Is it unfair to be a man in this world?

[hornyashell]

Hi,

Sometimes when I jerk off, I think about the chicks I am jerking to. I start to ask myself if it is better to be a woman in this world. There are so many horny men who want to jerk off to women all the time. That means basically women just have to look great, get naked in front of a camera or start doing porn to make lots of money.

When I think about that I'm getting more horny.

Is it unfair to be a horny guy who has to earn his money in a regular job and maybe pay lots of money for porn? When on the other side there are women who just use their looks to make a living? What do you think about that...

 

[grower_boy]

The amount of women who could potentially use their bodies to earn money is probably less than half, and the amount that actually do is very, very small. Sure, a lot of woman get drinks for free at bars and what not but I'd say that overall us men have it easier.

 

[Tittyman5000]

No Its like a circle, Its not unfair because we get to fuck all these chicks who make money and when we dont like em anymore we find another, like a circle, thats making me horny

 

[Neutron66]

Hi,

Sometimes when I jerk off, I think about the chicks I am jerking to. I start to ask myself if it is better to be a woman in this world. There are so many horny men who want to jerk off to women all the time. That means basically women just have to look great, get naked in front of a camera or start doing porn to make lots of money.

When I think about that I'm getting more horny.

Is it unfair to be a horny guy who has to earn his money in a regular job and maybe pay lots of money for porn? When on the other side there are women who just use their looks to make a living? What do you think about that...

Crossdressing fantasies are normal. Just go with it.

We know that's what you're talking about.

 

[alvidk]

thats life, u got a life in a male body, or female- everywhere u can find some positive and negative sides

no one near perfection, my wife , for example, wants to be a men to f.. all those girls

 

[grower_boy]

Your wife sounds like a freak...in a good way.

 

[D-rock]

You can't go by the women you see on a place like here. Most of the women in the world aren't as attractive as they are, and won't have as easy an effort doing that. People that can reliably pull it off living on only their looks are pretty rare.

I also don't see it as any different than an professional athlete in modern times. To be able to play most professional sports anymore you almost need to be a physical freak of nature, and most men will never be able to get to that point from the moment they were conceived through no fault of their own. Sure I would have like to play the professional sports I liked at one time, but at some point I stopped growing and that was the end of that for most practical purposes.

It's more accurate to say that a certain number of people both men and women hit the genetic lottery and get lucky. If we go with the group that has an advantage as a whole in society it's still men though.

 

[SpexyAshleigh]

Being one of these women that you speak of, I feel I have the right to chime in a bit here.

First off, I don't see how using your appearance to make a living makes it any less legit than anyone else. A singer uses his voice, a scientist uses his brain, an athlete uses his body and an actress or supermodel uses their appearance as well. We ALL use some part of our body to make a living, and using our attractiveness isn't any less commendable than the rest.

And secondly, your post has an implication that women who are hot don't have to actually "work" to get paid lots of money. Obviously you're on the other end of the computer/tv screen enjoying what we do, but believe me, there is ALOT of work that goes into it. Its not just about getting fucked in front of a video camera, or in my case, turning on a webcam to perform. I don't know about other girls, but I can say for myself that I spend about 14-18 hours a day working. When I'm not on cam (8-10hrs a day), I'm emailing, shooting content, tweeting, conversing with clients/fans, etc etc...I work damn hard (and no, I don't get paid shitloads of money for it either). There is ALOT that goes into this job and business other than just sitting around and looking pretty. I deal with assholes on a daily basis. I get rude, aggressive emails any time I change up my appearance, even in the slightest way. I suffer from carpal tunnel syndrome from all of the time I spend on the computer (it really IS just like any other office job), and I've sacrificed having friends or family be close to me because of what I do. I'm sure the same can be said about alot of girls in the industry. Its NOT easy work. I wrote a blog post last year regarding "the camgirl life", and I"ll post it here for anyone who wants to read it. I made it after an asshat came into my room and started running his mouth about how I'm an easy whore, who is too lazy to have a "real job" (obviously spoke before reading my profile or blog to find out I actually DO have a day job lol) and I felt that it was important for guys to kinda see things from the other side of the camera. http://spexyashleigh.com/04/12/248/the-camgirl-life/

But yeah, I mean women MIGHT have an advantage and special opportunity if they're attractive - after all, the average joe wouldn't be offered this career choice if they weren't "up to par" as far as appearance goes...but then again, I don't have the option of being a football player, or construction worker either because I lack in physical strength...but you won't see me whining on a football forum about life being unfair that I wasn't born strong or athletic...

