Moral dilemma

[SpexyAshleigh]

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I don't know about the last part, spexy one. I would only laugh at a married man ordering up an escort. I think the OP just needs to TRY to make it happen and not throw in the towel.

Well maybe we're different then. I don't know one of my male friends who's paid for sex and DIDN'T get made fun of by myself and his buddies. Of course, the reasoning behind why one pays for sex has alot to do with it. If you simply want the job done right, or want to hook up with your fav pornstar, thats one thing. But if you're paying for sex because you're desperate, or are too lazy/lame to find a woman the normal way...thats worthy of ridicule IMO. But thats just me :tongue:

 

[Hot Mega]

Don't know why but wouldn't paying hookers for it sort of defeat the fantasy part?

For me (I have had 3somes before) having a 3some with hookers eliminates the whole purpose for having a 3some in the first place. As you wouldn't (or shouldn't) do certain things with hookers which would be the point of a 3some to me.

My advice, look for a bisexual chick on some fling site...get to trust her health and have her pick up a chick.

Don't have something like a 3some with prostitutes would be my advice. Might sound like a good plan on paper but it's really not when you think about it.

 

[DOA82]

Why do people come to this board and ask the same series of questions. We should add this crap to the FAQ on the site.

Should I pay for this? Should I do porn? Does this look to small to you?

I look at it with the "jumper" theory I developed, if a person threatens to jump and lets a crowd form, he was never gonna do it. If he was gonna do it, hed just jump, regardless of who was watching.

Stop asking for our approval on this kinda stuff, cause thats what you want. Not advice on how etc, you want us to say "yea go for it" so when it happens and it blows up in your face either as a knife wound from a disgruntled pimp or an std from an unclean coochie, you wont have yourself to blame!

 

[Bloodshot Scott]

Well maybe we're different then. I don't know one of my male friends who's paid for sex and DIDN'T get made fun of by myself and his buddies. Of course, the reasoning behind why one pays for sex has alot to do with it. If you simply want the job done right, or want to hook up with your fav pornstar, thats one thing. But if you're paying for sex because you're desperate, or are too lazy/lame to find a woman the normal way...thats worthy of ridicule IMO. But thats just me :tongue:

You're not a dude and have likely never been to Las Vegas. I rest my case.

 

[Ace Bandage]

I didn't read any of your responses. They're all stupid. And the OP is lying anyway. Fuck off.

^^ Yeah, this.

One thing to add though. To the OP: find a tall bridge - swan dive...

 

[SpexyAshleigh]

You're not a dude and have likely never been to Las Vegas. I rest my case.

You're right- I'm NOT a dude...I'm a chick...and can get laid in any sexual scenario that I want with no problem, so I'll never have to pay for anything sexual. Sucka!:tongue:

 

[glock27]

I fail to see where the "moral dilemma" is.

The second you said "threesome", I should think morality would be out the window at that point.

 

[blood monkey_1984]

dude, youre young, go out, have fun, and things WILL happen.
if you get desperate join a swingers club or go dogging or something like that

 

[johnnyb683]

thanks again for the input -

to whoever said I was lying or trying to get attention or whatever, I don't know what you mean, I have been seriously considering doing this for a while now, and just wanted people's opinions. I have looked it up and there are several escort agencies in my city that offer this type of thing.

Anyway, I got what I came for which is public opinion - I see now that I may have given up too soon on trying to do this without paying. You guys have instilled hope in me that is is possible. And you're right, paying for it would kind of ruin the point of the fantasy, and I would miss out on bragging rights with the guys. Now I'll just have to start figuring out how to make this happen.

I know its not the end all and be all of my life but the idea has been stuck in my head lately. I saw some people posting good advice - does anyone else have any? For those guys posting who have been in an FFM three way, what were the circumstances/how did it happen? any tips?

 

[blood monkey_1984]

For those guys posting who have been in an FFM three way, what were the circumstances/how did it happen? any tips?

i was about 21, and seeing this girl, fairly casually, she was bisexual and had a few "girlfriends" who where too. so one night i went round to hers and her friend was there as well, and they told me what they wanted to do to me...

to be honest, i initially panicked, i was still worried about pleasuring girls when it was just 1 on 1! but i soon relaxed and it was pretty awesome.

the thing is, you shouldnt really go looking for it, i generally find things like that just happen