This thread rocks ...
First off, I'm glad more and more people are joining this thread. With that said, I'll make several responses with my trademark long-winded detail.
But it was that first Playboy centerfold in Petra Verkaik that unleashed my raw lust. I don't know how many times I unloaded to her in those first 2 weeks, but I'm sure I hit my record for day, week and half-month with her. The rest is history:
http://www.adultxposure.com/blog/profv/1330/
Then I had no control although I learned some very quickly with my first full-figured girlfriend. I went from being a "Boy Scout" (yeah, yeah, I know, most BSes weren't BSes) to total horn-dog. I couldn't get enough of women, and now that I like the "lesser appreciated" beauty, there were plenty of opportunities!
My first porno video wouldn't actually come until a few years later. A Christy Canyon compilation that caused me to unload 4 times in a hour. Other than those (which are experiences that are hard to forget), I really haven't kept score (not that I remember for the score -- but more because of the experiences and the "score" wasn't realized until later).
Now I have to admit that I've lost control a few times -- nearly all because of 10+ day trips away from the wife. There's only been a few other times in recent years that I've lost it without such duration. I have to avoid Patricia Farinelli's centerfold, and definitely any video with Yoko Matsugane. I like to use them to inspire my writing erotica -- but sometimes the visuals with putting my lust down in prose can go way too far.
If my wife ever lets me take pictures of her, I'm done for. I'll lose it way too often.
But every now and then I get an amateur vid from UseNet or P2P and the guy is totally into his lover -- she's curvy, serving and they don't stop kissing and running their hands all over each other. And if he gets a steady, loving motion going with her -- I've gotta turn it off, especially if it's going to be a creampie. Just too close-to-home for me.
My wife initially took it as an insult when it first started to happen over about 2-3 years ago. But she realizes it's just age -- let alone she's having more orgasms than myself now, because of my unintentional "sustainment." The resulting load is larger and thicker, and two independent urologists (we've been trying for a baby for 3 years now) have confirmed I do product more sperm in my semen than the average -- so nothing wrong there.
I always refer to it (leaking seminal fluid) as my way of "foaming at the mouth" -- and the ultimate is to orally please a woman. I've only had one 3-way in my life and I hated it (long story, I just like one woman at a time -- and now just one woman period), but if I was every to have more than one woman simultaneously -- it would be 4. One sitting on my face, one sitting on my cock and two others sitting on each of my hands' respective birds.
My wife was the only nut that was tough to crack on letting me provide oral. It took her even longer to "slam her pelvis in my face" while I was doing it. But once she finally started doing that, she really gets off -- because she needs the whole experience, just not the static position while the friction/motion is provided by something else.
The only time I like stationary is when I'm just about to blast and we're pro-longing it. Of course, sometimes my wife likes to suddenly put her hands around my ass and push me in and force the climax -- especially after I've been stationary for 10+ minutes and wasn't expecting it.
First off, I'm glad more and more people are joining this thread. With that said, I'll make several responses with my trademark long-winded detail.
I have to disagree. I have traveled a lot without my wife the last few years, and I'm back to doing such over this past month. I really enjoy pleasing myself for a good hour a day -- just on my own -- even though I don't climax (and save for her).Pariah000 said:
She could be teasing, or she could want to see how far it goes. In any case, it really depends on what you want. If you can deal with the tease without losing control and focus, then go for it. If you want more than just a tease, I'd ask yourself if you're really ready to deal with it if it's just a tease (and probably not).Pariah000 said:
It doesn't take much to get many.Pariah000 said:
All I remember is that I was rather sheltered and I didn't even look at my first Playboy until mid high school. Before that, my skinny cheerleader/popular girlfriends couldn't get me off, although I really didn't let many of them get very far with me at all. I was known as a "nice guy" and "had control" -- although most of my girlfriends dumped me and made fun of me for it.Bowser said:
But it was that first Playboy centerfold in Petra Verkaik that unleashed my raw lust. I don't know how many times I unloaded to her in those first 2 weeks, but I'm sure I hit my record for day, week and half-month with her. The rest is history:
http://www.adultxposure.com/blog/profv/1330/
Then I had no control although I learned some very quickly with my first full-figured girlfriend. I went from being a "Boy Scout" (yeah, yeah, I know, most BSes weren't BSes) to total horn-dog. I couldn't get enough of women, and now that I like the "lesser appreciated" beauty, there were plenty of opportunities!
