Is sex better when you're in love?

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Some people prefer sex as part of a long-term relationship while others find familiarity a real passion killer. Psychosexual therapist Paula Hall takes a closer look at casual and committed sex.

Is sex better when you're in love?

 

[AFA]

Basic but good article. :thumbsup:

 

[bigbadbrody]

I'd have to say it all depends on who you are having sex with

 

[ChefChiTown]

I've only been with one girl and I was in love with her before I slept with her. I've never had sex with anyone else, so I can't really tell you if there's a difference.

I would assume it's better when you're in love with the other person though.

 

[member006]

I honestly really couldn't tell you. The only sex I've ever had was while in love and while in a long term relationship. I can imagine since I've never wanted to have sex with someone I didn't emotionally feel a bond with that in love is certainly better. I think the feelings you have, being comfortable totally with your partner and that great "becoming one heart and soul" would have to be better than slam bam thank you ma'am/fella.

 

[Fervor]

It depends. There is definitely a difference between 'making love' and casual sex. In a way, it's almost hard to compare them because it just feels so different. Sex in a relationship is great, but one of my best encounters ever was a one night stand I had on vacation. She was absolutely gorgeous, which did make a big difference as well, heh.

 

[dave_rhino]

The sex I've had before my current girlfriend was all shite.

The sex with her is amazing, being in love means you are much more open to new things. Plus I feel she honestly wants to make me feel good, and the same with me to her.

Also we have a choice: Do we fuck? Or do we make love? There is a big difference. We like to mix it up

 

[Christmas_Ape]

It's best when you're having sex with the girl you love and another girl at the same time.

 

[slowhand]

Will I think when Your in love with a women the sex is better. I think when you two can reach each others souls and really feel the love it's ten times better then when you don't feel the same when you not in love. That's my :2 cents: worth.

 

[ckjedi66]

I think when you are in love you can reach an emotional high during sex that you cannot achieve with someone you are not in love with. Intense emotional feelings shared between two people can take sex to an entirely new level. I know this because with my g/f and me, we have experienced incredible satisfaction with each other, the likes of which neither of us have ever experienced. Sex without love is ok, I have done it before, but sex with love, especially intense love, is a feeling that just cannot be described until you experience it yourself.

 

[TrueSiN]

yeah its better ive boned chicks before.. and ive boned my gf obviously.. and i would say yes it is.

 

[JiDoKwan]

Nahhh!!!
I enjoy it more with girls that I really can't stand.....it turns me on knowing that I'm pounding a chick that despises me as well.
Must the fact that I know that I'll end up screwing them over in the end - pun intended...lol

 

[nukenitro]

Nahhh!!!
I enjoy it more with girls that I really can't stand.....it turns me on knowing that I'm pounding a chick that despises me as well.
Must the fact that I know that I'll end up screwing them over in the end - pun intended...lol

I've only had that happen once. And it was the roughest sex I've ever had. When the person despises you, they let you know

 

[Christmas_Ape]

I've only had that happen once. And it was the roughest sex I've ever had. When the person despises you, they let you know

The same holds true for me, except we were thumb wrestling.

 

[BNF]

Best when you are both in LUST.

No complications. No history. No acting.

Just an unstaged, reckless, sweaty, unbridled feeding frenzy.

 

[Boob Brain]

I think for women the emotional stimulation of sex is more satisfying than the physical and therefore being in "love" or just a strong emotional/thrilling connection is better, unless they have low self-esteem or they are nymphomaniac, then casual is better in their minds. On the other hand, for men it doesn't really matter much either way, because we are more physical, although being in love can enhance it somewhat. This is all just generally speaking.

 

[Legzman]

Best when you are both in LUST.

No complications. No history. No acting.

Just an unstaged, reckless, sweaty, unbridled feeding frenzy.

Exactly :glugglug:

 

[TonyBro]

Everything is better when you are in love, especially sex with the one you love.:scream:

 

[SoCaLhOcKeY951]

Depends.

I have only had 2 girls who I acually loved and it was unbelivable.

The others I just wanted to fuck I didnt care bout em I said I did we all do that some point in our lives...ha ha they'll be fine

 

[jamrak]

love is disturbing from having sex.
love and sex are 2 different things.