Is it unfair to be a man in this world?

[Arden Adamz]

Alright, I'm going to have to weigh in on this too, I'm only going to touch on the initial question though lol.... Here are a few points I'd like to make, and re-cap.

Women in the industry work their asses off, and believe it or not so do the men in this industry.

Men & Women, both in Adult and in other fields of work, all have to work their asses off. In a lot of cases the Women have to work slightly harder to compensate for lower wages that are still typically offered even if they're qualified for higher/ or equal to a man's wage of the same skill level.

Men aren't disadvantaged by their sexual urges unless they let it become a ruling force. Also-- There are amazing male performers in the industry both gay and straight that utilize that urge or other motivations to make an interesting career for themselves...

WOMEN LOVE PORN TOO! Don't you think for a second that men are the only consumers of porno, we love that shit!

Not all women are porn/naked pic- bound... Not all women are born with porn star qualities. Some are better suited for becoming lawyers, doctors, teachers, etc. And they do.

It's awesome that you love porn and worship women, but don't degrade them and chalk it all up to something they didn't have to work very hard for. You'd be shocked to know just how hard it is to succeed in the Adult Industry, and how hard your favorite porn stars (and the majority of other males/females in smut flicks) work EVERY SINGLE DAY!

 

[grls101]

lolz.. nice thread

 

[vodkazvictim]

Forgot to mention: Life is not fair. Get used to it.

 

[xfire]

I had to go see my doctor yesterday. Oh how I would love to find naked pics of her. She looks like Julia Crown.

 

[Bearded_Menace]

I had to go see my doctor yesterday. Oh how I would love to find naked pics of her. She looks like Julia Crown.

Dayum! Does she give prostate exams?

 

[Hot Mega]

First off, I don't see how using your appearance to make a living makes it any less legit than anyone else. A singer uses his voice, a scientist uses his brain, an athlete uses his body and an actress or supermodel uses their appearance as well. We ALL use some part of our body to make a living, and using our attractiveness isn't any less commendable than the rest.

Agreed. There is a marketplace for almost anything....as well as being physically attractive...man or woman.

@ OP there are some advantages to being an attractive woman (or person) and you can be sure their are certain burdens that come with it too.

But I would say by comparisons between sexes...it's probably easier and far more worthwhile to be a man who is considered very attractive and living off of his looks. Men in this situation generally could and would do things most women in this situation wouldn't for fear of danger or stigma.

For example, most women wouldn't go hopping into bed with any man just because they could for a variety of reasons. Many men who can, do. A woman who does this is considered a slut by most people a man who does this is generally thought highly of by other men.

Also women and men who get paid for sex are both whores. However, hooker has a far more degrading connotation than gigolo.

It's probably true too that attractive men stay attractive to a broader spectrum of women longer (age-wise) than older women tend to stay attractive to the broader spectrum of men. It seems we men almost have to be specifically in to older attractive women...whereas it seems women tend to see age in men less.

And if you think men who are willing to front the lifestyles of hot women are something....you ain't seen nothing when it comes to what some women in positions of money and/or power will do for men they're hot for.:2 cents:

 

[xfire]

Dayum! Does she give prostate exams?

She's full service. lol That wasn't on my agenda yesterday, though, I was just in for a follow up. :1orglaugh

 

[Bloodshot Scott]

I don't have generalizations of men, I said that there are alot of deadbeat dads out there that give fatherhood a bad name. Thats fact. I too had a fantastic dad who was always there and worked his ass off to give us kids every opportunity. I was simply responding to your generalizations on women "having it out for" the father of their children, which by the way is no more unfair than my "generalizations" on men. (which honestly don't exist, I'm fortunate to have fantastic examples for parents, brothers, and ex's) You can't throw out an opinion on mothers/women without looking at the other side of the coin. And regardless, none of this is even pertinent to the original question at hand, which was do hot women have it easier being able to sell their bodies to make a living. And the answer to that question, is no. lol.

No doubt men and women alike both have their shares of wackos. All I think my posts in this thread are basically saying is that, yes, women do overall have it easier. That's just my opinion though.

 

[SpexyAshleigh]

No doubt men and women alike both have their shares of wackos. All I think my posts in this thread are basically saying is that, yes, women do overall have it easier. That's just my opinion though.

Well thats the beauty of this question - no one will EVER really know the answer. Well, maybe a really good tranny could answer it. lol.

But for the OP's original question (which has nothing to do with what we were talking about), the answer is a resounding no. Its not easier to be an attractive woman, in this industry. Pleasing you guys can be hard yo. :tongue:

 

[AddisonORiley]

Na I cant open most things or dunk a basketball ....

 

[Shifty]

Well thats the beauty of this question - no one will EVER really know the answer. Well, maybe a really good tranny could answer it.

Hey Dirk !!! Overall, do men or women have it easier ?

 

[2012i]

maybe if your from Brazil or Thailand where eventually ur going to have a sex change because ur not proud of ur sex

 

[xoAdriana]

Spexy Ashleigh...well said I just touched base on some aspects of being a cam girl and the constant ridicule I get for being one in a recent vlog I made. I also like that you mentioned how it affects your personal life. That is FOR SURE.

But on another note...putting my own situation (being a cam girl) aside. I would say there are absolutely advantages to being a good looking female. Just as there is being a good looking male. To men (and I may be totally over generalizing here) women are these pretty, soft, good smelling, fun to fuck creatures. Lol but a lot of work goes into that! To being "up to par" to be desired by men. Now our sole purpose of being a female isn't being desired by men, but when talking about women who use their looks as a job and/or in their job then being desired by men is obviously required.
I love being a woman, but also wonder if being a man wouldn't be easier. Lol