I was up the M20 nightclub in Ashford with a few friends on Saturday night. I had several smiroff ices and was a bit tipsy . My friends were also drunk and somehow we all got seperated. This bloke kept eyeballing me then he came over and start talking to me then we began to dance on the dance floor where he kept clinching my bum
Then we seperated for a while and as we were about to leave at 2am he voluteered to drive me home as he was sober were i was still tipsy by now.
As me and Paul ( the bloke i kopped off with) were driving home he said he had to stop off home first . He asked me in for Coffee and i Agreed
One thing led to another and within 10 mins we were undressing each other and kissing each other. It felt great he was so gentle with me he treated me like a lady until...............................
He wanted me to give him a BJ ( I refused) he got ratty told me that the sex was great but he wanted me to finish him off in style by doing a BJ
It was about 4am then and the sun was comming up so i told him I wont do that he still got ratty so i got dressed and left
I saw him on Sunday in my local supermarket and he asked me for my phone number . I told him that i got a Girlfriend ( who i havent told ) he was very surprised and asked me if she was up the M20 last night
My first time with Sex with a man was Ok but i feel a bit of a Slapper for cheating on my girlfriend
Should i tell her Plz help me?
Love lisa XXX
Not knowing you or your girlfriend makes this a bit difficult. How long have you been together? Has she been with men? If not, I'd say don't tell her. If she has, maybe ease it into the conversation. Like "how would you like to try a 3-some?" Or something along those lines. That dude should never have asked for the BJ. Or maybe it was Ok to ask, but he should have accepted NO, and left it at that. For that attitude, if the 3-some occurs he cannot be the one. Don't feel bad, You had to be curious right? alcohol helps make things easier. I'm not sure if congratulations is the right word but...
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Would you want to have sex with a guy again? I mean, if the thought of it makes you shudder then you're not bisexual. Just because you slept with a guy doesn't change anything on that front. If I got plastered and mounted a guy, that would not make me bi (no rhyme intended) unless I developed a taste for this particular activity... However, I remain confident that this'll never happen.
As for your girlfriend; I'd be totally honest with her if I were you. The longer you leave it the worse it'll seem if she finds out or you decide to tell her. I'm sure others will disagree, but I like to keep things out in the open when it comes to relationships.
Good luck Lisa :hatsoff:
As for your girlfriend; I'd be totally honest with her if I were you. The longer you leave it the worse it'll seem if she finds out or you decide to tell her. I'm sure others will disagree, but I like to keep things out in the open when it comes to relationships.
Good luck Lisa :hatsoff:
Tachi said:
I agree with Tachi, you should be honest with her. The longer you wait, the harder it's going to be and if she happend to find out some how without you telling her all hell is going to break loose. I'm always honest in my relationships as well. It may hurt her now but it's going to hurt both of you worse if she finds out later.
Good Luck :wave2:
I agree he was totally out of line asking you for a BJ! Dont assume all men are like that Lisa, some of us are gentlemen. Anyway, as far as telling you g/f, thats a tough call. Unless you think it could happen agian, I dont know if you should say anything. She might not trust you going out again. It might be wise to let sleeping dogs lie, and leave it in the past.
BTW, I do agree with Tachi and Foxy that its best to be honest, but this sounds to me like it could've been a one time thing, and why hurt your g/f if you dont have to.
BTW, I do agree with Tachi and Foxy that its best to be honest, but this sounds to me like it could've been a one time thing, and why hurt your g/f if you dont have to.
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