If that makes you feel better.....all power to you.
But let me give people a modern day demonstration of what transsexuals really look like, so they are not in for a shock. Unlike a not so very attractive person who unfortunately transitioned after male puberty had taken place, this are some other possible looks.
http://www.bangkokdiaries.com/tests/katoey/images/1.jpg
http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_vw7rJzWZu...8DBBD38-2EBC-42A5-94F9-4E16EA64997B}_su05.jpg
http://www.ladyboyamy.com/ladyboy-amy-fansign.jpg:D
Boy, Girl, or other - I would love to spend quality time with Lady Gaga.