Is a man gay if he rejects my BJ offer???

Ashli Orion

Official Checked Star Member
If I were you Ashli I would be a little worried. We are ALL too tired for sex at times ,but to just lay back & let a sexy B***** like you give him some head.:dunno:

Few sane men would ever turn that down.

He may also have just had sex with another woman & think you may smell the other lady by going down on him.

I actually said that as a joke when I was declined... I was like "what you don't want me to smell other vagina or something?" (i actually had been gone for a whole day)... and then he was like "woah... now that's some psycho shit." I should have smelled it!!! LOLOL. But you've got to know I'm in porn so it's not that big of a deal, i'd lick the vajayjay juice right off and not care!
 

Ashli Orion

Official Checked Star Member
What was the reason for him being so tired? I am never too tired for sex or a bj, because I receive neither one of those right now and catch up on all the sleep I want. So if the situation presents itself to me I can never be too tired.

He worked for a few hours (non-sex-work) and doesn't have to get up for work today. :sleep: I think most guys like girls who don't want it ALL the time. I want it ALL the time... which is why I do porn. The stupid economy isn't helping me get fucked every day any more :( LOL.
 
He worked for a few hours (non-sex-work) and doesn't have to get up for work today. :sleep: I think most guys like girls who don't want it ALL the time. I want it ALL the time... which is why I do porn. The stupid economy isn't helping me get fucked every day any more :( LOL.

Hmmm...the "psycho shit" and the flexi schedule...pretty convinced he's fuckin' someone else now.

How else does he turn down and ass like yours??? If he was gay, he wouldn't be with you. It's not like he's a GOP politician or something (or is he??:o).
 

pornophile

Banned
He worked for a few hours (non-sex-work) and doesn't have to get up for work today. :sleep: I think most guys like girls who don't want it ALL the time. I want it ALL the time... which is why I do porn. The stupid economy isn't helping me get fucked every day any more :( LOL.

I want it all the time too! Obviously we are more compatible...I say ditch him and get with me. I wouldnt reject a BJ if my life depended on it....like in those movies where a shotgun's trigger is tied somehow to my penis and if I get erect the gun goes off and blows my brains out....I'd still do it, hey I'd die happy.
 
haha. Girls have been saying no since the beginning of time and men deal with it. A guy says no and he's on gay watch??
 

Skyraider22

The One and Only Big Daddy
To be honest I don't know too many guys that turn down sex or even a blow job unless he is really tired I don't think he is gay i mean you said you guys commonly fuck anyway unless he is really in the closet and is trying to hide it I think inwhich this is just me of course he is tired.Or when all else fails just ask.:dunno:
 

georges

Moderator
Staff member
don't spoil him too much. Wait till he has a strong erection then it will be the time to do it.
 

CherylFan

Closed Account
Suggest you accept that he probably was indeed tired on this occasion. Next time it happens youneed to htink about what else you`ve been doing since this occasion. Has he shagged you lots and lots in the meantime? If so perhaps he doesn`t like BJs -not everyone does you know, without being gay. I don`t understand what the appeal of them is myself but I accept that a lot of people (M+W) do like them but personally I don`t see the attraction of coming down a girl`s throat.
 
Nah, fuck that... MAN THE FUCK UP! You got Ashli Orion in your bed.

Ashli FUCKIN' Orion!!!

Sexy pornstar extrodinaire...

Hot, horny, and willing and you reject her?!? And the 'I'm tired' excuse no less??? I'm damn sure this dude has done all sorts of less-worth-while shit while being 'tired'. According to man law, the only two options in this situation are man up of bitch out. Since option B was chosen, you man card has been suspended until further notice.

Ashli, I think you just might be the gay one in this situation because you're obviously in a relationship with another woman.
 

girk1

Closed Account
I actually said that as a joke when I was declined... I was like "what you don't want me to smell other vagina or something?" (i actually had been gone for a whole day)... and then he was like "woah... now that's some psycho shit." I should have smelled it!!! LOLOL.

But you've got to know I'm in porn so it's not that big of a deal, i'd lick the vajayjay juice right off and not care!
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I wouldn't pester him about turning down a first class blowjob, but keep your eyes open & be quietly more observing. Sounds like there could be some other nookie on the side or he is losing interest .

Like I said don't become overbearing or too 'outwardly' suspicious(who knows his issues), but we often tend to miss obvious signals about our partners/relationships that get us shocked/hurt in the long run.
 

PlasmaTwa2

The Second-Hottest Man in my Mother's Basement
He's not gay... Just really stupid.
 

maildude

Postal Paranoiac
No he isn't. Maybe because I ain't 21 anymore, but some men simply tire out--even with sex. It's happened to me. It's nothing personal. I guess it's something like a woman getting a headache.
 
No he isn't. Maybe because I ain't 21 anymore, but some men simply tire out--even with sex. It's happened to me. It's nothing personal. I guess it's something like a woman getting a headache.

I could be wrong but my assumption would be the guy isn't "older". If he's younger 20s, 30s....the only way he's turning down pussy or bj in lieu of pussy is, A.)He's fucking someone else and his mind is on the other chick or B.) he's mad at her for fucking someone else. Since she's a porn star we can probably rule B out.

Younger guys DON'T get "tired" of sex...EVER. Unless they're fucking someone else.:2 cents: Or their hand is doing a better job.
 
I'm just sayin'... if I got a cock-starved Ashli Orion at home waiting for me hot and ready to go, fuck all the bullshit...





I'm smashin' tired or not. Damn, at least make an effort. Meet the poor girl halfway!
 
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