Is what is said in porn more degrading than the acts themselves?

[Rey C.]

I will say this.My girlfriend and i watch porn on occasion sometimes..And she hates the new porn.If you know what i mean of how porn has changed from old tera patrick or jenna jameson..When the guy grabs her head and forces her head on his dick or calls her a slut or whore or a cumdumpster.According to her no girl likes to be called a slut or cumdumpster.But then you hear these girls say they love doing what they do,its confusing..I dont want to get off to a girl whos acting out cause shes been abused..Any women on here like when a man tells them to "gag on my cock whore" or have a guys foot on there face while being fuct.??

I think it goes back to what Skechers said above: "It's about give and take. Find someone as twisted as you are and just go with it."

No offense to you or your girl, but one girl who claims she knows what no girl likes would be like me telling a girl what no guy likes. How would I know? I don't know every guy, and I haven't done a scientific random sample to find out. From personal experience, I know that some girls are more into romantic, tender lovemaking, many like a mix of romantic lovemaking and hot sex... and there are girls who are as kinky or kinkier than any guy. There are girls who do get off on being called a slut or a whore - in bed, not when you see them in the grocery store in front of 50 people. And some get off on being spanked (light or hard). Some like being tied up. And there are girls that if you did any of those things with them, they'd be out the door faster than you could say, "would you rather watch a movie?!" The girl who gets off on being spanked (or whatever) either likes the feeling of being degraded... or she doesn't see being spanked as being degraded. Either way, who am I (or anybody else) to tell her how she should feel or what's right for her??? As long as she is exercising free will, she can do what she pleases. And if someone doesn't like it, they shouldn't watch her scenes or they shouldn't go to bed with her.

That's why I said Skecher had the post of the week. He gets it: "It's about give and take. Find someone as twisted as you are and just go with it." :thumbsup:

BTW, it's funny to me to see someone say that Jenna Jameson and Tera Patrick represent the "old porn". I'm not that old, but I guess it's all based on perspective, huh? Catch "Her Name Was Lisa" or many of the New York shoot & scoot movies from the 70's, and you'll see that the actual "old porn" didn't include candy & flowers for the porn actresses at the end of the scenes. Prepare to be :eek:

 

[CrackHerButt]

and you are the same guy who calls women cumdumpsters and loves max hardcore treating them like shit?
i seriously doubt you have (or will ever have) a girlfriend, you troll.
you are going on my ignore list.

O' no some one who i never met is putting me on there ignore list..Im going to killmyself now,wtf stupid...And for the record folks ive never tried to even talk to this twat..

 

[CrackHerButt]

I think it goes back to what Skechers said above: "It's about give and take. Find someone as twisted as you are and just go with it."

No offense to you or your girl, but one girl who claims she knows what no girl likes would be like me telling a girl what no guy likes. How would I know? I don't know every guy, and I haven't done a scientific random sample to find out. From personal experience, I know that some girls are more into romantic, tender lovemaking, many like a mix of romantic lovemaking and hot sex... and there are girls who are as kinky or kinkier than any guy. There are girls who do get off on being called a slut or a whore - in bed, not when you see them in the grocery store in front of 50 people. And some get off on being spanked (light or hard). Some like being tied up. And there are girls that if you did any of those things with them, they'd be out the door faster than you could say, "would you rather watch a movie?!" The girl who gets off on being spanked (or whatever) either likes the feeling of being degraded... or she doesn't see being spanked as being degraded. Either way, who am I (or anybody else) to tell her how she should feel or what's right for her??? As long as she is exercising free will, she can do what she pleases. And if someone doesn't like it, they shouldn't watch her scenes or they shouldn't go to bed with her.

That's why I said Skecher had the post of the week. He gets it: "It's about give and take. Find someone as twisted as you are and just go with it." :thumbsup:

BTW, it's funny to me to see someone say that Jenna Jameson and Tera Patrick represent the "old porn". I'm not that old, but I guess it's all based on perspective, huh? Catch "Her Name Was Lisa" or many of the New York shoot & scoot movies from the 70's, and you'll see that the actual "old porn" didn't include candy & flowers for the porn actresses at the end of the scenes. Prepare to be :eek:

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I didnt find it that hard to believe..I mean i dont think telling a girl to gag on my cock you fuckin whore is very romantic,but to eaches own...