 

[Bloodshot Scott]

Hi,

Sometimes when I jerk off, I think about the chicks I am jerking to. I start to ask myself if it is better to be a woman in this world. There are so many horny men who want to jerk off to women all the time. That means basically women just have to look great, get naked in front of a camera or start doing porn to make lots of money.

When I think about that I'm getting more horny.

Is it unfair to be a horny guy who has to earn his money in a regular job and maybe pay lots of money for porn? When on the other side there are women who just use their looks to make a living? What do you think about that...

Of course they have it easier. Anyone who says else are just lying. They can fuck a guy (no pun intended) in so many ways it's not even funny. I've seen it and lived through it.

 

[HE1FiNEARTiST]

and dont you forget it!!!

 

[ralph furley]

also women get free drinks, free dinners on dates, get into clubs for free etc.
plus it's alot easier for chicks to get jobs

 

[SpexyAshleigh]

also women get free drinks, free dinners on dates, get into clubs for free etc.
plus it's alot easier for chicks to get jobs

but on the flipside, we have to deal with gross men hitting on us, and women on average are still paid less than men are.

And you guys get out of having to deal with periods, giving birth, menopause, more difficulty reaching orgasm, etc. Sorry, but I'd rather give up "getting free drinks, food, club entries" than have to deal with all of the above mentioned shit. lol

 

[D-rock]

but on the flipside, we have to deal with gross men hitting on us, and women on average are still paid less than men are.

And you guys get out of having to deal with periods, giving birth, menopause, more difficulty reaching orgasm, etc. Sorry, but I'd rather give up "getting free drinks, food, club entries" than have to deal with all of the above mentioned shit. lol

I agree with your other post and even the basic premise of this one, but to play "devil's advocate" I could point out with the exception of maybe high level management and executive jobs women make less than men because either they are unwilling or unable to do the same jobs as men, (Personally, I've never seen a job where a woman that did the same thing, with the same quality and speed, and with the same level of seniority got paid less than a man.) and while men don't have to have periods, give birth, or have menopause, women also don't have to worry about being drafted if there is some big war and dying in it.

Still, I don't think I would want gross men (or women) hitting on me. I can sympathize with that. :eeew:

 

[~~whimsy~~]

It's not that I hate this thread but this thread is silly. I'd rather take a risk with mister Prepaid credit card up there than..


What is going on here?

 

[SpexyAshleigh]

and while men don't have to have periods, give birth, or have menopause, women also don't have to worry about being drafted if there is some big war and dying in it.

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Well, its not an everyday, or even every year, or every decade thing to be drafted into a war. And its 2011, I imagine if a war of epic proportions ever broke out, and people were drafted, women would be able to fight too....more and more women are joining the armed forces, so if a draft ever came out, I don't think the women would be excluded from fighting. Just sayin.:tongue:

 

[Galactic]

Being one of these women that you speak of, I feel I have the right to chime in a bit here.

First off, I don't see how using your appearance to make a living makes it any less legit than anyone else. A singer uses his voice, a scientist uses his brain, an athlete uses his body and an actress or supermodel uses their appearance as well. We ALL use some part of our body to make a living, and using our attractiveness isn't any less commendable than the rest.

