that is ridiculous.
Men fuck for 30 min without cuming ?!
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they have lots of down time and if a guy blows it too early they'll keep going as soon as he can get hard again...they're well practiced at fucking but they're just men, it's not like they're instantly better at it than a normal person just because they make a living at it...just like porn chicks aren't necessarily hotter or a better lay than every other girl out there
Kingfisher
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No, no, no. Listen to country western music while doing it. It drills into your brain.
Just have a few drinks pre-sex, and take a mini-break if you feel like you're too excited.... heck, as I've gotten older, if I have more than a few drinks before fucking, I can literally exhaust myself before I come, depending on the hotness of the girl and the sex of course.
Just to add to the first here, there is a point where you go from being regularly hard for long periods and very sensitive to de-sensitized and still regularly hard for long periods to shorter periods. Diet, exercise, stress, etc... plays a huge factor.
I think we've all had the "we could fuck all day" problem in our teens, maybe through our early twenties. Then we found the "staying power" to last longer, even enjoy it far more as a result, especially as it's not the first time we've done X or Y, or maybe we're just more patient. Then we started running into the problem that we aren't as young, we tire in our rod as much as our bodies, and the erections don't last as long, so you can't continually pump for longer durations.
It's called life.
Working in other, intimate engagements other than straight-up intercourse is not only helpful, but will be invaluable as you get older. I would also advise having partners that enjoy, not just provide, but enjoy oral, and likewise for your partner. Oral sex and other intimacy can be invaluable, especially as stamina fades, interests change, etc..., even with the same partner.
I can only answer for myself, but God do I love it when I lose my erection and my wife loves to engulf it in her mouth. She'll even work it slow so I don't grow immediately. Yeah, some of it is because I've been de-sensitized to receiving BJs over the years. But it's also her knowing my body and its cycles. Likewise with her. I've learned when she wants oral and even needs it, without begging, and other things to set her mood, get those bumps out and her completely unexpecting and enthralled.
I can only imagine how it is for some of you guys who are dating. You hit the right nerve once, and she expects it regularly. Or you don't on that first time, and she sums it up as the limit your abilities. So not true in any case. Women are unique and they are learned, just like any other creature in life.
I've fucked for to long and made her pussy raw...
The key is to understand her needs, her limits, her considerations. There is no "magic answer" that works for all women. I can make my wife raw in 5 minutes, even when she was flooded when I started. Sometimes it's difficult to know how a woman is going to react, if she's going to stay as stimulated as she was when she started to release her first fluids.
I've gone over 2 hours and kept my wife wet. It took years. It also took years to even come close on the "timing" if I wanted to orgasm when she did. Can we do that today? Hardly! We're good if we go 15 minutes today. We're in our late 30s, so it's to be expected for many.
Indeed, it's the same as any other profession that requires physical skill. It eventually fades, even if experience makes up for it for awhile. I could so not handle the pressure of being a pornstar!
Post of the week!
In all seriousness, if you haven't tried, try not cumming with a partner, while she does. She how she reacts.
wow some master cocksmen post on this board a quick google search will show average duration after penetration is A LOT shorter than 30 minutes haha here's an article on webmd regarding this subject http://men.webmd.com/guide/sex-fact-fiction?page=4
I mean, with some good foreplay and pulling out a couple times when it gets too intense you can make it last longer
a quick google search will show average duration after penetration is A LOT shorter than 30 minutes haha here's an article on webmd regarding this subject http://men.webmd.com/guide/sex-fact-fiction?page=4I mean, with some good foreplay and pulling out a couple times when it gets too intense you can make it last longer
The answer is ...
It varies.
Either that or ...
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Same answer as what a girl wants in a stud ...
It varies.
Either that or ...
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Legzman
what the fuck you lookin at?
they film the money shot first and then film the rest of the scene.
Of considerable interest here is the following citation from Wikipedia ( http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pornographic_actress ), which I found today :
"Most male performers in heterosexual pornography are generally selected less for their looks than for their sexual prowess, namely their ability to do three things: achieve an erection while on a busy film set, maintain that erection while performing on camera, and then ejaculate on cue. In the past an actors' inability to maintain an erection could make the difference between a film turning a profit or a loss. However this problem has been solved by the use of Viagra. If an actor loses his erection, filming is forced to stop for about 45 minutes whilst the drug takes effect. Using Viagra can make the actor's face noticeably flushed, give him a headache, and make it difficult to ejaculate. According to director John Stagliano, using Viagra means "You also lose a dimension." "The guy's fucking without being aroused." "
If Viagra in some situations almost prevents ejaculation, then to me that is the whole explanation to the ability in porn movies for the male actors to fuck the absolute hottest of women in the absolute hottest of situations for hours ....
