So there is this girl I work with who I really like. We've been talking steadily on messenger for a few weeks now (its hard for us to talk at work...its loud and we work on opposite sides of the plant
). I just recently discovered through a mutual friend that she got back with her boyfriend but here is the kicker: Her boyfriend is a long distance relationship and he lives over seas. She hasnt seen him in like 3 years (hence why the broke up in the first place). Now my usual stance on these kinds of situations is to back off. I never go after a girl who already has someone but because it's a long distance relationship (and the fact that they would barely see each other) I still want to pursue her because I've liked her for awhile now and we seem to have a whole **** load of things in common. Is this a good idea or a bad idea?