Is it weird that I like softcore more than hardcore?

Baal said:
Not really - Its a matter of taste if u ask me. Just remember that women aren't statues and their shit stinks too... ;-)


agreed. You like softcore more.... your choice....we all have choices to make and we all have different opinions and likes and dislikes.
 
Why should it be weird?? It´s everyones personal opinion. I´m no hardcore fan too, i prefer more softcore, but not too soft like the playboy pics more the penthouse style. I like pics with spreaded legs but don´t wanna see some cocks. Am i weird?? I don´t think so. :hatsoff:
 

om3ga

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Sometimes seeing less is just the sort of stimulation that your brain needs to really start to work & become involved with a particular image. It's like when I go to strip clubs I often find myself checking out the waitresses & chicks behind the bar, rather than the dancers. The dancers are naked & gyrating & so I can immediately get that visual stimulation from them, there's no challenge & my brain doesn't have to work at it. But, the waitresses are clothed & it makes me stop and stare and think "Hmmmm, I wonder what she'd look like naked?" so my mind is more engaged by the waitress - the more my mind is engaged, the more attraction I have.
 
With pictures, I tend to like regular posing more than hardcore. I don't know why, but I'd rather be looking at pictures of women over pictures of women with men most of the time. Though I do some of both.

When it comes to movies, I tend to prefer hardcore. This is probably due to in part what is shown, but also the length of the scenes. I often find softcore scenes over with far too quick. Where softcore sometimes has the advantage is how the scenes are done. I like it when they seem more natural in what positions are done, and that they don't always start out with the mandatary blowjob like most hardcore scenes do. I think that they came appear more like real sex than most hardcore can.

I don't really watch softcore movies anymore though, because I now have better access to hardcore, and because I have many favorite pornstars.
 
I always actually questioned whether it was weirder if that I liked hardcore over softcore, so I really think you have the higher hand there.
 

georges

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I've often had exactly the same thought as the title of this thread, hah. Hardcore just doesn't do it for me.

I find pictures of women with Cum splattered all over their face pretty unerotic, and the same goes for DP, Anal, etc. Guess I'm a right bore.... :sleep:


Don't know if anyone's seen the sitcom Coupling (very much doubt anyone from outside of the UK will have even heard of it) but in that they talk about the possibility of 'eye-slippage', which I guess is the real reason I prefer Softcore & Girl/Girl stuff...
 
As you've already read in the previous posts, a lot of members here prefer softcore & so do I (although I can also enjoy a hardcore movie). So no, the fact that you prefer softcore isn't weird at all.
 
thesafestplace said:
Don't know if anyone's seen the sitcom Coupling (very much doubt anyone from outside of the UK will have even heard of it) but in that they talk about the possibility of 'eye-slippage', which I guess is the real reason I prefer Softcore & Girl/Girl stuff...
I love Coupling! One of the funniest tv shows I know, but it's not THAT popular here in Germany. Jeff is by far the funniest guy, and I always thought there's a little Jeff in every man... :1orglaugh

Back to the topic: I 100% agree with what Frame313 said about brain stimulation. :thumbsup:

:hatsoff: Jackson
 
I tend to prefer soft core over hard especially when it comes to the different types of movies. Like " Girls Gone Wild" or " Dreamgirls",these video's are all non acting and have much more content. Some hard core such as, anal, gagging and spanking tend to grose me out.
 
Sometimes softcore pics where the girl isn't even fully nude can be very sexy but I think the appeal of hardcore for me is the thought that the girl must be so into sex that she likes fucking on film - and I like those kind of girls!
 
Jacksson_77 said:
I love Coupling! One of the funniest tv shows I know, but it's not THAT popular here in Germany. Jeff is by far the funniest guy, and I always thought there's a little Jeff in every man... :

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And to quote the man himself : "Oh, wouldn’t that be great... being a lesbian. All the advantages of being a man, but with less embarrassing genitals."
Amen
 
I like a woman who saves a bit for her private lovers.
 
I like both actually. I can appreciate the cheesecake/pin-up/tease pix that non-nude models usually do as well as Playboy pix along with pix of cum-drenched faces and gaped-out assholes.

There are some nn-models I want to do nudes, but not hardcore, and some I rather not see nude at all as to lose the "allure" of their cheesecake style. However, I definately wanted to see Sarah Peachez completely nude and she recently went nude and hardcore...

I guess its just the need for certain models and certain activities shown on film or photostock...

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A woman's viewpoint?

I brought this up at my office yesterday just out of interest - only the ladies, not the men.

We generally agreed that there are some types of hardcore we prefer in small doses only: the "meathole" type of stuff and the sort of imagery that looks like it was part of a gynaecology examination. Then there's personal preference - I don't like anal, for example. But hardcore got the thumbs up while softcore got the thumbs down. Looking at pictures of posing women is, frankly, boring. It's a little better with man/woman softcore where it's beautifully posed, lit and the guy is a darling but apart from that, no. If I want to look at a woman with her top off, I can just go stand in front of a mirror and I see a dozen every time I go to the gym.

Personally, I'm not knocking anyone who likes softcore, though I would imagine proportionally more porn-liking men than porn-liking women would get turned on by it. Each to his, or her, own. I rather like kissing pictures. There may also be an issue about how hardcore is getting rather unimaginative, which may be turning guys onto softcore which has to stay creative to survive. I don't mean inventing different combinations of boys, girls and garden vegetables, but in terms of plot (yes, we would like some plot), photography, dialogue etc: a twenty minute short that contains fifteen minutes of watching semi-hard dick flopping in and out of unstimulated pussy against a looped backtrack of oohs, aahs and 70s techno is a bit tedious. As an example, I used to like "dogfart" (who dreams up these names?) but you've seen one, you've seen them all.

Just my ten pence worth.

x x x Jo
 
Joanne said:
If I want to look at a woman with her top off, I can just go stand in front of a mirror and I see a dozen every time I go to the gym.
I've tried that, but no success. :1orglaugh

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