I fucked my good friends sister, need advise.

Kingfisher

Here Zombie, Zombie, Zombie...
You screwed up. Sorry, but I would never screw my best friends sister (who I have known since I was 6). Screw the sisters friend. That's fine.
 
I can see a situation where a person have sex with their friend's sister maybe being alright if both of the person and the sister had developed genuine feeling towards each other. A one night stand, however, is awkward predicament indeed.
 
Strange. I find myself agreeing with the wingnuts this time. I guess as someone who grew up with an older sister who was popular and dated well, the idea of a sister "hooking up" is something that brothers basically have to learn to deal with.

I'm sorry but this isn't a high school anymore. The girl in question is a grown woman now. The OP is a man now.

You can't treat this woman as a "booty call" or a "fuck buddy" unless you're willing to sacrifice your friendship. You'll have to immediately PASS/GO to BF/GF status if you want to see her again.

It sounds like she's mature and knows what she's doing.
 
Let the rumor get out that you slept with his mom ... in his bed ... in front of his dog.
That way when he hears that you slept with his sister too, he won't believe it.

On second thought, you should probably bang his mom as indicated above in order to make the story more convincing and so the two of you can keep your stories straight.
If that doesn't work, move on to his grandma, then his dad, and just keep going.
Screw everybody that shares his last name and don't look back.

Trust me, he'll forget about the whole petty "sister thing".
:thumbsup:
 

Rey C.

Racing is life... anything else is just waiting.
Let the rumor get out that you slept with his mom ... in his bed ... in front of his dog.
That way when he hears that you slept with his sister too, he won't believe it.

On second thought, you should probably bang his mom as indicated above in order to make the story more convincing and so the two of you can keep your stories straight.
If that doesn't work, move on to his grandma, then his dad, and just keep going.
Screw everybody that shares his last name and don't look back.

Trust me, he'll forget about the whole petty "sister thing".
:thumbsup:

^I'd go with this^

Just like when you hit your thumb with a hammer - best thing to do is jab yourself in the eye with a sharp stick. You'll forget all about that thumb.

So yeah, either sleep with the rest of her family... or maybe just jab yourself in the eye with a sharp stick.
 
You should have thought of the ramifications before you did anything. Alcohol is a poor excuse. That being said, keep your mouths shut about it unless she wants something more. She's a consenting adult, you're a consenting adult, what two people do is their own business.

Think with the big head from now on

Tell him ALL about it!
Give him explicit details, sexual positions used, number of times you nailed her, etc.....leave noting out nor to the imagination.
You will feel better once it's all out and your friend will too as he no doubts already know what a dirty little whore his sister is & has always been - lol
don't sweat it!

:1orglaugh If this story is true, than I have to say that the posts above make sense.....and, you are fucked.
 
I hope it was good.

Because you just lost a friend, jack.

Unless he's a very rational, understanding guy, and you put it to him gently. You'd have to tell him. It's the right thing to do. If he found out from someone else, it'd be worse. If you guys really are good buds, then he'll be mad about it for a while, but eventually get over it. In theory.

If he's the kind of guy that holds a grudge, well you can just forget poker night.

At least it wasn't his younger sister. I'da broken your face.
 
If the two of you want this to lead to something more I wouldn't tell him just yet. I'd date her for a while and see if you both develope feelings for each other and then tell him. Chances are he will be happy for you because you're a good friend so he'll probably deem you "worthy" of his sister. Just make sure you tell him together and explain you have feelings for each other.

If it was a one night stand, well, the two of you are consenting adults so you should be mature enough to bear the burden of a guilty consience.
 

Supafly

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Strange. I find myself agreeing with the wingnuts this time. I guess as someone who grew up with an older sister who was popular and dated well, the idea of a sister "hooking up" is something that brothers basically have to learn to deal with.

I'm sorry but this isn't a high school anymore. The girl in question is a grown woman now. The OP is a man now.

You can't treat this woman as a "booty call" or a "fuck buddy" unless you're willing to sacrifice your friendship. You'll have to immediately PASS/GO to BF/GF status if you want to see her again.

It sounds like she's mature and knows what she's doing.

Spot on.

Just being fuckbuddies with a sister of a good friend will surely hurt your friendship, but friends of mine have made girlfriends, later one even wifes of buddies sisters.

That isn't such a big deal.
 

Wainkerr99

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Will E

If you have sex with a female I will guarantee anyone she is someone's daughter, sister, or both.

So, what's the big deal?

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You're going to have to marry her.
Sounds good.

Sounds logical.

Now I'm gonna go start some crazy ass thread. Mmmmmm.
 
I have a close friend who now lives about 2 hours away but we still hang out allot and shoot the shit often. we have been close friends for years now and that is why this is hard for me to figure out. The other night I was at the local bar and his sister was there. she is a couple years older than us but still around our age.. any ways she was looking good and we were dancing and next thing i know we were touchy feely then even kissed on the dance floor. when last call was made instead of going with the other buddies i came with i left with her. we proceeded to get nasty and i pounded her.

My dilemma is what do i do about my friend? I don't want to throw it in his face and piss him off and at the same time i don't want to not tell him and him find out from someone else and be mad that i didn't tell him my self. what should i do here. If this wasn't a good Buddie I wouldn't care but i don't want to loose a friend over a lay...

Go jump off a mountain.:thefinger
 
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