My advice?
I would say:
If you are uncertain whether you could fall in love (or remain in love) with a ex-pornstar, then my advice would be:
I am no expert, I have never had to say anything similar to anybody before, but even so, that is what I would say.
I take absolutely no responsibility if you're relationship crumbles.
I would say:
Savour every moment.
When you watch porn, you probably imagine yourself fucking the pornstar right? Well nows your chance! You cant just suddenly hide from the truth.
If you are uncertain whether you could fall in love (or remain in love) with a ex-pornstar, then my advice would be:
I know that it's hard to confront somebody and freely talk about something so serious, but if you both show confidence and willingness to forgive, you should be fine.. Tell her that you respect her decision to tell you openly about it. Tell her you still love her etc. etc.
It's always best to crack some witty jokes here and there to show that you are able to laugh about the whole thing and easily put it behind both of you (but you don't want to sound like you are laughing AT her, or her decision to become a pornstar!).
I am no expert, I have never had to say anything similar to anybody before, but even so, that is what I would say.
I take absolutely no responsibility if you're relationship crumbles.