Would be very interesting to get views on this by people involved in the business. :hatsoff:
Again, I am simply very curious about how it is possible to accomplish some (most?) hot scenes without ejaculating all over the place after 2 minutes ...:dunno:
"Most male performers in heterosexual pornography are generally selected less for their looks than for their sexual prowess, namely their ability to do three things: achieve an erection while on a busy film set, maintain that erection while performing on camera, and then ejaculate on cue. In the past an actors' inability to maintain an erection could make the difference between a film turning a profit or a loss. However this problem has been solved by the use of Viagra. If an actor loses his erection, filming is forced to stop for about 45 minutes whilst the drug takes effect. Using Viagra can make the actor's face noticeably flushed, give him a headache, and make it difficult to ejaculate. According to director John Stagliano, using Viagra means "You also lose a dimension." "The guy's fucking without being aroused." "
If Viagra in some situations almost prevents ejaculation, then to me that is the whole explanation to the ability in porn movies for the male actors to fuck the absolute hottest of women in the absolute hottest of situations for hours ....
Would be very interesting to get views on this by people involved in the business. :hatsoff:
Again, I am simply very curious about how it is possible to accomplish some (most?) hot scenes without ejaculating all over the place after 2 minutes ...:dunno:
The hell? 30 minutes isn't that long at all.
Really, that is a fucking interesting theory! After the early ejaculation, Viagra is used to achieve a strong erection and then the recording starts again. Then a new ejaculation (possibly), more Viagra, new erection, etc. ...
wottle
I'm so horny, even the crack of dawn isn't safe
Pratice,Pratice, and more Practice. Bear in mind,as many have posted on this thread, the variables in sex are endless. Mood (of both partners) is a very important variable. As another poster stated, Porn sex is not reality. 30 min. can be achieved.
People who know the inner workings of Tantric Sex can fuck for 3 hrs +
again Practice,Practice,Practice. and good luck.
wottle
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I read an article once on the two biggest mistakes men make in bed - and the top two failures men most often make in bed are:
1. Cumming to soon
2. Not cumming soon enough
Compare it to bull-riding and a baseball game. One is just to short and the other is way to long.
There are times when I'm on set and really want to pop a nut on the third stroke - in those cases, I just think of you mom.
Then when I'm ready to pop - I just think of your sister :rubbel:
This thread has turned into a stupid bragging thread which is not what op intended clearly.This is the internet where no one will believe you, so saying you can fuck for hours is meaningless. Getting back on topic:
It probably doesn't hurt that so many guys in porn are gay, imagine fucking a guy, yes there would be physical stimulation but you would still be totally turned off and most likely not cum at all. Also you should jerk off beforehand and you should remember that you can take your time if you need to, stop fucking, compose yourself, eat pussy or w/e and then get back to it. Katt Williams does a pretty good job outlining this.
It probably doesn't hurt that so many guys in porn are gay, imagine fucking a guy, yes there would be physical stimulation but you would still be totally turned off and most likely not cum at all. Also you should jerk off beforehand and you should remember that you can take your time if you need to, stop fucking, compose yourself, eat pussy or w/e and then get back to it. Katt Williams does a pretty good job outlining this.
Hmm, so this is what all those basic sex programmes on TV are all about.
It really isn't that hard, all you gotta do is keep your mind occupied and everything else busy and not over stimulated.
Tantric sex is all about control, and you can actually learn the basics strangely from taking a leak. Normally when you start to have a piss, its nearly impossible to stop mid stream, you can do it for a second, but its fucking impossible and damn uncomfortable. Eventually you can control it as easy as putting a finger on a hose (without using your finger!) Its pretty much the same control method, as its resisting the sensations from your little dude, and mentally blocking them out.
It really isn't that hard, all you gotta do is keep your mind occupied and everything else busy and not over stimulated.
Tantric sex is all about control, and you can actually learn the basics strangely from taking a leak. Normally when you start to have a piss, its nearly impossible to stop mid stream, you can do it for a second, but its fucking impossible and damn uncomfortable. Eventually you can control it as easy as putting a finger on a hose (without using your finger!) Its pretty much the same control method, as its resisting the sensations from your little dude, and mentally blocking them out.
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