It's best when you're having sex with the girl you love and another girl at the same time.
However, sex when you're not in love seems to me to be much more exciting and can lead to much more taboo type of things. It's spontaneous and you tend to worry about your own pleasure a little more. Plus it is fun to explore a new girl every once in awhile, find out her likes and dislikes. Good post, nice topic.
I think I've actually done MORE with my wife than with the randoms from before her. Lots of the "taboo" things you mention above I didn't get to do until after I met and stayed with her, as we both got more adventurous as time's gone on.
I agree- good topic! :thumbsup:
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Hey, what about *that* hole? :eek:
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I think when you are in love you can reach an emotional high during sex that you cannot achieve with someone you are not in love with. Intense emotional feelings shared between two people can take sex to an entirely new level.
I'm getting married to the woman who was my first, so I honestly can't say whether or not being in love is what can make or break great sex.
I know I've wondered what it would be like with other women, but I love my fiance so much, that I wouldn't dare be that bold as to cheat on her just to satisfy a stupid curiosity.
I'll second that! :lovecouplI have to agree with that statement. So yes, sex is much better when you are love. It does help when you are still in lust with your partner too.
being in love means you are much more open to new things. Plus I feel she honestly wants to make me feel good, and the same with me to her.Also we have a choice: Do we fuck? Or do we make love? There is a big difference. We like to mix it up
Some people prefer sex as part of a long-term relationship while others find familiarity a real passion killer. Psychosexual therapist Paula Hall takes a closer look at casual and committed sex.
Is sex better when you're in love?