Is porn educational or just for personal satisfaction

[luis1972]

educational

 

[Boner69]

Thanks for the education tips....

:horse: :horse: :horse: :horse:

 

[STDiva]

The only thing people learn from porn is how to feel insecure. Whether it's guys thinking you need an 8 inch cock to make a girl cum, or girls thinking you need to have huge tits, a tight body and a 900 cubic foot lingerie closet to look sexy. Learning how to fuck from porn is like learning how to be a cop by watching csi. It's fucking fake, scripted, edited bullshit.

If you wanna be a good lover, figure out how your girl/guy works. Things that work on Shyla Stylez might not work on your girl. Keiran fucking Lee doesn't know how to make my girl cum, I do. So why the fuck am I going to adopt his techniques?

That being said...I watch porn to jerk off.

 

[titsrock]

In a way, you gotta love it......you know what you're gonna get, even if it does drive ya bat shit crazy!

And the award for clumsy, unnecessary piling on goes to....

 

[timon]

for me its both

 

[Galactic]

And the award for clumsy, unnecessary piling on goes to....

I won! So many to thank........

 

[Hot Mega]

1) Porn today is miles different than in the past. The things I mentioned are things that occur far greater than they have in the past. When you mention porn that involves women getting more pleasure, and it being about the sex, I think of porn from a few decades ago. When I think of modern day porn, its not about pleasing women. Its fantasy, for men. And most men want the fantasy, most of the time being things that rarely, if ever, occur in their normal sex lives. Its why porn exists in the first place.

There is no genre of porn I know of geared around female pleasure except for maybe lesbo porn. That doesn't mean in regular scenes where it's just two people fucking the chick doesn't get off. For example, Mark Ashley makes Cassie Young cum in "Teen Idols 2". The vid isn't about making women cum or female pleasure...he fucks her with straight, even intensity strokes over and over while she's spread open on a couch with a vib on her clit and she cums.

From my experience the strokes he was giving her were likely hitting her g-spot and epicenter. She had a vibrator on her clit and when she came it lasted for about 20 seconds...I suppose anything is possible and she could have been "faking" just because there is a possibility, but from my experience it was far more likely a level 7 orgasm...clit, g and epicenter. As almost any woman who doesn't have a problem cumming is going to cum from that.

2) Where on the forums have I said that I don't get off during sex? Excuse me, but I'm one of the few women who can orgasm in three minutes or less, with just penetration and zero foreplay. I'm blessed, to say the least. My record for cumming is 49 seconds, with straight cock, nothing else. So...yeah. I don't have a difficult time cumming so you must be thinking of someone else.

I know this isn't determinative on the subject of your experience cumming and I may have jumped the gun in assuming. But aren't you the same SpexyAshleigh who had the ex b/f who only lasted about 30 seconds and you never had good sex with..and the same Spexy....who's only had the dick of her ex husband in her mouth?

I could be wrong and if I am okay. But I assume from that you're not very experienced. No biggie...

3)Whether a woman has "incentive" to fake it or not, doesn't mean she won't do it. The only incentive any woman might have is to just get it over with quicker. I'm not saying women you've been with have faked it, but don't be arrogant enough to say that you're SO experienced that you can tell when a woman in porn is faking it or not. Women are paid to act in porn - they're entertainers. Lots do cum I'm sure. But unless their pussy is wrapped around your cock and you're in the moment, feeling whats going on and experiencing their body language- you don't know.

When it comes to reading others, who knows anything for sure? That doesn't mean you can't be reasonably sure of something. Like I said, every woman is different and every orgasm isn't starkly detectable so it's not about knowing when they are faking, it's about knowing when they're not. But with respect to porn, there are female performers who consistently cum in their scenes and there are a few guys who are pretty consistent in making the chicks they perform with cum...I just gravitate to their work..simple.:o

I don't know why you have to argue every opinion I state. My original post (which was echoed by others with the same opinion) was just stating that I don't believe porn should be used as education on how to please a woman sexually.

Argue every opinion you state? It's a simple discussion for me where 2 people are exchanging opinions. I don't take or make it personal.

You related a perspective based on your experience, I offered a different perspective based on mine. There is stuff out there to be sure where no insight can be gleaned at all. In the end, it all depends on what your interests are.

