Im A Virgin!

Honestly just be yourself don't try to be someone your not. If you're not confident don't try all of a sudden to act confident as you'll just make yourself look stupid. All girls are different some like confidence, some like good looks, some like someone who makes them laugh,etc. So just be yourself and I'm sure that someone will like you just for being you
 
Honestly just be yourself don't try to be someone your not. If you're not confident don't try all of a sudden to act confident as you'll just make yourself look stupid. All girls are different some like confidence, some like good looks, some like someone who makes them laugh,etc. So just be yourself and I'm sure that someone will like you just for being you
& some like guys that are not that good looking. . .
 
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GET SOME NEW FUCKING FRIENDS, BRO


If you are a virgin past 18, its because you don't have any confidence and your social network is for shit. If you had any decent friends, you'd be hanging around and banging snatch no matter what you look like.

The clubs will work....but if you're by yourself you will come off as a loser or a rapist.
 
hear my now, believe me later....


GET SOME NEW FUCKING FRIENDS, BRO


If you are a virgin past 18, its because you don't have any confidence and your social network is for shit. If you had any decent friends, you'd be hanging around and banging snatch no matter what you look like.

The clubs will work....but if you're by yourself you will come off as a loser or a rapist.

That is outstanding advice.

Simultaneously a delicious generalisation of a member based on post and another massive assumption on what it takes to get laid.

I wasnt aware our social networks existed to give people over 18 easily accessible "snatch". We dont pick our friends based on whether or not we'd fuck them or not.

If that is how you look at your friends, then I pity you more than the OP.

That is the last advice on earth you wanna listen to.


Similalirly there is nothing wrong with going to a club, but you wouldnt go alone, you go with friends and what happens, happens.
 
Yes....

Don't post your personal details all over a adult message board.
 
you wouldnt go alone, you go with friends and what happens, happens.
......."you go with friends.."
thats exactly what I said.

Obviously, this guy hasn't been doing that because whatever friends he is hanging around with are lame.

If you have an active social network (people you interact with), you get introduced to all types of peope (i.e. "girls"). The more people you interact with, the more opportunities you have to meet people...the greater likelihood 1) your social confidence rises 2) the odds of you meeting girlS rise exponentionally. His friends serve as social training wheels - and if they are worth a shit, they too, will draw people to them. If you go out - go clubbing and don't talk to dozens of females by the end of the night, then the friends you're hanging out with are hurrrible

If you think telling this guy to go read books at the library, and hopefully some girl will walk up to him and they will fall madly in love and fuck......ha!
 
hear my now, believe me later....


GET SOME NEW FUCKING FRIENDS, BRO


If you are a virgin past 18, its because you don't have any confidence and your social network is for shit. If you had any decent friends, you'd be hanging around and banging snatch no matter what you look like.

The clubs will work....but if you're by yourself you will come off as a loser or a rapist.

No, this is what you said.

I dont see where it says you go with friends to anywhere.

"You'd be hanging around and banging snatch"

Perhaps poor phrasing but that implies let your friends be your fuck buddies or sexual outlet.

" If you go out - go clubbing and don't talk to dozens of females by the end of the night, then the friends you're hanging out with are hurrrible"

What part do your friends play in you speaking to girls? Other than prompting you, the move is yours to make, short of your friends throwing you into a bystanding girl, responsibility falls to the individual. Blaming it on friends is an excuse made by someone who lacks the balls to do it himself. Equally the man who waits for the woman to speak to him, is gonna be sat lonely on that barstool.

"If you think telling this guy to go read books at the library, and hopefully some girl will walk up to him and they will fall madly in love and fuck......ha!"

No one said that at all. Why should the only place to meet someone be in the cliche hell of a drunken night at a club. People meet everywhere and easily by accident, the person who goes looking to meet someone intentionally can just as easily meet no one whereas someone, lets use your example, on a trip to a library can meet someone.

You dont meet people just to "fuck", sex is just a small part of a relationship. If all you want is sex, go pay for it. Relationships exist to give us all someone to share our lives with, not just a sexual partner.
 
Hello everyone im Anthony Williams and im a 22 years old. is it pathetic that im still a virgin. i don't have a lot of luck with women, partly due to the fact that im not that good looking. Anybody have any advice.


get a hotel room and a eightball. go on backpage.com, get a couple of hookers and you will have the night of your life :hatsoff:
 
Ok I was once like you, what you need to do is (it really works!) join up a few online dating sites or even ones for people looking for one night stands. You won't be successful about 75% of the time but send messages or winks to girls there you like the look of, you will eventually get a reply. Since you are shy i'm sure it will be easier to start talking to someone online than face to face. Just make sure you talk to girls that live near you lol no use getting to know a girl that lives cross country or in another country!
I'm not fucking with you because I was like you and me doing this I was able to gain confidence with girls and well met alot of girls off these sites and had ALOT of fun!! Just be patient and yeah you will have to subscribe to some of these sites but still its cheaper going out everynight buying drinks and not meeting anyone!!
I was a virgin til I was 21, lost it in England.......of yes!!
 
......."you go with friends.."
thats exactly what I said.

Obviously, this guy hasn't been doing that because whatever friends he is hanging around with are lame.

If you have an active social network (people you interact with), you get introduced to all types of peope (i.e. "girls"). The more people you interact with, the more opportunities you have to meet people...the greater likelihood 1) your social confidence rises 2) the odds of you meeting girlS rise exponentionally. His friends serve as social training wheels - and if they are worth a shit, they too, will draw people to them. If you go out - go clubbing and don't talk to dozens of females by the end of the night, then the friends you're hanging out with are hurrrible

If you think telling this guy to go read books at the library, and hopefully some girl will walk up to him and they will fall madly in love and fuck......ha!

well its official i need to get some friends. casue i don't have any.
 
well its official i need to get some friends. casue i don't have any.

I have a friend that is just like you. He's not the most good looking guy or the most confident but I always try and help him out whenever the boys and I go out. Usually we hit up the clubs or a party and I'll bring him along and sometimes and I'll introduce him to some of my female acquaintances. I feel sorry for him because I've known him for a long time and he's a really good guy so I always try to invite him whenever me and the boys hit the town.
 

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Save up your money, and buy a really hot, expensive call girl. Once you've "done it," the stigma and nervousness will pass. And you wouldn't believe how much your confidence will boost after that...once you've had your first "free" experience.
 
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