If your girlfriend wanted a career in stripping

[xX-Joanne-Xx]

I wouldn't be comfortable with it

 

[om3ga]

It's her life, her choice....but AverageAllStar has a point about her becoming more cynical about men.

 

[Becks...poamr]

If she wanted to do that, I would go ahead and let her as long as it was just stripping. I can't control what she does. I would advise against it though.

Just taking off my clothes in front of men and women, or can I pole dance, too?

 

[jk34]

i would date a stripper,
but woudnt want my actual girlfriend to strip,
unless of course i own the bar...j/k

 

[Magnet]

you know what the old saying is?

"Once a stripper, soon a pornstar"

 

[gunslingingbird]

I wouldn't want my girlfriend to be a stripper. I have a few friends that strip and I've heard all sorts of horror stories about the business, and I really wouldn't want someone that I care about like my girlfriend to have to go through some of the things my friends have gone through. Besides, my girlfriend is WAY too shy to get naked in front of a bunch of people.

 

[member2013]

you know what the old saying is?

"Once a stripper, soon a pornstar"

:1orglaugh

 

[SacramentLoG]

I would give it a try....

 

[Juiceman]

I got NO problem with it.....I've talked with many strippers they make between 6 and 8 hundred a night. Holidays it's not uncommon to bring home 1200.00. TAX FREE!!!

 

[Ashleigh]

Well I'm not a stripper but I'm a camgirl so I can kinda speak from the other side of the fence. I have a boyfriend, long term, and we live together, however we didn't live together when I first started camming. He was uneasy at first...but has grown to accept it and be comfy with it. I keep my work and my personal life separate, and it hasn't affected our relationship, sexually or otherwise. He knows that the guys I cam for aren't guys I'm interested in, or are guys I'm gonna have feelings for...I do my job and when I'm done, I go to bed with my sweetheart.

Stripping is different than camming though I suppose. I'm not face to face with a customer getting naked, and I'm not rubbing any part of my body on another man. So maybe my opinion is void :tongue:

 

[jamrak]

this is simple.
if I knew that she wanted to be the stripper from the moment of our acquaintance (or if she had already started the career when we met) it would be ok. But if she imitated chastity from the beginning of our acquaintanceship, and later on knocks all of a heap telling about her wishes it might be a problem.

I do not want surprises. If I knew that she was a person with that state of mind (the desire to be a stripper is an important display of her nature, temper, principles etc) I would build relations on the basis of that knowledge. And if I didn't know about it, I would build relations in a different way, with different treatment and different emotions. So it is very important to know that stuff from the very beginning of relations, to put this person in a proper place inside your heart and soul, and not to get the laugh.

 

[Mistyck]

My ex-gf was a stripper. I had met her on the job and she and I became really good friends. She quit stripping 2 months before we started dating, and about 6 months into the relationship she wanted to start stripping again. I didn't have a problem with it because it was her life. We didn't last much longer after she started stripping again. It wasn't so much because she was stripping (although that was a factor), it was other problems, like her being psycho and almost getting me fired from my job.

But that being said, I couldn't stand if my bf/gf wanted to strip. If they want to strip they can do it without me in their life. I think that if you're in a relationship with someone, then that person needs to be the only person who sees your body in all it's glory. I wouldn't strip if I was in a relationship, but then again I wouldn't strip in the first place.

 

[squallumz]

i dated a girl who really really wanted to do it, when she got legal. i didnt know her that long, so i guess i didnt care. i said if u want to, do it. id be cool with it.

 

[lovejoy]

Good luck !

I can't speak for anyone. But it takes a "cool" head to work in a tough business.

 

[D-rock]

I think if it was just stripping and nothing else, where they could look but not touch, if she didn't ever get into drugs or get close to any of the shady characters in it, where it was in one of the better and classier strip clubs, and she was safe at all times I wouldn't really have a problem with it for somebody I loved.

Of course those situations aren’t easy to achieve if you’re going to try and be a stripper.

 

[spartan7]

I would dump.... that... bitch!

 

[hedonis]

I've known too many strippers through law enforcement. If the wife suddenly she needed to become a stripper, I would help her carefully pack all her shit into her car on her way out of my life.

Too much dope, too many abusive gang bangers, and hey... who wouldn't want a girlfriend/wife who lets a bunch of dudes lick her and grope her every night.

The cash would be nowhere near worth it.


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[Fresno]

I could date a stripper, if we got to the point where we are thinking of long term plans, she would have to stop. After we become close I would not another man or women to see her nude.

 

[JoshyJ]

No problem with it, she could become a pornstar if she wanted. As long as she does what she wants to do. And doesn't let anyone stop her from reaching her goals even if the goal is in between her legs.

 

[LBP 76]

If your longtime (more than a year) girlfriend wanted to become a stripper would you be comfortable with it? Do you think your relationship could survive or would her new career in stripping signal the beginning of the end?

Strippers have very low self esteem or require LOTS of cash for happiness. I have dated both types. Never again.