I didn't engage him, he engaged me. Like he's always done lol. He has a problem with my having an opinion that doesn't match his, but thats the way shiz goes! Its all good.

The reply button simply says "reply". I doesn't say "reply only if you agree". It's a discussion board...people agree and disagree all day long here. When you, me or anyone else lays out an opinion on anything here..it's subject to indifference, agreement or disagreement.

Someone responding to a person's point isn't necessarily trying to change their mind and in almost every case I know I'm not...If I go back and forth with you or anyone...I don't care about changing your mind. In the overwhelming majority of cases I'm simply responding to your point or what you say.

 

[SpexyAshleigh]

I know this isn't determinative on the subject of your experience cumming and I may have jumped the gun in assuming. But aren't you the same SpexyAshleigh who had the ex b/f who only lasted about 30 seconds and you never had good sex with..and the same Spexy....who's only had the dick of her ex husband in her mouth?

I could be wrong and if I am okay. But I assume from that you're not very experienced. No biggie...


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Yes my ex bf from 2003 had issues with premature ejaculating. So I had a bad lay. Every woman has a bad lay, or ten. That doesn't mean I didn't move on to greener pastures. :1orglaugh And last time I checked, sucking dick doesn't = climax, for a girl so what does that have to do with anything? So only one guy deserved my oral, ahem, attention - that doesn't mean anything in your assumption that I don't orgasm enough to know anything about sexual pleasure. lol.

Listen, you don't need to quote and argue everything I say. And you most certainly don't need to come off as a cocky a-hole who's trying to treat me like an unexperienced little girl with no right to an opinion here. You need to chill, for reals. I get what you're saying, and I get your opinion and I respectfully disagree with it. Can't you just accept that without continuing to try to insult me? (AND bring my ex's into this situation)
:horse::horse::horse::horse::horse::horse::horse::horse::horse::

 

[busenbust]

It's masturbatory -- so it's personal. very.



:yahoo:

 

[Hot Mega]

Yes my ex bf from 2003 had issues with premature ejaculating. So I had a bad lay. Every woman has a bad lay, or ten. That doesn't mean I didn't move on to greener pastures. :1orglaugh And last time I checked, sucking dick doesn't = climax, for a girl so what does that have to do with anything? So only one guy deserved my oral, ahem, attention - that doesn't mean anything in your assumption that I don't orgasm enough to know anything about sexual pleasure. lol.

Listen, you don't need to quote and argue everything I say. And you most certainly don't need to come off as a cocky a-hole who's trying to treat me like an unexperienced little girl with no right to an opinion here. You need to chill, for reals. I get what you're saying, and I get your opinion and I respectfully disagree with it. Can't you just accept that without continuing to try to insult me? (AND bring my ex's into this situation)

Oh geeez Is everyone playing the quote victim card now?? Maybe if you read what I said you wouldn't feel like I don't respect your opinion nor was I insulting you. But why should I expect people to read what someone is saying and not what they think now??

Anyway...I'm over it. You've said your say I've said mine..enjoy.

 

[drf]

Well I've learned how to tongue fuck a girl after watching some smut but it's all theory at this point because I haven't actually ever done the deed before. Does that answer the question?

 

[Shifty]

Well I've learned how to tongue fuck a girl after watching some smut but it's all theory at this point because I haven't actually ever done the deed before. Does that answer the question?

You need to get laid in the worst way.

Get out there and apply that shit!

 

[davs78]

100% personal satisfaction because I'm 100% selfish

 

[Naughty_babe]

wow guys, I was away for the weekend and I didn't have any internet connection there, but I'm very happy with all your responds. You know, I think that we some how copy the moves from porn movies and use it on our sex life, but doesn't turn out to be that great. I say this because I'm sure that most of the guys learned to give oral sex from porn movies but they don't have any idea about that.

 

[busenbust]

Where do we sign up??

 

[Naughty_babe]

I wanted to say also that from a porn movie like this one, you can either masturbate or learn how to do it.

but I can't put the video yet

 

[Naughty_babe]

Where do we sign up??

For what exactly are you signing up?

 

[busenbust]

For what exactly are you signing up?

porno classes! :laugh:

 

[ikizido]

Both of course !

 

[Naughty_babe]

So what kind of movies would you prefer?