Complement? Dignity? Respect?
Dude you have the life lol seriously playboys models are whores anyway, and these days thats a compliment so they should do porn, porn is so mainstream.
Look what I meant was once you pose nude you sell your body for money, and your dignitym thats all. Thats just being a glorified prostitue, but this day and age its so expected you might as well have sex on camera too and maxmize your "talents" because they get so many guys, they probably sleep around anyway. Plus, it's just fun, I love sexy whores like those playmates.
You do see the irony of that statement don't you? Nude models + respect = WTF?
They don't have enough self-respect to use something aside from the "assets" to make their mark on the world. People who actually work to get where they are deserve respect.
You three gentlemen just
indirectly summed up the
problem of
why more women
do not go farther.
The "complement" is how
we gentlemen deliver it.
If we make a woman feel like "just another whore," then she
will not want to become one.
The "dignity" is how
we gentlemen define it.
If we make a woman feel that expressing herself in nude form and possibly erotic action is a woman who
lacks dignity, then she
will not go into it.
The "respect" is how
we gentlemen act.
If we show a woman that
we don't respect her, let alone
we don't think she respects herself, because she is nude or is sharing her intimate acts on camera, then she
will not even consider it.
Gentlemen, this is how us men --
collectively -- have delivered, defined and acted when presented with the pure foundation of our existence by the grace of women.
Instead of embracing women for who they are, what they share, how they exist in our most basic desires and what they are willing to do for us men, we disgraced them -- and ourselves -- with such attitudes.
And worst of all, we instill fear, hurt, anger and all sorts of other, quite negative attitudes around the basic, simple and wonderful concepts of love, intimacy, the female body and -- indirectly -- even procreation.
Now I have repeatedly complained about the lack of most pornography addressing this, but just like anything else in the media, it is
a reflection of ourselves.
I, for one, would enjoy nudity being delivered, defined and acted upon as adults, not the childish "I want it, but you're bad for giving it to me" non-sense, especially among my fellow Americans.
And when it comes to love making, I'm tired of the rough, degrading, uneventful, unloving action, I want caressing, fondling, holding, embracing, loving and ... most of all ...
I want to see intercourse how I have it!
And that is slow, deep, involving, fulfilling -- especially when I finally climax into sheer and near-convulsions from the slow, but complete, foreplay and constant interaction and sensitivity applied.
Women who embrace erotica, in all its forms, should be complemented, held up with dignity and respected for being who they are, a lady.
Because how you treat any lady is reflected upon you with any other lady.
I'm not a looker, I'm not a great lover, and I was far from popular in my day, but how I treated women is how I was appreciated by other women.
I have never apologies for my love, my lust, my untamed desire, my pure, selfish focus on the female form and my full admission that I love to take my manhood and enjoy it, even on my own.
Degrading? Wrong? Immoral? Where do you think even these suggestions come from?
Not what women do, not what other men do with women, but how men act when they are exposed to women and men who do.
And pornography is driven by those men who are so obsessed with lashing out at it, because of what they do, that it has infiltrated the entire industry.
Sad, very sad indeed.
plus we were actually going to have a 4sum with her and MM and elipsusgurl. It's true! The date was set, they were up for it... we didn't make the journey to Pittsburgh. Very disappointing. I think the news that Teri wasn't nearly as enthusiastic about it as MM was part of the reason we decided against it, plus we were very new lovers and I was only 19.
