good advice here. KEEP IT SIMPLE bc you dont want her to think shes all youre thinking about bc it sounds to me like yall havent talked in a while and she could get a little creeped out by that. let her ask herself, then you can better gauge her interest in you. but telling her everything about you leaves nothing for conversation like someone said before... good advice...
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good advice here. KEEP IT SIMPLE bc you dont want her to think shes all youre thinking about bc it sounds to me like yall havent talked in a while and she could get a little creeped out by that. let her ask herself, then you can better gauge her interest in you. but telling her everything about you leaves nothing for conversation like someone said before... good advice...
Good points guys, thanks! I'm no that far away from the town I used to live in. It's about 15-20 minutes away from my current location.
I'll give you some helpful advice. Go find other women you are interested in and sleep with them. After you hook up with few other women ask yourself if you still have this thing for this girl. Her message to you still was pretty vague and showed no interest even though women are masters of subtlety. I understand you have a thing for this girl because everyone has that one person they always wanted to hook up with. Is this girl on your mind because you want her or because right now you are lonely?:dunno:
Honestly, I've been biting my tongue. You are too wired up if you're asking us to proof read what you want to send her. Not that it's bad, but I'd calm down and try to get something as simple as possible going back and forth. Do it casually and see what happens, but you are putting an awful lot of your energy into the hope this will turn into something magical for you.
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Thanks for the kind words. Oh, you’re at Georgian eh? That’s good. I could go on about some teachers when I was at Seneca, ha, ha! The people in my classes were great, but some of those teachers were something else!!! A reunion sounds great. Let me know when your free and we can set something up.
Just message her back and see when and where she might be interested in meeting up with you and take it from there. Really, if it's been a while and you drifted apart then you're not even going to know if she's the same person that you've had feelings for all these years. College definitely changes people. Have a lunch with her and see where it goes. If nothing else, you'll at least have made an appearance in her life again and she'll be thinking about you.
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[Optional Closing Sentence: That 80lbs. I lost relocated due South to my cock. I've got a 14 incher now :eek:]
You've got a looong way to go my man. IMO, you like the idea of her more than you do her. People change a LOT. One facebook message doesn't mean you two will get along great. It's obvious, judging by your weight loss alone that you've changed a lot (not just physically... you've probably got a different mindset and are a more determined and focused person), and I'm sure she has to. Did you ever think there was a reason you were with different crowds in highschool? Different people!
I'd suggest messaging back and forth occasionally. You'll want to make sure that this girl isn't bad news....and if you still think you'll get along great after getting to know her a bit better, work on getting her phone number or her email address... but since you're already on facebook i'd build from there and go straight for the number.
Eventually you can call her, and try to set up a meeting/date.
I'd suggest messaging back and forth occasionally. You'll want to make sure that this girl isn't bad news....and if you still think you'll get along great after getting to know her a bit better, work on getting her phone number or her email address... but since you're already on facebook i'd build from there and go straight for the number.
Eventually you can call her, and try to set up a meeting/date.
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