Is internet porn equal to cheating on your girlfreind?

[antoinewilson22]

My wife thinks that internet porn is the same as cheating(if you masterbate) what do you all think?

 

[littlejonny]

Honestly, your wife should be happy that you're doing that rather than going to escorts or massage parlours. I do all of that shit, and wish that I could stick to porn. Trust me man, once you cross the line into a different young, hot piece every week, it's too hard to go back to just porn and your wife. Be stronger than I am!

 

[assholebythedoor]

the woman will tell you what she thinks, it kind of is cheating yourself if you got some body who you can lay next to.

 

[calpoon]

it really doesn't matter what we think, we aren't the one's that you want to hopefully have sex with again someday.

 

[Nester6]

My wife thinks that internet porn is the same as cheating(if you masterbate) what do you all think?

I think this depends on each situation. Many individuals will have different interpretations of internet porn and it's uses.

 

[Galactic]

I've been thinking a lot about this lately myself. I don't know.....I feel guilty after watching porn since I met her....would not DREAM of admitting I do this to her, not yet anyway.....don't know what kind of reaction I would get.......:dunno:

 

[Sushi!]

has she ever watched a porno with you? it sounds like she doesn't like you watching porn because its taking your attention away from her, just get her to watch a porno with you and show her that your watching it because you like it, and its not a big deal. like watching football.

 

[STDiva]

has she ever watched a porno with you? it sounds like she doesn't like you watching porn because its taking your attention away from her, just get her to watch a porno with you and show her that your watching it because you like it, and its not a big deal. like watching football.

Truth. Except I dont jerk off while watching the 9ers get killed. It is kind of a turn off actually.

 

[Dro50]

Some girlfriend....Do not give up your right to masturbation without a demand for more sex and blowjobs and handjobs out of her and make sure she keeps it interesting to...it's only fair...

 

[Roald]

Some girlfriend....Do not give up your right to masturbation without a demand for more sex and blowjobs and handjobs out of her and make sure she keeps it interesting to...it's only fair...

There you go!!!

Tell her that the urge to cheat comes often as a direct result of the lack of sexual attention from the partner

So bring it as if it is her own fucking fault.

 

[Facial_King]

interesting question!

 

[bodie54]

It depends.

Her argument is viable if internet porn is interfering with or undermining your relationship with her; if it's used as a replacement for her.

If that's not the case; if she's priority one and porn is just a harmless, anonymous fantasy that bridges the down times in your physical relationship with her, then I don't really see how that could be considered cheating.

 

[anomaly]

Well if she doesn't want you looking at porn or masturbating there is something she could do to help.:yinyang:

 

[jumbo_jim]

Porn's not cheating if you are still abler to spend time with your wife . It could only be considered a problem if you need it to perform for your wife or if your marriage suffers as a direct result of porn usaage.

 

[Dawn]

My Ex was considering it cheating. In her mind, if i had to watch other ladies naked, it meant to her that she was not able to satisfy me...

I totally disagree with that viewpoint but it's often the lady stand on question.

 

[Roald]

My Ex was considering it cheating. In her mind, if i had to watch other ladies naked, it meant to her that she was not able to satisfy me...

I totally disagree with that viewpoint but it's often the lady stand on question.

Thats why she is your ex now right?

 

[Dawn]

Thats why she is your ex now right?

:1orglaugh


Nah, i respected her opinion and acted accordingly.

 

[mongo18]

Of course it's not. Is watching Die Hard the same as getting into a gun fight? Is watching Nascar the same as having sex with your sister?

Even if you can't win the argument, you could look at porn for an hour, bank up a bunch of images, and then run to the bathroom and rub one out there and by her logic you'd be fine(unless of course, jerking off equals cheating with your hand?).

 

[Sushi!]

There you go!!!

Tell her that the urge to cheat comes often as a direct result of the lack of sexual attention from the partner

So bring it as if it is her own fucking fault.

watch out with that one, ive done that before - she pulled the ALL U CARE ABOUT IS SEX CARD. end of that relationship...

 

[No_Man]

My wife doesn't care one way or the other whether I look at porn or masturbate. I told her about it a few months after we started dating and she basically just dismissed it as something all guys do. I used to be more discrete about it (just in case she was lying and it really did bother her), but eventually she got curious and started asking more questions about it. Now we watch porn together once or twice a week before we have sex. I gotta say, it feels really great to be honest about it.