is anyone else getting turned off by anal?

it wasnt so bad before but now with all this gaping and girl just getting there asshole torn apart.after i saw that ava devine vid where she drops her ass i think im scared for life. its just become disgusting and not at all sexual or erotic.its like porn is trying to go in a digusting direction.give me vintage porn (80s) anyday.
 

squallumz

knows petras secret: she farted.
it wasnt so bad before but now with all this gaping and girl just getting there asshole torn apart.after i saw that ava devine vid where she drops her ass i think im scared for life. its just become disgusting and not at all sexual or erotic.its like porn is trying to go in a digusting direction.give me vintage porn (80s) anyday.

this is your classic case of take it or leave it, to each, their own, etc. personally, i like anal stuff. like the clown, im not into the extreme gaping or really rough shit. yeah, that prolapse shit is pretty out there and believe it or not, some people like it! (icky i know, but hey, its their choice and the girls do it, so good for them.)

funny thing too, i don't like 80s porn one bit. thats a turn off for me.

in short: everyone likes different stuff and im all for it.
 
Maybe pornstar chicks will decide not to do anal anymore. I think the "double anal" thing is ridiculous. I hope that goes away.

The anus is a pleasure zone. Pleasure doesn't mean rough...it seems like there's this race for shock within Porn...and some companies push the limit.
 
I am turned off when while watching porn I think "oh, poor little girl" and feel suffer towards her. I can't stand when a girl is having sex with a mixture of aversion and torment on her face. Anal sex can be great. But it can be done in such a brutal and ugly way, especially when girl is not enough trained and not enough lustful/willing, that become the biggest turn off.
I love when I can't determine whether a girl is really having pleasure, or whether she is just playing it so good. There are some extra cute chicks, that have amazing faces and bodies, and they act like they are the most lewd in the world, getting a fat dick deep up in their ass, and their ass itself looks like it can hold a ballistic missile inside, and the whole process of penetrating does not arouse any thoughts about pain or violence - it just looks like great lustful sex.
So, when it comes to anal sex we need:
beautiful girl;
her beautiful ass with beautiful clean flexible asshole;
a lot of lust and hunger on girls face, not to think about her as about a victim, but as for a hungry, crazy & wicked lover;
and it won't be a turn off
 

Perilypos

Retired Moderator
I am not a big fan of anal sex, but some anal scenes I have watched are really very good and therefore I don't consider it as a turn-off. If a girl with a nice butt hole enjoys it and no violence is involved, anal sex can definitely be pleasure for me to see.
 
I like anal scenes as long it is not extreme. I think A2M is gross and unsanitary, gaping is not sexy and unrealistic. When I am having anal sex with my girl I do not want to look inside her ass. I have had anal sex with several women and it has always been a pleasure experience for both parties. You don't do girl in her butt the same way you do in her vagina. Anal should be a little slower. We guys often forget that we are lucky to have a woman that enjoys this and we should make it as easy as we can for our ladies. This may include lube, analingus and being gentle.........unless she ask for it rough.:thumbsup:
 

Jagger69

Three lullabies in an ancient tongue
Personally, I find nothing that excites me about anal sex. However, without mentioning them specifically, I am certain that I may have certain sexual leanings that some might not totally be in synch with either, so who am I to judge?
 

hammerer

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I am turned off when while watching porn I think "oh, poor little girl" and feel suffer towards her. I can't stand when a girl is having sex with a mixture of aversion and torment on her face. Anal sex can be great. But it can be done in such a brutal and ugly way, especially when girl is not enough trained and not enough lustful/willing, that become the biggest turn off.
I love when I can't determine whether a girl is really having pleasure, or whether she is just playing it so good. There are some extra cute chicks, that have amazing faces and bodies, and they act like they are the most lewd in the world, getting a fat dick deep up in their ass, and their ass itself looks like it can hold a ballistic missile inside, and the whole process of penetrating does not arouse any thoughts about pain or violence - it just looks like great lustful sex.
So, when it comes to anal sex we need:
beautiful girl;
her beautiful ass with beautiful clean flexible asshole;
a lot of lust and hunger on girls face, not to think about her as about a victim, but as for a hungry, crazy & wicked lover;
and it won't be a turn off

