Don't ask her out. Make plans with some male and female friends of yours and then ask her would she like to join the party. Go to a familiar place where everyone has a good time. She will be able to see your a fun guy with lots of good friends. It takes pressure off of both of you because it doesn't seem like a date. You can talk to her and to the other people in your party. Introducing her to your friends will make her feel close to you because she is now part of your social circle.
Need advice on asking a girl out.
- Thread starter SimonMK
- Start date
-
- Tags
- dating advice
SimonMK
Closed Account
I just chatted with her and asked her out... she accepted! :nanner: Well ''I'm free when you are then'' to be more exact. We agreed to meet at this Sunday in a metro station, so far we plan on just talking in a restaurant or a cafe, visit the downtown and I will be her guide in the afternoon. She gave me her phone number at home and cellphone and asked me to call her during the week just to chat, not just about the meeting. I told her I will call her tomorrow.
Well, that about it... I learned she is probably taller then me but that not important I guess. I decided to not invite her for a movie in a theater since we aren't going to talk during a movie and its not a dating.
I haven't gave her my phone number yet, I don't know if I should give it so she can call me when is ready to leave her hosue Sunday.
Well, that about it... I learned she is probably taller then me but that not important I guess. I decided to not invite her for a movie in a theater since we aren't going to talk during a movie and its not a dating.
I haven't gave her my phone number yet, I don't know if I should give it so she can call me when is ready to leave her hosue Sunday.
SimonMK
Closed Account
I didn't know what day I could call her and its kinda too late now, I told her I will call her tomorrow and she said its perfect. I could always send a e-mail and tell her I will call another day? But I will probably look irresponsible and don't keep my words... 
Well I never though of getting her anticipation up...
Well I never though of getting her anticipation up...
What, is she not from Montreal?
SimonMK
Closed Account
Yeah she lives in Montreal but she told she always get lost when she visit the downtown and doesn't visit it a lot. I think she lives in the north of Montreal, far from Downtown. She said I could be her guide since I live in the downtown and go out together, well that what she said the second time we chatted.
how does looks matter? oh wait, im talking to johnny depp here. sorry. :eek:
SimonMK
Closed Account
I saw like 3 different photos of her.
dick van cock
Closed Account
You ought to yell:
"Bend over, bitch!"
... Just to make sure whether she's a treat or a slut...
"Bend over, bitch!"
... Just to make sure whether she's a treat or a slut...
SimonMK
Closed Account
Well our meeting was cancelled... she just told me that she talked about me with her mother and she is not letting her ou with me. She is worried about all the internet meeting thing. She said we will still someday meet but just not right away unfortunely. To not worry because she will eventually convince her.
Talk about a big let down... well she did ask if I can call her tomorrow evening/night.
Talk about a big let down... well she did ask if I can call her tomorrow evening/night.
SimonMK
Closed Account
She did say ''she said like not for now, and I don't really have a choice but to listen to her''... The funny thing is she told me before that her mother met her boyfriend with internet/Craigslist.
I think its because when I called her yesterday and it was her mother that pick up and the phone. Well yesterday I called her but she was at her friend's house and asked to call later around 8:00pm, I did so but she wasn't back because she forgot to change the hour in her cell phone, so its was her mother who picked up the phone, asked me who I am and I wanted to leave her a message.
She probably asked her who I am and she explained...
just wait until YOU have kids, and he/she wants to meet someone off the internet. we will see if you still say this or not. :hatsoff:
Not the first time I hear warning like that. Of course, no one can predict the future. me ain't no exception. but if to judge on the basis of the past experience, I always used to be true to myself.
This opinion about overprotecting and negative side of 'mothers love' was not formed spontaneously. It is the reflection of my nature and is interconnected with many other views upon relations, family, freedom etc. This is my way of thinking, and probability of their radical changing is the same as the probabilty of becoming a completely different person. Time will show! (but something tells me, that no way I be that parent who dote on the child)
and back to the topic, I just think that it is a bad start for relations with the girl if her mother seems to interfere in the private life of her daughter so much. it will be a problem on every step of relation: whether it would be first date, first kiss, first sex... there always be a place for mothers opinion and if a girl always asks her mother whether is it good or bad, allowed or not allowed it will be a farce (a possible dialog after a year of acquaintance: "what?? he said that he wanted to have ORAL SEX with you??!! oh, what a shame!! never ever let this dirty internet bassstard come close to you, my dear daughter!!! etc..)
Similar threads