My first porno video wouldn't actually come until a few years later. A Christy Canyon compilation that caused me to unload 4 times in a hour. Other than those (which are experiences that are hard to forget), I really haven't kept score (not that I remember for the score -- but more because of the experiences and the "score" wasn't realized until later).
I always save the load for the wife, even when I travel. I'll fluff myself without climax in between, but unless I haven't seen her for 10+ days, I keep it under control.Bowser said:
Now I have to admit that I've lost control a few times -- nearly all because of 10+ day trips away from the wife. There's only been a few other times in recent years that I've lost it without such duration. I have to avoid Patricia Farinelli's centerfold, and definitely any video with Yoko Matsugane. I like to use them to inspire my writing erotica -- but sometimes the visuals with putting my lust down in prose can go way too far.
If my wife ever lets me take pictures of her, I'm done for. I'll lose it way too often.
The only time I have to watch it with video is when the emotion and motion matches mine -- the rhythm just goes with the flow and the scene and action is set to what I normally do with my wife. Luckily it's not very common in porno -- I tend to pump my wife slower when vaginal, we tend to use oral and tit-fuck positions that are never attempted or used in porno, and we definitely have far more kissing!Bowser said:
But every now and then I get an amateur vid from UseNet or P2P and the guy is totally into his lover -- she's curvy, serving and they don't stop kissing and running their hands all over each other. And if he gets a steady, loving motion going with her -- I've gotta turn it off, especially if it's going to be a creampie. Just too close-to-home for me.
I have special folders under my organization called "blast" where I put pictures and videos that would set me "over the edge" if I viewed them too long or at the wrong time -- kinda a "failsafe."Bowser said:
Now that's what I'm talking about! I'm with you -- I like a good 30-60 minutes of constant petting and stroking, in addition to other foreplay. As I'm now hitting my mid-'30s, it's becoming more mandatory to get me to release -- since I can no longer go within 30 seconds when I was 20-soething, but it takes more like 5 minutes minimum.Bowser said:
My wife initially took it as an insult when it first started to happen over about 2-3 years ago. But she realizes it's just age -- let alone she's having more orgasms than myself now, because of my unintentional "sustainment." The resulting load is larger and thicker, and two independent urologists (we've been trying for a baby for 3 years now) have confirmed I do product more sperm in my semen than the average -- so nothing wrong there.
I'm circumsized too, but since I started loving full-figured women (which is really when I first discovered my raw, male lust), I've always been self-lubing within 5 minutes. I never really had an issue there, ever. With or without a lover.Bowser said:
I really get off giving to a woman -- especially providing oral on her. I really love it when my wife sits on my face and I'm cupping her breasts from underneath and/or pulling her hips down more. She says she likes to give me a handjob while I'm doing that because she says it's when I leak the most seminal fluid.Bowser said:
I always refer to it (leaking seminal fluid) as my way of "foaming at the mouth" -- and the ultimate is to orally please a woman. I've only had one 3-way in my life and I hated it (long story, I just like one woman at a time -- and now just one woman period), but if I was every to have more than one woman simultaneously -- it would be 4. One sitting on my face, one sitting on my cock and two others sitting on each of my hands' respective birds.
I started ruining pillows, quilts and other soft clothes rather quickly when I was a late teenager. So being the little home-ec nerd I was, I went out and spent $5 on a good sized fur cloth -- then sewed myself some perfectly fit rolls. After about 5-10 uses and quick washes, I'd just discard -- since I easily got dozens of rolls out of that "investment." I used to do all sorts of things, including chilling it (typically by using cubes or ice water), etc...MiamiBeach said:I own a flesh light and I think it's awesome!! You won't ever masturbate with out it again. When you are out of town and you get horny and you must masturbate you fucking can't stand not having it. It spoils you bad and its good as shitI love it.
Men like the "pumping" as much as the stroke -- at least I do. That's why things like the Fleshlight are great because you're "pumping into" something just like intercourse (be it vaginal, oral, mammary, etc..).Pariah000 said:
My wife was the only nut that was tough to crack on letting me provide oral. It took her even longer to "slam her pelvis in my face" while I was doing it. But once she finally started doing that, she really gets off -- because she needs the whole experience, just not the static position while the friction/motion is provided by something else.
The only time I like stationary is when I'm just about to blast and we're pro-longing it. Of course, sometimes my wife likes to suddenly put her hands around my ass and push me in and force the climax -- especially after I've been stationary for 10+ minutes and wasn't expecting it.