Generally don't like anal, but jamrak's conditions do describe when i do get turned on by anal.
 
im not trying to start a (lets ban anal crusade)its just that some of this brutal ass ripping nasty double gaping shit is too much.maybe im just getting old butstickin giant cocks and feet and shit up some chicks as just is too fucked up.same thing where the ram there cocks down a chicks throat till she vomits on there balls.i mean the direction porn is going into.
 

squallumz

knows petras secret: she farted.
im not trying to start a (lets ban anal crusade)its just that some of this brutal ass ripping nasty double gaping shit is too much.maybe im just getting old butstickin giant cocks and feet and shit up some chicks as just is too fucked up.same thing where the ram there cocks down a chicks throat till she vomits on there balls.i mean the direction porn is going into.

you cant really blame the porn for going that way as there is a demand for it. if they weren't selling it, they would stop making it. it will never stop as a line can never be drawn to what's acceptable and what's not; whats a turn on and what's not. i know what u mean but whatcha gonna do? to each, their own!
 
There are things about anal in porn that I dislike, but I like the act itself, though I prefer straight vaginal. A2M disgusts me. It's obviously unhealthy for the chick, and from the guy's point of view -- how on earth could you attempt to kiss the girl afterwards?

Double anal (and vaginal) is a massive, massive turnoff too. I've seen about 5 seconds of each and instantly switched off. Not only does it seem like an obviously bisexual sex act (strike 1), the poor girl must be in absolute agony (strike 2). I can't stand any type of group sex with multiple males (strike 3).

There's no hint of chemistry or attraction in those scenes for me -- they feel like National Georgraphic, the people come across as nothing more than rutting animals. Unfortunately for me, multiple male scenes seem to be increasingly prevalent in mainstream porn.

I don't necessarily need to always feel that the girl has to be the 'hungry, crazy & wicked lover' as jamrak said. There can be something sexy about a girl being in a little discomfort, coming across as a submissive 'victim'.

The first time I had anal with my gf, she was coming across as shy, innocent... she was in a little pain, but wanted me to carry on, and she also wanted to feel dominated. I enjoyed that as much as the times she has been the hungry lover, perhaps even more.

A little pain can be hot -- it comes with the territory -- spanking, pinching, mild biting, whatever. There's a line that shouldn't be crossed however, and that's when discomfort and slight pain becomes obvious agony. The little I've seen of double anal and double vaginal places it in that category. The very thought of it seems like an extreme female version of a kick in the nuts.
 
I'm bothered more by the numerous lurkers that continually post in threads, repeatedly, asking/looking for if that specific girl has done anal.
 
Anal is alright in some scenes for me, as well as A2M. I guess it depends on the girl.....but double vaginal/anal is a massive, massive turnoff. It's not cool that I have to see two guys seemingly have no problem putting their dicks together in a girl's ass or vagina. It's just disgusting.
 
im not trying to start a (lets ban anal crusade)its just that some of this brutal ass ripping nasty double gaping shit is too much.maybe im just getting old butstickin giant cocks and feet and shit up some chicks as just is too fucked up.same thing where the ram there cocks down a chicks throat till she vomits on there balls.i mean the direction porn is going into.

well... who's fault is it. The girl can say no and it won't ruin her carreer and I don't see it costing her too much money. So your point about the direction of porn to me is more about a particular genre of porn.

For the record, I was neither here nor there on anal sex but after ava devine's episode it's hard for me to consider it. Scarrrrred4Life by seeing that shit and I can't believe they even had a name for it and girls do this just for kicks... :throwup:

I deleted every Ava Devine anything off my computer except full movies in case I have a change of heart.
 
In general, I like anal, but as many others have said, I'm not a fan of gaping, A2M, or two dicks in one hole at the same time. I would rather perform and watch vaginal penetration than anal. I also prefer to watch scenes where the girl is enjoying herself. Whether she is acting kinky and naughty or just is at least not seeming to be in pain very much. That goes for all porn scenes and in real life, I want the girl to enjoy herself.
 
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