Is what is said in porn more degrading than the acts themselves?

[jack123]

Do you think that the things that are said to girls in scenes are more degrading than what the guys are actually doing to them? Do you think it affects a girl more to be told shes a piece of shit whore, or to be made to look at the camera and ask her mom if shes proud of her, or to have a cock shoved down her throat or in her ass?

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[kewlio65]

I think it depends on the person. There has obviously been consent on her part to be in the scene, films whatever it might be. Should would also know what type of shoot she is doing and would therefore be prepared. It is a toughy alright. I think maybe the things said to her would probably be worse, though it is hard to tell. I think it would need to be taken on a case by case basis.

 

[Facial_King]

As with most of this kind of thing, "it depends" but aside from that standard, boring answer, I'll say "Yes, often it is." But it also depends on if we accept the standard interpretations of the meaning of some terms. Does a slut have to be a bad person? If guys are promiscuous many people (esp. other guys) don't see that as bad but admirable or enviable, so maybe the double standards are a problem?
But I hate the lame (and tired and boring) schtick where some asshole takes a crayon or a marker and writes "worthless whore" on the gal's forehead or whatever. Why not "Goddess" or "Queen of Cum" or something fun like that???

But what if it's some sort of BDSM activity? Surely you can find both guys and gals saying the nastiest things about themselves, right? (I don't actually know, as I'm not much into the BDSM thing, often finding it more laughable than anything else)

As for "Are you proud of me, Mom?" and similar things, well, let's face it, Mom probably doesn't really want or need to know about ANY of our sexual activities, whether it's gangbang porn or having a messy anal disaster with your new bride (that you've never cheated on), right???

 

[JayJohn85]

Double standards are ingrained in most of the worlds culture. Its the very fact that the thing is taboo is why perhaps some chicks get turned on while being referred as a slut or more correctly why blokes like that type of stuff. Me personally not really into too much talk, I like positive shit "like your good" or whatever lol.(what can I say us males like getting our egos stroked)

As for that mom shit fook thats on a whole level of weird and I have never seen a video like it. But yet again it wouldnt be one that would turn me on....Just get slated into the "holy fook thats some weird shit right there" category. And by that I mean whatever guys truly enjoy that type of shit needs to take a good hard look at himself cause surely hes one serious misogynist. But hey yet again could be a gross generalization on my part maybe some women watch that shit....If there are then my dears you scare me lol.

 

[skechers]

I like it when she dirty talks to me. Degrades me. Calls me a little boy, or a fag. Asks me if that's the best I can do. Slap me around a little. Sets me off. Makes me try even harder. Makes me feel like a tiger who's been poked and prodded and then let out of his cage to fuck some shit up. lol.

The thing you have to realize is porn is all fantasy. And alot of woman have that fantasy of being treated a certain way, and controlled. Yeah, I can take it, but I'd rather dish it out. And I understand that it is a romantic thing when your lover is willing to please you like you like to be pleased.

So no. Nothing sexual is degrading or offensive, as long as both parties are enjoying it. To the outsider looking in... yeah. Maybe. But you don't have to look.

It's about give and take. Find someone as twisted as you are and just go with it

 

[Legzman]

dunno, don't care. Porn is porn. So in and of itself can be considered degrading. If your easily offended go watch something else!

 

[Rey C.]

It's about give and take. Find someone as twisted as you are and just go with it

:coolman:

I nominate that for the post of the week! I like that. :rofl:

How 'bout some rep for this man?! :thumbsup:

 

[titsrock]

I don't like the verbal abuse. A guy who verbally abuses a chick on camera, what's it like when those 2 run into each other at Starbucks?

I'd like to think the porn director sits the girl and guy down before the camera rolls and explains to them that, even though it's a rough scene, that it's all playacting....

 

[Galactic]

How can words be more degrading than actual acts on film? :dunno:

 

[Galactic]

I like it when she dirty talks to me. Degrades me. Calls me a little boy, or a fag. Asks me if that's the best I can do. Slap me around a little. Sets me off. Makes me try even harder. Makes me feel like a tiger who's been poked and prodded and then let out of his cage to fuck some shit up. lol.

The thing you have to realize is porn is all fantasy. And alot of woman have that fantasy of being treated a certain way, and controlled. Yeah, I can take it, but I'd rather dish it out. And I understand that it is a romantic thing when your lover is willing to please you like you like to be pleased.

So no. Nothing sexual is degrading or offensive, as long as both parties are enjoying it. To the outsider looking in... yeah. Maybe. But you don't have to look.

It's about give and take. Find someone as twisted as you are and just go with it

Post Of The Week. :thumbsup:

 

[shayd]

Eh, not usually, although in some extreme cases, I get annoyed with the talking.

 

[~~whimsy~~]

I remember that Shane Diesel film with Eva Angeline and at the end he grabs her by the throat and tells her to say something about loving N**** cocks and being a whore. Something like that. I thought, damn, that's more fucked up (kind of) than the fact he was forcing her to take that monster cock of his in her little pussy.

I often hate the talking if it comes off as too much acting or just too much talking. It's like shut up and get to it already. Your acting sucks, the story line is pointless, and there is a reason you aren't doing real movies so stop treating this as a film to go on your resume for when you try to get into Hollywood again!

 

[JakeSnake]

Yes; definitely.

 

[Rey C.]

I can't remember who it was now, but I saw an interview with a porn actress who said that she felt like taking facials was degrading. But hey, there are other girls who seem to dig facials.

There are more than a few girls on here who are in the industry. To know if a girl finds one thing to be more degrading than something else, you pretty much have to get one or more girls to speak up.

 

[Namreg]

why is a consensual act performed for money by consenting and well-informed adults degrading?

 

[Rey C.]

why is a consensual act performed for money by consenting and well-informed adults degrading?

I see where you're coming from, and I agree with you. But one (the performer, I mean) could still feel something is degrading, even with those conditions in place. In fact, some people are into being degraded. S&M and B&D are full of that sort of thing.

IMO, the problem comes about when someone watching or hearing about something feels that it is "inappropriate" (based on their own moral judgments).

 

[Namreg]

you're right, but people that watch 'black on white' porn and then get offended by the language need to have the stick removed from their asses.

having said that, i must admit to also having felt a bit... squeamish perhaps, during particularly 'bad' scenes. then you realise it's all acting and the film you just watched simply caters to a different crowd... and then you get over it. at least i did.

 

[PJroast]

Well they agree to do most of the stuff, so I don't think it's overly degrading. Yeah, some of the stuff that certain stars do may be gross or degrading, but there are endless ways to make money, and they chose Porn. Also, they wouldn't stay in the buisness that long if they were truly offended or turned away by what they'd be doing.

 

[CrackHerButt]

I will say this.My girlfriend and i watch porn on occasion sometimes..And she hates the new porn.If you know what i mean of how porn has changed from old tera patrick or jenna jameson..When the guy grabs her head and forces her head on his dick or calls her a slut or whore or a cumdumpster.According to her no girl likes to be called a slut or cumdumpster.But then you hear these girls say they love doing what they do,its confusing..I dont want to get off to a girl whos acting out cause shes been abused..Any women on here like when a man tells them to "gag on my cock whore" or have a guys foot on there face while being fuct.??

 

[Namreg]

and you are the same guy who calls women cumdumpsters and loves max hardcore treating them like shit?
i seriously doubt you have (or will ever have) a girlfriend, you troll.
you are going on my ignore list.