I haven't actually watched or DL'd any of the vids in the OP's links, but I'll add this. Sometimes the concept of ***** is in the attitude and approach. I've long been at a loss to understand how a cum facial is necessarily, inherently abusive. If the woman doesn't want it and it's ****** upon her, then duh, yes, of course it's abusive (actually, it's assault). But sure, it's not neatly black and white. Some women must be in such a degraded state of mind they don't know if/when they are actually subjecting themselves to mistreatment, unfortunately. But it's really hard to call. Supposedly some people - women and men - ENJOY being pissed on. I did that with an ex-GF of mine, and she did it to me, a couple of times, but we were already, both of us, taking a shower together, so it was mostly just for giggles (but not for shits!) - I don't think either of us found it a turn-on, just being goofy. But the idea of you know, calling some woman a worthless whore, writing that on her forehead with a marker and then ******* all over her, ******* her (or at least simulating as much), and slapping her face - that ain't cool. I can't understand how a woman might find that enjoyable or satisfying, or how a man could, either. Being tied up and having your ass whipped a bit, well, that's different.
It's a hard call. Which is why, again, if I were to even consider it, I'd want to have an honest chat over a **** or two with the girl to see where she's coming from.
Aside from all that, though, I don't like the idea of having the slightest chance that some other dude's cum will be touching my skin, whether my cock or anywhere else...