hear my now, believe me later....
GET SOME NEW FUCKING FRIENDS, BRO
If you are a virgin past 18, its because you don't have any confidence and your social network is for shit. If you had any decent friends, you'd be hanging around and banging snatch no matter what you look like.
The clubs will work....but if you're by yourself you will come off as a loser or a rapist.
No, this is what you said.
I dont see where it says you go with friends to anywhere.
"You'd be hanging around and banging snatch"
Perhaps poor phrasing but that implies let your friends be your fuck buddies or sexual outlet.
" If you go out - go clubbing and don't talk to dozens of females by the end of the night, then the friends you're hanging out with are hurrrible"
What part do your friends play in you speaking to girls? Other than prompting you, the move is yours to make, short of your friends throwing you into a bystanding girl, responsibility falls to the individual. Blaming it on friends is an excuse made by someone who lacks the balls to do it himself. Equally the man who waits for the woman to speak to him, is gonna be sat lonely on that barstool.
"If you think telling this guy to go read books at the library, and hopefully some girl will walk up to him and they will fall madly in love and fuck......ha!"
No one said that at all. Why should the only place to meet someone be in the cliche hell of a drunken night at a club. People meet everywhere and easily by accident, the person who goes looking to meet someone intentionally can just as easily meet no one whereas someone, lets use your example, on a trip to a library can meet someone.
You dont meet people just to "fuck", sex is just a small part of a relationship. If all you want is sex, go pay for it. Relationships exist to give us all someone to share our lives with, not just a sexual partner.