 

[CrackHerButt]

I think it goes back to what Skechers said above: "It's about give and take. Find someone as twisted as you are and just go with it."

No offense to you or your girl, but one girl who claims she knows what no girl likes would be like me telling a girl what no guy likes. How would I know? I don't know every guy, and I haven't done a scientific random sample to find out. From personal experience, I know that some girls are more into romantic, tender lovemaking, many like a mix of romantic lovemaking and hot sex... and there are girls who are as kinky or kinkier than any guy. There are girls who do get off on being called a slut or a whore - in bed, not when you see them in the grocery store in front of 50 people. And some get off on being spanked (light or hard). Some like being tied up. And there are girls that if you did any of those things with them, they'd be out the door faster than you could say, "would you rather watch a movie?!" The girl who gets off on being spanked (or whatever) either likes the feeling of being degraded... or she doesn't see being spanked as being degraded. Either way, who am I (or anybody else) to tell her how she should feel or what's right for her??? As long as she is exercising free will, she can do what she pleases. And if someone doesn't like it, they shouldn't watch her scenes or they shouldn't go to bed with her.

That's why I said Skecher had the post of the week. He gets it: "It's about give and take. Find someone as twisted as you are and just go with it." :thumbsup:

BTW, it's funny to me to see someone say that Jenna Jameson and Tera Patrick represent the "old porn". I'm not that old, but I guess it's all based on perspective, huh? Catch "Her Name Was Lisa" or many of the New York shoot & scoot movies from the 70's, and you'll see that the actual "old porn" didn't include candy & flowers for the porn actresses at the end of the scenes. Prepare to be :eek:

Dude im 28 and the porn has changed from the shit i found under my dads bed..I think we can both agree on that..Dont think jenna or teras ever been in a gangbang..

 

[Nester6]

Fuck no! Porn is porn and the girls are there willingly. It's all a part of acting. The dirtier the talk in porn, the hotter it is for this guy!

 

[Rey C.]

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I didnt find it that hard to believe..I mean i dont think telling a girl to gag on my cock you fuckin whore is very romantic,but to eaches own...

I'm just saying that romantic has nothing to do with what gets someone (male or female) off, or whether or not someone finds a particular act or word to be degrading.

 

[Rey C.]

Dude im 28 and the porn has changed from the shit i found under my dads bed..I think we can both agree on that..Dont think jenna or teras ever been in a gangbang..

Believe me, I wasn't trying to call you out on your age. I was just pointing out that in the time well before Jenna and Tera got into porn, a lot worse than what you see now was being produced. Maybe your dad wasn't into that, and that's why you didn't see that sort of material under his bed. I :dunno:

Ronald Reagan's Attorney General, Ed Meese, got together with N.O.W. and went on a porn witchhunt in the 80's (The Meese Commission) - and things got pretty tame for awhile. Probably 90% of the girls in porn now, I couldn't name them if I had to. So I don't know who today's big starlet is. But outfits like Adam & Eve still do a good business in romantic, couples porn, as far as I know. The biggest difference (IMO) is that the internet and digital cameras opened things up to gonzo porn, small independent producers and stuff coming out of Eastern Europe, Asia and other places (with cultures and attitudes very different from our own).

But going back to what's degrading... I still say that Mika Tan, Alyssa West or Dana DeArmond might give a very different answer than some girl who only does tame b/g or mainly g/g scenes. And there's probably more than a few Hispanic actresses who won't do scenes for Latina Abuse, Border Bangers or Dirty Latina Maids. But there are a lot that do. I'm not Hispanic, so it's not up to me to tell someone what they should find offensive or degrading.

 

[Ravenholm]

Is what is said degrading? I'd say it's more embarrassing than anything else. The sort of thing that would make you cringe.

 

[sexarise! chick]

Well porn stars are obviously comfortable with there jobs, so no I don't find it degrading. They know what to expect.

 

[SiCo]

Porn is degrading. I don't think there's any point in trying to work out which part of it is worse than the other, it already has its sub-genres. Also, it's riddled with taboos otherwise it wouldn't be pornographic.

By comparison, obscene displays of wealth are said to pornographic.

 

[monicasilver]

I like it, so I think it is hot.

Do I think the girls feel humliated or degraded? Some more than others. I depends upon your outlook and what turns you on.

 

[vodkazvictim]

Women don't have feelings so it's immaterial.