Will he choose to close the site or rerelease the riskier videos?
In my estimate its more likely the former than the latter. I've tried reaching out to him couple times in the last two months. My emails get an auto-reply saying he's sick and not receiving messages at this time. It could just be my email address that is getting this treatment or it could be that he's no longer interested in dealing with fan communications. Either way, as far as the site is run, he's going to protect his wife's interests and do business as he sees fit.
If the subs become too few to sustain the site I dont think he'll have much issue with shutting it down. A boycott like you're imagining is neither practical nor would it prove effective. 10-15 years ago when they were in the thick of it? Maybe, then. But these days all that's left are diehards and a business that has its course.
Just make peace with it.