And secondly, your post has an implication that women who are hot don't have to actually "work" to get paid lots of money. Obviously you're on the other end of the computer/tv screen enjoying what we do, but believe me, there is ALOT of work that goes into it. Its not just about getting fucked in front of a video camera, or in my case, turning on a webcam to perform. I don't know about other girls, but I can say for myself that I spend about 14-18 hours a day working. When I'm not on cam (8-10hrs a day), I'm emailing, shooting content, tweeting, conversing with clients/fans, etc etc...I work damn hard (and no, I don't get paid shitloads of money for it either). There is ALOT that goes into this job and business other than just sitting around and looking pretty. I deal with assholes on a daily basis. I get rude, aggressive emails any time I change up my appearance, even in the slightest way. I suffer from carpal tunnel syndrome from all of the time I spend on the computer (it really IS just like any other office job), and I've sacrificed having friends or family be close to me because of what I do. I'm sure the same can be said about alot of girls in the industry. Its NOT easy work. I wrote a blog post last year regarding "the camgirl life", and I"ll post it here for anyone who wants to read it. I made it after an asshat came into my room and started running his mouth about how I'm an easy whore, who is too lazy to have a "real job" (obviously spoke before reading my profile or blog to find out I actually DO have a day job lol) and I felt that it was important for guys to kinda see things from the other side of the camera. http://spexyashleigh.com/04/12/248/the-camgirl-life/

But yeah, I mean women MIGHT have an advantage and special opportunity if they're attractive - after all, the average joe wouldn't be offered this career choice if they weren't "up to par" as far as appearance goes...but then again, I don't have the option of being a football player, or construction worker either because I lack in physical strength...but you won't see me whining on a football forum about life being unfair that I wasn't born strong or athletic...

To the OP......owned. To Spexy.......fan-fucking-tastic post.

 

[TheOrangeCat]

Is it unfair to me a man. No.
It's unfair to be an asshat (regardless of gender).

 

[Ulysses31]

Yes, penis gets in the way sometimes and it's a ridiculously placed weak point, what was nature thinking

 

[L3ggy]

Being one of these women that you speak of, I feel I have the right to chime in a bit here.

First off, I don't see how using your appearance to make a living makes it any less legit than anyone else. A singer uses his voice, a scientist uses his brain, an athlete uses his body and an actress or supermodel uses their appearance as well. We ALL use some part of our body to make a living, and using our attractiveness isn't any less commendable than the rest.

And secondly, your post has an implication that women who are hot don't have to actually "work" to get paid lots of money. Obviously you're on the other end of the computer/tv screen enjoying what we do, but believe me, there is ALOT of work that goes into it. Its not just about getting fucked in front of a video camera, or in my case, turning on a webcam to perform. I don't know about other girls, but I can say for myself that I spend about 14-18 hours a day working. When I'm not on cam (8-10hrs a day), I'm emailing, shooting content, tweeting, conversing with clients/fans, etc etc...I work damn hard (and no, I don't get paid shitloads of money for it either). There is ALOT that goes into this job and business other than just sitting around and looking pretty. I deal with assholes on a daily basis. I get rude, aggressive emails any time I change up my appearance, even in the slightest way. I suffer from carpal tunnel syndrome from all of the time I spend on the computer (it really IS just like any other office job), and I've sacrificed having friends or family be close to me because of what I do. I'm sure the same can be said about alot of girls in the industry. Its NOT easy work. I wrote a blog post last year regarding "the camgirl life", and I"ll post it here for anyone who wants to read it. I made it after an asshat came into my room and started running his mouth about how I'm an easy whore, who is too lazy to have a "real job" (obviously spoke before reading my profile or blog to find out I actually DO have a day job lol) and I felt that it was important for guys to kinda see things from the other side of the camera. http://spexyashleigh.com/04/12/248/the-camgirl-life/

But yeah, I mean women MIGHT have an advantage and special opportunity if they're attractive - after all, the average joe wouldn't be offered this career choice if they weren't "up to par" as far as appearance goes...but then again, I don't have the option of being a football player, or construction worker either because I lack in physical strength...but you won't see me whining on a football forum about life being unfair that I wasn't born strong or athletic...

The thread should've been closed after that post.

 

[PirateKing]

Fuck no.