Make up your mind. One moment it's "I'm not sexually attracted to black women (for the most part)" and the next it's "I'm not sexually attracted to black women (no qualifiers)". Well, which is it? Are you attracted to some black women or not?
Where did I say "no qualifiers" or anything close? I said that I'm not sexually attracted to black women. Yes, there are a very few, small handful of black women that I've seen in my life that I have found to be pretty, but I'm still not sexually attracted to black women.
I don't like spaghetti. But, that doesn't mean I haven't eaten a decent spaghetti or two in my lifetime. Overall, I don't like it. Same with my sexual attraction (or lack there of, depending on how it "should" be worded) to black women.
If a gorgeous black woman is rubbing your cock, and the thought putting you off enjoying the moment completely is the fact that she's black, then the disinclination is on admitted racial grounds, and that is racism.
Ok, I think this is where people are having a
major miscommunication.
In that scenario, the thought going through my head
wouldn't be:
"Damn, this woman is gorgeous. It's just a shame that she's black though. If she were white, this would be awesome!!!"
It
would be:
"Eh, there's a girl who I don't find to be sexually attractive rubbing all over me."
^^^^^
Nowhere in the above statement (thought process) is race an issue. It's solely an issue of
sexual attraction (or lack there of),
not race.
Before you made the posts on this page of the thread, no, I wouldn't have described you as a racist. Since these remarks appear to be in conflict with those on the first page, it's hard to say. So I don't know what to think of you, because I'm not clear on whether you're saying you are never ever attracted to black women, or you're not usually attracted to black women. *shrug* Either way, my first post explains my views...
I addressed this earlier in my response. But, maybe this will help clear things up...
I am heterosexual male. Which means...
I am sexually attracted to members of the opposite sex. Which means...
I am sexually attracted to females...
BUT, that doesn't mean I am sexually attracted to
every single female that walks the face of the earth. Some do it for me, some don't. "Unfortunately", black women fall into the category of women who don't do it for me. There is
nothing racist about that at all. People can try and spin it to be racist all they want, but it's not.
I'm not sexually attracted to girls with red hair, but that doesn't mean I won't be friends with them or treat them any differently, as compared to girls with brunette hair, which I happen to be sexually attracted to. Same goes for black women. I'm not sexually attracted to them, but that doesn't mean I treat them any different than white girls, for example.
There have been people that say things to me like "you're comparing apples and oranges" when I compare my sexual attraction (or lack there of) to black women and other things...like girls with red hair, girls who are amputees, bald women, etc. In all reality, sexual attraction (or lack there of) to Exhibit A works the same way with Exhibit B, C, D, etc. You're either sexually attracted to them or not.
No one thinks twice about me not being sexually attracted to girls with red hair. But, the minute that the world "black" gets involved, people start throwing the race card around like it's a football. Why? Because people loooooove to cry "racism". The problem with racism, IMO, is that people LOOK for it. Yes, racism exists and anyone who claims that it doesn't needs a head check. But, people LOOK for racism and a reason to get upset and take a defensive stand point.
People...if you LOOK for a problem, you're going to find one. It's
that simple.
:2 cents: